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anonymous
writes:I'm 22 years old i am in a loving relationship with my partner who i've been with for over a year 15 months today actually. But before i found my partner now i did like a friend whom i thought felt possibly the same towards me as things happened between us, not such as kissing, but used to be touchy towards each other and stuff. But i then found my partner now and it was an immediate attraction with us. I am extremely in love with my partner he's the best thing to ever happen in my life.But ever so often i do dream of my friend i still see him now and again but i do not have that attraction towards him but i find myself dreaming of him often such as last night in my dream he went to kiss me on the lips but i turned my cheek so he kissed my cheeks a few times and then there were some guys he knew in my dream i don't know who they were but he told them i was the most beautiful girl in the world (which i would even find it hard to believe anyways) and i just get concerned that perhaps i still have feelings sub consciously... but as i say when i see him we're ok we talk but i never feel the feelings i used to i just find him as a friend but then i get these dreams. My partner knows i used to like him and he's met him but they get on very well as my partner does with all of my friends. I sometimes feel guilty i have these dreams in case i do have sub concious feelings. But because when i liked my friend he was always hot and cold sometimes talk to me other times didn't i don't know whether in my mind i still wonder what would've happened if something didhappen.... Do you think i'm being overly concerned?
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reader, VelvetUnderground +, writes (7 August 2011):
We can't control our dreams and i think that because you and your old friend had undiscussed feeling, this is just your sub-consisious way of dealing with them and there nothing to worry about. along as you don't develop feelings of regret or desire for your old friend it should be fine. you have nothing to feel guilty about. just enjouy being with the person you love
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