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writes:I'm 19, I've only ever had one real relationship, and it was long distance. My relationship was the best time of my life, and now that's over I don't feel like I will ever love somebody as much as I loved her. I miss her so much, but we're finished for good. It's been 8 months now, and she's moved on. I know I have to do the same, but I don't know how to.How do you learn to love somebody more than the person you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 Your time will come and you won't have to learn anything. Just let your heart open up.
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reader, Uncle Chaos +, writes (23 May 2009):
 Hi,
Breaking up with someone you have really deep feelings for is possibly one of the hardest things anyone can deal with.
I was in a similar sounding situation at the same age and it has taken nearly 2 years to move on.
The only thing that I can really say is that time heals all wounds.
Find a close friend you can confide in, talk over how you’re feeling with them.
Take each day as it comes, I’m not going to lie to you - it’s going to hurt and it might take a while for you to start to heal, but eventually you’ll start to move on.
All the Best and Good Luck
Uncle Chaos
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reader, silvershocker123  +, writes (23 May 2009):
You can't... you can't ever forget about the memories you have made you can only make the past less significant through new memories... that is if you don't ever move on and think that she is not important to you and do the things that you want to do for youself you will never get over her. You can only forget about her by moving on even at first if it feels like you are only lying to yourself by walking away you still have to do so.
And besides you are only 19 i felt the same way about a year ago but now that its all over..... well its all over.
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