Do I worry too much about breast size?
Q. Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their pa...
A. 26 January 2010: Some guys genuinely like small ones, some guys like big ones. Speaking as a "full figured" woman with large breasts, though-- a toned, skinny bod trumps big tatas damn near any day. Some guys have to have the breast meat and will go for big boobs no ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but I don't know if its my b/f's baby or my ex's baby
Q. OKay i had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend dec24 and a couple days before that too.. then i had sex with him again on Jan 1st (unprotected) he ejaculates in me all the time.. then i was with this one boy on jan 5 i let him put his tip almost in ...
A. 26 January 2010: It's probably your ex's baby because of the timing and because he ejaculated inside you so many times. But you won't be able to know for sure until the baby is born! Sorry! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't touch me ..............
Q. how can i get my boyfriend to touch me.i wonder if he is cheating on me and am i teh problem...
A. 26 January 2010: If he won't even touch you when he's drunk, he may no longer be attracted to you. Do you mean he won't touch you at all, or he won't touch you during sex? If it's during sex, get yourself a nice picture book and try out some sexy stuff. Tell him you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks making out is horrible. Can people have a relationship without kissing?
Q. my girl friend said she thinks making out is horrible and i asked her if she really thought this because i was going to before she said it. is it normal for people to have relationships without any kissing?...
A. 26 January 2010: Get her to tell you exactly what is so horrible about making out. She may have been abused or have some kind of germs or body fluid hangup. Has she only kissed men? Your girlfriend may just not realize she is a lesbian. Maybe you just have a ... (read in full...)
I was caught in a compromising situation at midnight by the police
Q. me and my partner got caught with our tops off kissing in a car park at midnight by the police. I have never done anything like this and probs wont again. The police man took my name and done a check and then left...will that be the end of ...
A. 26 January 2010: It will very probably be the end of it. He was just checking to see if you had any outstanding warrants. Sounds like fun.... (read in full...)
How do I get my reputation back?
Q. I went back to a guys house, something I never do. I was so unbelieveably drunk and just out of a really bad relationship that lasted 4 years and was so intoxicated. I blanked out for 6 hours. He is 15 years older than me. It was akward after we ...
A. 26 January 2010: What's done is done. You can't change it. It will take new memories of your funny, charming, witty and lovely self to erase the memory of your lowest moment-- that of a carpet-wee. It will only repair itself with time and "decorum," that is, no more ... (read in full...)
Trapped into marriage and wanting to get out
Q. Hi im a 31yr old man who is going through the hardest time of my life at the moment,these are my problems. 9yrs ago i finished my apprentiship and had enough cash to head overseas. At this stage i meet a girl that i was very clear to about my plans ...
A. 26 January 2010: I don't think your feelings are wrong. I think they are totally legitimate and you have a right to feel this way. Is your son old enough for you to talk to about your situation-- like could you tell him you want to go overseas for work or something? ... (read in full...)
This girl is driving me crazy!
Q. She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes th...
A. 26 January 2010: So what are you waiting for? She likes you! She is flirting with you heavily. Do you need to get an actual sext before you get the picture?... (read in full...)
I keep questioning my boyfriend about his feelings for me
Q. so my boyfriend who is 21 and i(17)been dating for 11 months now. we haven't had sex. I feel like he might be cheating on me or has lost interest in me. we live 3 hrs away and he comes to my house every weekend, we are on the phone every night till ...
A. 26 January 2010: Honey, I wouldn't trust this guy. You live really far apart. And. . . he's 21. I wouldn't trust him. In his mind he may not even consider it cheating because you live so far apart. You may love each other very much but his behavior and the distance ... (read in full...)
Does she like me more than just friends?
Q. Long story short. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of speaking to her she said she wanted to be friends. This was about 10 months ago.But I feel she likes me more than a friend. I want to tell her how I feel but I hadn't spoken to her for weeks ...
A. 26 January 2010: If you REALLY want to know if she likes you, stop flirting with her, be cordial and friendly, but put her out of your mind-- and take out another girl that you like! It really sounds like she might be attracted to you, but also wants to play games ... (read in full...)
Should we be talking to each other about this, or is it just creepy?
Q. My best friend and I talk about everything. We often talk about sex and our experiences. This seems like something normal for teenage girls to do- brag about how their time with their boyfriend was the night before. I just don't know how healthy ...
A. 26 January 2010: Yeah, that's a little bit creepy. My brother's girlfriend came on to me once, and I was totally nonplussed. It is totally normal to compare notes the morning after with your girl friends. But in this case. . . ew. You should talk about how creeped ... (read in full...)
He dating another but says he loves me! What's going on?
Q. i fell in love with my best friend 3 months ago. but we cant be together, he started dating her 2 months ago and a week ago he says I love you to me. His girlfriend is not letting him talk to me. what should i do?...
A. 26 January 2010: His relationship will end sooner or later. Considering his GF is trying to control him, and he tells you he loves you, it will probably be sooner. If you are willing to risk losing him as your best friend, you could have a successful love ... (read in full...)
We seem to be on different planes of thought...should I just love him for-better-or-worse?
Q. When my b/f of 5 years first got with me we'd both been married before so we were in no hurry to go there. We moved in together and things have been pretty good. Maybe a year ago we started talking about the possibility of marriage but didn't make ...
A. 26 January 2010: Your boyfriend sounds depressed. High blood pressure is exacerbated by inactivity-- dancing, golf, walking, light activity would really help both the "down" attitude and the HBP. He may need a better pharmacologist so his dosages are more ... (read in full...)
I like someone else, but am jealous that my bf does too.
Q. i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a couple months and its been progressing slowly. He is my first boyfriend but im having a feeling that i want it to go by faster, he hasn't kissed me yet and i want him to. but lately there's t...
A. 26 January 2010: I don't think you're conceited, but I don't think you should lie, either. Stay with your boyfriend for now, but don't rule out Mr. New. Sometimes GIRLS make the first move and kiss guys, you might just be waiting forever. . . I'd recommend that you ... (read in full...)
Verbal Abuse
Q. I left my husband of 30 years due to horrible verbal abuse and always being blamed for any thing that went wrong. I am having such a hard time finding any kind of support groups. I'm trying to take the high road in this seperation and not do ...
A. 26 January 2010: Oh, dear-- verbal abuse is still abuse. It can be worse than physical abuse. It can be hard to find people who understand how much words really, really hurt. Your sons and their girlfriends HAVE to know that your ex is verbally abusive. They HAVE to ... (read in full...)
I can't buy anything. What can I use to masturbate?
Q. I cant buy anything so what can I use to masterbate. I dont want a dildo or vibrator. Also dont tell me anything that can hurt me in some way. Thanks!...
A. 26 January 2010: When I was your age I used a teddy bear with a hard button nose, the showerhead, a "saddle" made of several firm cushions stacked up together with a rough towel on top, and a thick candle.
DON'T use the neck of a bottle-- movement combined... (read in full...)
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