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Should I tell her I know that she's having an affair?
Q. i know my wife is havingan affair with a man where she works, should i tell her that i know?...
A. 23 November 2008: Hi you havn't really said what your relationship is like with your wife, or how long you've been together.
I think it also depends on how you feel about the situation, and how much you love her. I personally would have to tell her i know, ta... (read in full...)
I can leave all other women I am seeing but not this married woman, and she wants to end our affair now!
Q. Hello I 'm here once again for ur guidness I realy love you all auntyzee who spare time for others. well this time, I 'm goin to show you the other side of my coin. it like this, I having an afair with the married women whos havin one kid too, al...
A. 23 November 2008: Hi you are a busy boy, hope you are using safe sex do they all know about each other? Firstly you can't go on using people the way you are, you have to sit and take a good look at your life, were your heading and with whom. All them you sa... (read in full...)
I have all these qualities and yet don't have a boyfriend... what am I doing wrong?
Q. Confidence? Beauty? Personality? I have all of that, except confidence and I've never had a boyfriend....What am I doing wrong?...
A. 23 November 2008: Hi lucky you. I wish i had all them qualities. Believe me your not doing anything wrong,i just think think that because your so lovely boys most propably think you wouldn't want to know.
It may be a case of if you fancy someone, you may have to ... (read in full...)
I get really nervous when doing a presentation, as my classmates always make fun of me! What could I do?
Q. I get really nervous when presenting a presentation.For so many years I hate doing presentations. I don't like to present because my classmates will laugh at me once I start walking up to the front of the class, they make fun of me, and do sound ...
A. 23 November 2008: OOh dear,we've all had the immature, selfish class mates at some point in our lives. I feel you could be quite good at what you do,and take it seriously, were there most propably not interested, it's a bit like people who play bingo, you always get ... (read in full...)
I feel like there's something wrong inside of my head and I need guidance.
Q. I really hope this doesn't sound stupid. :( In the last few years, I've had a few problems in my life, as everyone does. My brother attempted suicide two years ago and it kind of put my family in a really awkward situation.. Like, everyone was los...
A. 23 November 2008: HI thanks for replying,hope were all helping to make you feel a bit better. The way your feeling is natural,Take comfort in your brothers baby, you might even find you have a special bond with it, because of your loss.
As for your mum, were you... (read in full...)
My hair is falling out due to stress!
Q. i'm dealing with a great amount of stress and my hair is falling out! can anyone help me stop this?...
A. 22 November 2008: Hi sorry to hear about your predicament,apart from being embarrassing for you, it must be adding to all your other worries. Stess affects different people in different ways, i think you've just been unlucky.
Check with your doctor, see if it's alo... (read in full...)
I feel like there's something wrong inside of my head and I need guidance.
Q. I really hope this doesn't sound stupid. :( In the last few years, I've had a few problems in my life, as everyone does. My brother attempted suicide two years ago and it kind of put my family in a really awkward situation.. Like, everyone was los...
A. 22 November 2008: Hi you poor bain, life has dealt you a lousy hand. I think yu've done really well to cope with it all, and no wonder you're feeling down.
Try to think back and see if anything has happened in the past that has made you feel insecure, jealousy... (read in full...)
Married spiritually but not legally and his ex won't leave!
Q. Hey everyone, this may make me sound like a bad person, but belive me I'm not! I have dated a married man for about 5 years on and off, he was having trouble with his marriage as he said but it was true and the last 2 years he had seperated from his ...
A. 20 November 2008: Ooh dear looks like you,ve been taken for a ride, I'm inclined to agree with the others i.m afraid, no way is this man divorced, and no way are you married, i think you,ve been lead up the garden path. Did you ever think to check if he could be d... (read in full...)
I said I see him as a close friend. Does this leave room for being more than friends?
Q. hello. ive been talking to my best lad mates friend alot recently, weve became really close friends, weve just been talkin about my best lad mate i said i saw him as a brother, the mate of his asked what i saw him as. i said close friends, what i ...
A. 19 November 2008: Certainly not, most people who are friends end up as lovers, there's only a thin dividing line between them. If you like this this guy wait for the right opportunity, then let him know you'd like to be more, he could be trying to find out how you... (read in full...)
How should I act around this guy who might like me but has a GF?
