He gets too nervous to talk to me and I don't kow if I should just end it!
Q. I have been going out with this guy for about 7 months, I really like him. I think he is my first love. The only thing is we never talk in person; he gets too nervous. We hang around with the same friends but we never talk. I can talk to him by ...
A. 23 February 2006: Hey There Ok, just to say, us guys who were shy in school turn out to be superstars so stick with em, na I'm just kidding. You definately shouldn't end it with him unless there is no love between you. I've had dozens of girlfriends over the y... (read in full...)
What age should you be to have sex the first time?
Q. Hey, I am wondering whether to have sex for the 1st time. I am 14 and so is my girlfriend. She has done it before and is kean for me to join her, but I am not entirely sure about what to do. Please help me! P.Enguin...
A. 23 February 2006: Hey There I could be like my parents back in my childhood and say "you are way too young to have sex", but times have changed. In some ways sex is worth it, if you are doing it with the person you love and are using double protection (i sa... (read in full...)
The average age people start to ahve relationships?
Q. hi just wondering what the average age is for people to start going out with others. I am 16 and have never gone out with anyone and wondering if i dont any time soon will kind of miss the gun. Will soon be going to sixth form or an apprentership so ...
A. 23 February 2006: Hey There Just to say, like others have said before me, there is no average age, my first girlfriend was when i was 13! Seems ridiculous looking back on it now, the amount of time i chucked away with my friends when I could've played football ... (read in full...)
Would she dump me if she knows I've never kissed anyone yet?
Q. I'm 13, 14 on the 26th. I haven't had my first kiss yet. I like this girl who's in most of my classes. She's naturally flirty around boys. I'm just wondering, if I did go out with her, I would be worried if she would dump me since I haven't had my ...
A. 16 February 2006: Hey man I was in a situation just like yours, you shouldn't worry, your first kiss is always going to be a new and weird experiance at first. The did crap when i had mine with this girl but she didn't care, if she likes you then she'll look for how ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend...but very intrigued with her best friend
Q. I am 16 years old and i love my girlfriend very much. But recently I'm feeling strange about her best friend. I think I might be in love with her too. What do I do? I feel like my girlfriend could be my soul mate but then I'm intrigued by the best ...
A. 30 November 2005: Hey there Dude, stuff like this normal, i mean I'd say what your feeling for her friend is maybe a mere crush, you are just attracted to her. Just think about it this way, you have two options, you can either wait for it to pass, if you love your... (read in full...)
I love my friend but his friend wants me...help!
Q. hi im inlove with one of my best friends i no he likes me too but he has a girlfriend. now i found out his best mate (my good mate) likes me instead i dont know what to do because i no they talk about me when im not there please help!...
A. 29 November 2005: Hi there A difficult scenario you have placed there. Well, who you love is the key factor, just because someone might, you don't have to love them out of guilt or whatever the reason may be. If you love this boy and he likes you too, I'd say tes... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but wants me...what do I do?
Q. Please Help. I'm 14 and about 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. We hardly ever saw each other. When we broke up I was heart broken, but about a week ago I realized I had to move on, seeing as he had gone out and found himself a girlfrie...
A. 29 November 2005: Hey there I wish people would stop saying your to young to love. Anyways it depends, why did you break up, if he still likes you it gives you two options, take his offer, he'll probably cast away his girlfriend and it MAY work out, if you let ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my relationship is over?
Q. How do I know if my relationship is really over? Should I just give up?...
A. 29 November 2005: Hey Erm.. sorry same prob, I would suggest the signs he shows but you don't provide really enough source to let us give you a descent answer I'm afraid : ( Viper... (read in full...)
Can a believe my boyfriend, that the condoms were just meant as a joke?
Q. I have been with my bf for about 2 years. A while ago I was trying to find some pens etc in his school bag to do some school work, but instead I found some cardboard all taped up and inside it I found 2 condoms and some lubricant. One of the ...
A. 29 November 2005: Hey there Well I gota tell you, boys at that kinda time in their lives are like that, i know : ). If you like him you should make sure that you can believe him with anything. If you can't believe your lover there is no love. Boys do a lot of ... (read in full...)
For 8 weeks, he did the chasing. Now it's "I need my space"!
Q. Been in a relationship 8 weeks. It's been wonderful. He has done all the chasing. I've stepped back. I'm 41 and have been hurt twice. I know his feelings are real. He is 47. We have been doing a lot together with our daughters and on our own. The...
A. 15 November 2005: Do you realise that he may feel as if the feeling is one-sided, you say "He has done all the chasing" well if you do want the relationship to work you can't just let him do all the work, even though he may of started it, it is a relationship where ... (read in full...)
Don't want to tell him how strongly I feel about him, because I might lose our friendship entirely...
Q. I still have feelings for an ex-boyfriend I was with 5 years ago. After the breakup, we have kept in contact and became closer than we were when together. He is now my best friend who knows everything. He has a girlfriend, in which he says very ...
A. 11 November 2005: Hmm.. hard, who actually broke up with who?
If it was him that broke up with you I'd try and find someone else as he seems to only want you as a friend.
If you broke up with him I suggest that you tell him about your feelings, but try not to shock... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about the girl in school, even though she's dating someone else...
Q. Dear cupid, I have a problem in school, well, a love problem. I love this girl to bits in school but she is going out with someone. He is a really horrible and I hate him. But what the problem is, is that I can't stop looking and thinking...
A. 11 November 2005: Hi fellow Viper : ) I've been in your situation once before, the most beautiful and attractive girl is in the hands of your enemy. Well, you have to take into consideration that she may love him even though he might be horrible, you also have ... (read in full...)
She wants a break from the relationship, but I don't!
Q. hey.. I'm having a very big problem right now. Me and my girlfriend we have been going out for 4 months plus. We just had a big argument, about me being childish and that I always hurt her feelings, when in fact she is the ne who is hurting ...
A. 11 November 2005: Dude I've had exactly the same problem in the past, my advice is to let her have her space, if you insist on telling her that you are sorry don't keep at it.
Relationships sometimes need this period of time, it does help, from my experiance, with... (read in full...)
How can we communicate and learn to understand each other without arguing?
Q. My bf and I are not communicating, we are arguing. I will try to say, how I feel, he becomes defensive and thinks I am blaming him for how I feel. He suggests something and all I hear is rejection. We both know men and women are different and ...
A. 30 October 2005: Relationships can be hard sometimes, a situation like this could be improved by you two actually putting time out to explain eac other's feelings, ask him how he feels and try to include how you feel but not in a way which will put him thinking that ... (read in full...)
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