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Born and raised in England, with Scottish, Welsh and Irish heritage.
I'm a bit of a loner, like driving cars, playing my guitars and keyboard, playing on my Xbox...that’s right I'm a geek and I'm proud of it.
Love listening to quality music (mostly 80’s and 90s rock), watching films, and going on road trips.
I'm Dyspraxic and Dyslexic - so if my answers are unreadable then i appologise.
Recently finished a degree course in digital video effects. I really want to write and direct films.
I don't really have anything that qualifies me to give people advice, but I’ve been in a lot of situations that some people might find helpful or relatable.
I like to help people with their problems, even though I’m not good at doing it face to face. I’m better at taking time to think advice through.
Currently single and have been for a while. Only had one real relationship that didn’t end that well. But I’ve not given up hope yet.
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How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?
Q. I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some ...
A. 29 April 2010: Hi, First off, I just want to state that I’ve never been in the situation you’re in right now. However, when I was in my final year at uni, a friend of mine had recently broken up with her boyfriend. We had been quite close friends for ... (read in full...)
I messed up. How do I make it right?
Q. Qupid please help! Ok so like I have kwn this guy names victor for 6 months and like I told him I like him and he liked me to..we didn't hook up though..he's a very cocky guy but with me he was so shy and wouldn't tlk. Wed text a lot though p...
A. 22 March 2010: Hi,
From what I’ve read, I’m going to say that yes, I think this guy still likes you.
But saying what you said has obviously hurt him. Calling him a pussy was really not a good move. Guys exist off they’re ego.
And you’ve bruised his.
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How do I not let other people upset me?
Q. Im 16 in the 10th grade and i just let everybody get to its like when they do certain things or im thing their trying to do certain thing it will just ware my mind its like everything makes me mad, sad, or depressed and i try to let it ride but i ...
A. 22 March 2010: Hi,
First off let me say- welcome to the adolescent male club- congratulations on joining.
The bad news is it sucks.
When I was your age (god, typing that makes me feel old) I was all over the place emotionally.
It’s one of my least fa... (read in full...)
Need help turning my boyfriend on....?
Q. How can i get my boyfriend in the mood? There are so many Q and A's for this, i know. But it seems like they're all for serious relationships, marriages, and adults. I'm 14, boyfriend 16. We've been together for 5 months, but haven't gone ...
A. 22 March 2010: Hi,
First things first- I know you said that you don’t want any lectures but unfortunately this reply is going to be sort of preachy, no way around that- sorry.
Just letting you know from the start.
Right -
The chances of you getting ti... (read in full...)
My best friend's g/f hates me!
Q. (Just note, I have asked many questions about this situation on here). Okay, so, my best friend's girlfriend hates me. She doesn't try to deny it (hence, the threatening email. And today, she "bumped" into me and triped me down the stairs at schoo...
A. 26 September 2009: Hey- First off, it’s not wrong that you won't physically fight back, especially as you're education is involved- but standing up for yourself in a situation like this is a must. However, the probable reason for her disliking you is clear-she s... (read in full...)
How do you learn to love somebody more than the person you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?
Q. I'm 19, I've only ever had one real relationship, and it was long distance. My relationship was the best time of my life, and now that's over I don't feel like I will ever love somebody as much as I loved her. I miss her so much, but we're finished ...
A. 23 May 2009: Hi,
Breaking up with someone you have really deep feelings for is possibly one of the hardest things anyone can deal with.
I was in a similar sounding situation at the same age and it has taken nearly 2 years to move on.
The only thing ... (read in full...)
I'm in heaps of pain. Does any one know what could cause this?
Q. When i was born i didnt respond to sound, i was deaf then i went for operations for tubes and stuff and got my hearing back. Ever since i get a full on painful (spasm?) or vibration in my head. Kind of hard to explain, some times it just wont stop ...
A. 23 May 2009: Hi,
As my medical experience is limited to the episodes of "House" that I've watched - The only thing I can say is you need to see your doctor.
There are so many different things that could be causing the symptoms you describe.
It ... (read in full...)
I've never had a BF and I'm sick of hearing "it will happen someday"... help me NOW!
Q. I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Never even been asked out. Not that I don't get attention from guys. It's just that I only seem to get the wrong sort of attention, like guys in clubs who are just looking for a one night stand and ...
A. 13 May 2009: Invisiblegirl,
The phrase “it’ll happen one day” is one that I have had said to me more times than I wish to remember – it’s a blanket statement.
It sounds patronising and I’m really not a fan of it...
Unfortunately it’s usually right.
T... (read in full...)
Pregnant, cheated on husband and not sure who the father is
Q. I have been married to this amazing guy for 5 years and i love him with all my heart.we have been trying for a baby for 3 of these years and was told that there is no reason why we could not concieve it would just be a matter of time.anyway after ...
A. 13 May 2009: Unfortunately there really is no way to tell without a DNA test, you’d have to have any possible fathers tested to find out one way or another.
Hope things work out for you
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Have I made it obvious?
Q. Okay my friend told this guy I really like that I think he is cute, but just in a young way. (cos he is slightly younger than me.) Ever since then he is really nice to me, laughs at everything I say - and sometimes its not even funny - there are ...
A. 13 May 2009: Without knowing the guy I can't give a definite answer but from what you describe it sounds to me like he is interested- the signs are all there.
Chances are that if he is shy then the reason he’s not made the first move is because he’s most lik... (read in full...)
It's like shes the sun and I'm the earth. forever bound.
Q. Hello everyone. I have a feeling towards this one person. A young woman. She's a senior at the school that I attend. I am a sophmore and we share a class together. I can never work up the courage to go talk to her. Although one day she did come up t...
A. 31 March 2009: Hi Flamingo,
It’s obvious that you really like this girl, so the only way you’re going to get anywhere is by talking to her.
Take some time to calm yourself down before you talk to her. Take some deep breaths and relax, she's a person, not a ... (read in full...)
Ask to start over again?
Q. Ok there is this guy in my class that i never knew he existed until we were put in a group together. We started emailing each other back and forth. We finally went out on a date, it was awkward and I wasn't sure if he was feeling it let alone me. ...
A. 31 March 2009: Without knowing the guy, I can’t say for sure but I’m guessing what you've done here is bruised his ego.
As much as he won’t admit to it, by saying you don’t find him sexually attractive you’ve hurt his feelings.
The thing that catches my ... (read in full...)
Everyone says I should just ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection
Q. There is this guy I really like. I may only be 14 but there's just something about him I really like. The one thing is, is that he's a really cool guy and im not in that range of popularity. I catch glances of him to me about four to five times a ...
A. 31 March 2009: You need to answer this question, which is worse: rejection or regret...
There are so many things I'd wish I'd said to people I liked. There are a lot of girls who I liked in school that I wanted to say things to, but didn't... and I really w... (read in full...)
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