Q. ok please please please help me im beginning to go insane trying to figure out whats going on in this *certain someones* mind. i will first tell u about about me and him and u can decide. well i didnt know this guy at all until less than a year ago...
A. 19 November 2008: Hi i think you have an admirer here, so you have to decide if you like him or not. He obviously is interested in you, and i think he's waiting for a reaction from you.
He seems to be going out of his way to let you know he likes you, and he's not... (read in full...)
We're not going out so why doesn't he like me hugging other guys?
Q. I don't understand, right this lad i am really close fiends to, and he always hugs me and stuff, and when other lads want to hug me he gets dead over powering and doesnt let them or gets like dead protective and obsessive and jealous, like he will ...
A. 19 November 2008: Hi sweetie thanks for your question.
I think your friend has found his first attraction, and it seems to be you. he sees you as more than just a friend, which is why he flirts to try and make you jealous. I would have a talk with this guy and ... (read in full...)
We've been having an afair for 12 years and now he is gone. What do I do?
Q. well here goes i am new on here. I had in affair for 12 years im married he has a live in girlfriend with the same woman for 12 years. the affair came so stressful i did everything i could to hold on to him. Well he started to make up excuses with ...
A. 17 November 2008: ooh dear i feel you've fallen into the trap of giving a man his cake and eating it, and i'm sorry you had to get so hurt in the prossess put after twelve years, if he was still with his mistress I don't see how it could off ended any other way.
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Help getting over a break up - he's gone back to his wife and I'm so so sad.
Q. My lover of 3 years went back to his wife. It has been about 8 days now since i have talked to him. I am devastated. Today is my birthday. I am trying to be happy. At least once a day I break down and ichat with him for a bit. He is sad too, but has ...
A. 17 November 2008: Hi it's going to be hard but give yourself time and move on. You never said whether they were apart when you met,but with that many ties he's never going to be free, which is why he has most propably gone back. Happy birthday but why try and be ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied over a drunken one night stand.
Q. im sick and tired now! and i cant face it anymore, back in july i split up with my boyfriend of nearly two years, i was only fourteen when i fell in love, and we lasted 22 months! until his mum got made redundant and they ended up moving away, he ...
A. 17 November 2008: You poor thing stop beating yourself up. At such a tender age it's hard to go out with someone for that long, and them not be your first real love, i know i've been there. Seems to me your ex still has feelings for you, why else would he be making ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me, and yet I still think about her, why?
Q. I went out with this girl for a year and a half. I really loved her, and I thought, from the way she acted and talked, that she loved me too. About 2 months go we broke up, and afterwords I found out that she had been cheating on me with somone ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi
sorry your'e so upset,it's a long time to be with someone when you're ready for a serious relationship. I honestly don't feel that she felt the same way. Your going to think about her alot, and it's going to take time, but time heals and even... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a guy to forget his ex? I don't want to be his rebound!
Q. How long does it take for a guy to forget his ex? they had been going out for about three years but they ended it about 5 months ago but i still see his ex's photos in his facebook (one which he put up recently). I kind of like this guy but i don't ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi
Don't blame you for not wanting to be second best. How long does it take to forget, well how long is a piece of sting, depends how much he loved her. He obviously isn't over her if she's on his face book, If you really like this guy i would turn... (read in full...)
Why would he even want to mess around with me if he already had a girlfriend? How can I show him I'm better than her?
Q. My brother is friends with this guy who happens to be black. When I saw him around I would ways try to make conversation with him but he never talked too much. A few months ago he got a job at my work and started flirting with me. We started ...
A. 15 November 2008: HI
First of all i don't think you should just stop talking to someone maybe if you had asked him if anything was wrong and why he suddenly stopped texting you,and about the rumours with this other girl, i think you would have a clearer view of wher... (read in full...)
Attracted to him, but don't want another long distance relationship, should I go with the flow?
Q. Hi everyone.Im looking for some honest opinions on my situation.I recently started talking to this great guy by chance on a popular gaming website.Just in a matter of a couple days we have really hit it off..it was an immediate spark i guess you ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi! what a dillemma to be in,sounds like you really like this guy, to be honest unless your prepared to move away or he is, i can't really see this relationship working. I also feel the longer you leave it the harder it will become.
You obvi... (read in full...)
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