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writes: hey.. I'm having a very big problem right now.Me and my girlfriend we have been going out for 4 months plus. We just had a big argument, about me being childish and that I always hurt her feelings, when in fact she is the ne who is hurting my feelings. She said to me yesterday that she wants to have a break from this relationship, she also said that don't expect me to pick up your calls or even talk to you. It's a break, that was what she said to me.I don't know what am I supposed to do. I tried to tell her that I am sorry, in which I am the one who is not guilty. At least I tried to say sorry, right? But she instead made the problem bigger.I don't know what should I do. She wants to have a break.I dont think I can take that cause I really love her.Pls help me..
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reader, Viper  +, writes (11 November 2005):
 Dude I've had exactly the same problem in the past, my advice is to let her have her space, if you insist on telling her that you are sorry don't keep at it.
Relationships sometimes need this period of time, it does help, from my experiance, with my ex gf, she askd for a break and i kept calling her and getting her to talk to me about the problem.
Whatever you do, try to clear your mind and think about something else, because at the end of the day if you keep thinking about this the more your going to want to sort things out.
Just remember women's minds are a hell of alot more different than ours, whatever your age is, I'm sure you do love her but you must realise if this girl is worth waiting for or not.
Just don't do anything stupid, women need their thinking space sometimes so the best idea is to just give them hat they want.
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