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female
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anonymous
writes: I sent a friend request to a guy I used to see. We had seen each other on and off through a rough time in both our lives. We never really expected much from it. We were friends on FB. After seeing him again I realized it wasn't going anywhere. I was uncomfortable having him as a friend on FB b/c I was confused about what we were about and I had started seeing someone else. I deleted him. Months later I still think of him and decided to friend him again. Since then I've seen that he's signed on b/c he communicates with mutual friends. It says "FRIEND REQUEST SENT". I'm assuming he hasn't chosen to either "HIDE" by clicking "NOT NOW" the request nor "ACCEPT" the request. It's been over a week. Is he still deciding what he wants to do? Should I cancel the request or just let it stay as it is? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, VelvetUnderground +, writes (5 August 2011):
Keep the request, its the only way you can know how he feels, you lose keeping it, and if you cancel the request you'll only wonder and end up sending another
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