Ex and I thrown together because of friends but he won't even speak to me!
Q. We dated for two years and then I broke up with him because I was in college and it wasn't working with us. Kind of hit him out of the blue because he had no clue anything was wrong. He logged on my fb and read a convo between me and this guy that I ...
A. 10 August 2011: Boys are grumpy selfish creatures sometimes, by sleeping with others you've hurt him and though he hurt you, in his eyes what you did was worse and he feels you sould be the one to appoligise
Its sounds like if you do want to be friends with him ... (read in full...)
Falling out of love with my girlfriend and falling in love again with a friend from the past.....
Q. i'm 24 years old. im really confused about what's going on right now. i've been straight when i was a kid. but when i met my friend 5 years ago and she was also my classmate. we had a lot of escapades. we were drinking, partying, we kissed. until ...
A. 10 August 2011: firstly you have to break up withy our currant girlfriend, you don't love her because she loves you its leading her on
then just enjoy spending time with your friend(the one you like) and deveop that into a relationship
Good luck, hope everyth... (read in full...)
Why does he have to draw attention to women dressed like hookers when we are out?
Q. When I first met my boyfriend he used to comment about how attractive a film star was etc in detail and it used to get to get to me as he went on a bit. He wasnt very experienced in relationships and his sister told me to be blunt with him. Things ...
A. 10 August 2011: You have very fair reasons to says not look at these woman but to but asking him not to look at woman it is being very controlling and i'm afraid will only make him angry. remeber he chose you, if a really fit guy toppless came past you might want a ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be alone, I want a guy in my life!
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old gay guy and I'm so desperate to fall in love. I'm so tired of being alone and depressed it's so much harder for us to find good, genuine, lasting relationships. I just want to find a boy that makes me happy and that I'm able ...
A. 9 August 2011: have you tried dating websites but because you're young that might be bad idea, get yourself in situations where there will be loads of people around and make your seem friendly and approachable and just try and meet someone, enjoy yourself flirt a ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly concerned that my current relationship will be adversely affected by a past crush of mine?
Q. I'm 22 years old i am in a loving relationship with my partner who i've been with for over a year 15 months today actually. But before i found my partner now i did like a friend whom i thought felt possibly the same towards me as things happ...
A. 7 August 2011: We can't control our dreams and i think that because you and your old friend had undiscussed feeling, this is just your sub-consisious way of dealing with them and there nothing to worry about. along as you don't develop feelings of regret or desire ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has taken me back with strange condition , please help me
Q. 25 days back, my ex-girlfriend took me back after 15 months break up with her. We were together for 2 years before I dumping her in first week of January 2010 . I left her telling her to try new options in my option ... I mean dating new girls. ...
A. 7 August 2011: Firsly, as a girl, i would find it hard to forgive something like that and this is just her way of accepting you back and venting her feelings of anger towards you
BUT she can't continue doing this to you, its wrong and it needs to stop, you have... (read in full...)
How can I show this guy that I am interested in more than just friends?
Q. I have now met an older guy .we have been out three times and get on have lots in common. He has told me by text he likes me a lot and I feel that there is chemistry there. He hasn't made any romantic move on me though and I feel confused and don't ...
A. 7 August 2011: agreed with the anwser above, a questions about want he looks for in a woman, physical contact is a brilliant way of show someone you care without being too daring or forward. touching shoulders, hands, arms, knees, whatever. try and meet up more ... (read in full...)
How to go from pecking to more?
Q. Simple enough question. Ive got a new bf love him to pieces. we have only pecked so far. how do i like go from peckng to getting off with him as ive never done it before and dont know how to take it from there is it natural or what? x ...
A. 7 August 2011: Next time your alone togerther after he pecks you, put him back and give him a proper kiss, then judging by his reacting you can deside when would be a good time to start getting off with him... (read in full...)
Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? Is he a mama's boy?
Q. Am I too clingy or do we not see each other enough? I am my boyfriend's first legitimate and serious girlfriend. I, on the other hand, have experienced a serious relationship before. I am the type of person that really loves to devote myself to my ...
A. 7 August 2011: Your not being self at all, i can totally see why you feel this way, its totally understandable, must people would feel the same and your being kind and lovely about it respecting his mother and not just going mental at him.
the good thing is... (read in full...)
Very insecure, which causes me to be scared of everything in the relationship
Q. Me and my boyfriend have indeed broke up in the past, but now we are together and better than before. In the past my boyfriend broke up with me and that totally shattered me. And possibly my lack of trust for my boyfriend is because I have been hur...
A. 7 August 2011: Every girl can feel like this, i know i have. but listen he thinks your "the most beautiful in the world" and you are to him. He can talk to any one, but the girl he want to be with, spend his life with is you. Think about that when if he's talk to ... (read in full...)
We aren't even married yet and I feel like we're already past the honeymoon stage!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now. We moved in together a year ago, and I absolutely feel married! Sex drive is gone, brushing my teeth at 6am before he wakes up, terrfied to let him see me without make up..etc all of that gon...
A. 5 August 2011: Firsty well done 4 years is a long time and that great but you seem to be in a rut. Tell him you need to have an open heart to heart, it great that your comfortable but you need some passion and some desire for each other.
You probably would li... (read in full...)
Is he still deciding if he wants to be a friend or not?
Q. I sent a friend request to a guy I used to see. We had seen each other on and off through a rough time in both our lives. We never really expected much from it. We were friends on FB. After seeing him again I realized it wasn't going anywhere. I was ...
A. 5 August 2011: Keep the request, its the only way you can know how he feels, you lose keeping it, and if you cancel the request you'll only wonder and end up sending another... (read in full...)
Why do I still love her so much after all that was done?
Q. Dearest friends, I'm in love, as far as Iv heard...love is... When your heart jumps wildly when you see the person you love, you become speechless, you shiver, you don't sleep at night because you think about that person so much...and so on... A...
A. 5 August 2011: It sounds like you really love this girl and thats really beatiful. Its horrible when they don't feel same but unless you find out how she feels your always feel like this. You have to tell her, do it softly and respect her reply but you need to do ... (read in full...)
Confused on this whole stiuation, is he playing mind games?
Q. I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should...
A. 5 August 2011: He does sound sweet but i personally thinkyou made yourself too avaiable, i'm not saying ignore or be mean. i think you should try act a bit more mysterious and make him chase you. And if he wants to marry and give you the promise ring then he want ... (read in full...)
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