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writes:Long story short. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of speaking to her she said she wanted to be friends. This was about 10 months ago.But I feel she likes me more than a friend. I want to tell her how I feel but I hadn't spoken to her for weeks until last Friday when I asked her to talk, she was smiling as soon as I spoke to her and she agreed to talk but we didn't get a chance to. She also has my mobile phone number but doesn't text or call me. The Reasons I feel she likes me more than a friend are:She won't talk to me when I'm with my friends. So when I say hi or wave at her she will just smile. But when I'm alone she will say hi.Becomes quiet when I'm talking to another girl and looked really angry the next day and when I glanced at her she looked really angry with arms crossed.Smiles at me when whether we talk.Sometimes play with her hair if she catches me glancing at her. Like when she was drinking, she saw me looking at her and began playing with her hair.Whenever I walk past her and her best friend. Her best friend glances at both of us and smiles.When I'm alone she would look at me then turn away.Hasn't told me to get lost after having 3 or 4 long periods of not speaking to each other.A few day after I was talking with another girl and being playful. Me, the girl and my friend were sent to get revision guides she started talking to him and barely said a word to me.If we are lining up at bus stop she will turn around and look at me if I'm alone.If we walk past each other we will used to make eye contact and this is the same for when we are talking.When I heard her having a conversation with 1 of her guy friends she said out loud "because your mature." This probably was a shot at me because she knows i'm trying to make her jealous.Now she tries to leave the room without her guy friend. I don't if this is because she wants to speak to me because I don't normally talk to her when other people are around. But recently she doesn't seem as interested.
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reader, unknown_unknowns  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 If you REALLY want to know if she likes you, stop flirting with her, be cordial and friendly, but put her out of your mind-- and take out another girl that you like! It really sounds like she might be attracted to you, but also wants to play games with you. She is sending mixed signals. One thing is for sure-- she has your attention! It seems like she doesn't know what to do with it however.
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reader, Jays +, writes (25 January 2010):
instead of waiting around trying too put the hints of things she does which may mean she likes you, why not try asking her out too somewhere like the movies, for a meal or anything fun :) and see how it goes XD x
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