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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I'm a 16 year old gay guy and I'm so desperate to fall in love. I'm so tired of being alone and depressed it's so much harder for us to find good, genuine, lasting relationships. I just want to find a boy that makes me happy and that I'm able to make him happy as well. I want someone to share my life with. I've never been in a relationship, and I know I'm young but we don't control time or where the wind blows. It's sad to say that the last 16 years of my life have been a depressing ball of disappointment. Don't I deserve to be happy? And tbh I just want a boy to come into my life and save me from it because I'm drowning. And I don't want to live a clear cut life anymore. I've learned that being nice gets you no where. Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. We just live to suffer and then we die. This life is meaningless. I see things differently now than I did 4 years ago. I'm almost at the where I no longer have any emotions. I just want reach a point in my life and be genuinely happy and think...hmmm this is worth living for. And I think finding the right guy might be my life raft
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 get some help to get over the depression that your life has caused you. do not depend on the knight in shining armour to rescue you, it might never happen and your desperation to get a guy and be in love and loved by him will likely lead to make bad choices in relationships. seriously -
desperation = TROUBLE
get help or you face a life time of drifting into bad relationships, needing another one to patch up the damage caused by the last. learn to be self sufficient. nobody wants anything meaningful with someone who is only with them out of desperation.
best wishes
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reader, VelvetUnderground +, writes (9 August 2011):
have you tried dating websites but because you're young that might be bad idea, get yourself in situations where there will be loads of people around and make your seem friendly and approachable and just try and meet someone, enjoy yourself flirt a bit, go to a club, be your self and then you'll find someone who loves you for thateveryone wants love, to feel like there's someone to give your heart and soul to, but something so perfect take time so don't rush it just have fun and enjoy the new experiences, you sound like you really deserve something perfectGood luck, hope your sun soon shines !!!
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