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i understand peoples point of view, and how they are feeling, i am very helpful, and willing to help anybody.

Am I going through a phantom pregnancy, is that possible at my age?

Q.   hey, I'm Fifteen years old. recently i have gone through a bit of an emotional upheaval so to speak :P the guy im in love with had sex with another. i also got drunk and kissed a guy. Recently i've been feeling a bit ill my symptoms are : naseua, ...

A.   21 September 2008: if you think you are pregnant,don't be ashamed, or embarassed what people think, just because your 16.17!, i had my little boy at 17, and i love him more than anythink on this world. and i am the best mum i could be to my son, and if you are ... (read in full...)

What exactly does it mean when a guy says "I care about you"? Any advice?

Q.   What does it mean if a man says he cares about you? Does that mean he is really into you? And what if he says this when he is holding you (and you two have been "sexual" before but have not had sex yet, and he says he IS NOT expecting sex), does ...

A.   20 September 2008: seems a pretty genuine guy if you have been dating for 3 months, and he hasn't tried to have sex with you! he must care and respect you, because most men would have tried to have got you into bed by now! good luck. looks like hes a keeper. xx... (read in full...)

Was she just testing me about saying she wasn't a virgin to see if I love her?

Q.   i belong to muslim family i was going to marry afther 3 month with my gf .i did not sex with my gf.i knew her 8 months ago she never told me about her past but before one month she told me she is not virgin becouse she raped.i was mad at her why ...

A.   20 September 2008: she probably told you she was a virgin because she doesn;t like admiting to the fact that she was raped! who would? and when she told you in confidence that she had been raped you make her feel even more bad for lying to you, and you going off on ... (read in full...)

My husband's a miserable asshole who only discusses the prospect of us getting a threesome on, so he can boost his self esteem!

Q.   I have been married to my husband (we'll call him steve) for less than a year (we've been a couple for over 9 years) but i have been cheating on him with our good friend (we'll call him rick) for nearly a year and a half. Rick and his wife (cal...

A.   20 September 2008: Seems like you 4 have all had too much fun! And now it has left your husband devestated, and maybe a bit insecure, maybe whilst he's talking to you he's trying to tell you, but it doesn't seem like that. maybe you should both go see a marraige coun... (read in full...)

I feel so rejected and I don't know why, he's nothing special - not like my current boyfriend.

Q.   hi all, my boyf at the moment is lovely, kind, generous, patient, trusting, loving, and good in bed, lets just say he's almost everything i look for in a man, and he also adores me. thing is, when we first met i was in a casual relationship...

A.   20 September 2008: seems like you may want attention some where else but when you want it you don't get it. i wouldn't feel rejected because he didn't want you to buy him a drink. maybe he would of prefered to buy you a drink ??? .. but if you love youur boyfriend and ... (read in full...)

He will have to move with his parents, if they go...how do I convince the folks to stay put?

Q.   my boyfriend lives just down the road from me. He used to live like 30 min away. But his parents are thinking about moving farther away like 15 min or even back to lebanon which is 30 min away. i really love him and he really loves me, but how do i ...

A.   20 September 2008: this is a tricky one. but if the boy loves you then why can't he stay with you... (read in full...)

I don't want to step on any toes but how can I get his dad to leave? I can't stand it any longer!

Q.   I am 21 year old and have been living on my own for years. I currently live in a amall apartment with boyfriend, our roomate, and my boyfriends father. The problem is I want his dad to leave! He's been staying here off and on for a month! He stin...

A.   20 September 2008: i wouldn't worry about stepping on anybodys toes, it;s your place, and what you say goes. nobody wants a smelly man living in their place and certianly not sleeping under the dinging table! i would have him out. and tell him to take his slobby ways ... (read in full...)

In love and we gave our virginity to each other. So why does her past bother me? All she did was kiss a guy!

Q.   Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity...

A.   20 September 2008: you say your insecure then that is probably it, i;ve had friends with the same problem, but in time they overcome it, your gf is with you, and she lost her virginity with you, and she said that she loved you. she was obviously waiting to lose her ... (read in full...)

They all think I am gay! Why they are saying this about me?

Q.   I just started hs, and i think theres been a rumor abt me being gay. Well it all started in May when we had a pizza party 2 get 2 know all the freshmons. I met this girl, there and we were just talking and then just randomly her boyfriend comes up ...

A.   20 September 2008: when you say gay are you sure they are on about the sexuality gay, i know what highschool teens are like and sometimes they mean gay as in just a word that isn't very nice. turn around and say something like ''yeah if i was gay then why would i ... (read in full...)

I refused to take him back! Did I do the right thing?

Q.   i gave up on the one thing i loved in my life, my bf!!. i loved him loads but he messed me around to much tht when we split up and he asked for me bk i said no!. even tho the whole of my heart was tellin me to take him back, i no tht i love him, but ...

A.   20 September 2008: yes i think you did do the right thing, if you're in love you're meant to be happy,not miserable like you're making out to be,and if he calls you names then thats a deffinant no no!, you're young, and believe me you will feel these things 100 times ... (read in full...)

My Story

Q.   I was born in a blue hospital right outside the city. I remember my youth as being very joyfull. I was happy, untill my brother was born. My parent's started to torture and abuse me. I was not allowed to go near my brother or to play with him when ...

A.   20 September 2008: Reading your story, I am in disbelief, i'm sorry about your past,and you are better off with out them. reading it, is like your mother is jelous of you,and they shouldn't be parents!, they don;t deserve children. and as for your dad abusing you, he ... (read in full...)

Unhappily married female needs help to know if it's time to give up.

Q.   my husband and i have only been married almost a year and i have promblems getting him to do household chores(clean up after himself, dishes, find his own clothes, etc.). i've told him that if he couldn't start helping that i would leave, but when i ...

A.   20 September 2008: No I don't think you should give up,but then that's easy for me to say but it is only you who can know if it will actually work. and as for the household chores, try not to be a pushover and do it all of the time,and make him do it, drop little ... (read in full...)

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