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Hmmm plz don't be afraid to just say hey! lol

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My wife cheated on me... and it's on tape... but I love her. What do I do?

Q.   I am 31 I’ve been married for almost 4 years and I known my wife for 6 years and we have a beautiful 3 years old girl, and we have a second one on the way, but I have learn something very horrible and I do not know what to do, I truly love my wife ...

A.   16 November 2008: OMFG, THIS is what is wrong with today's society... I will admit, i got goosebumps upon readin this...I mean, HOW THE F could she do that?? Does Marriage mean NOTHING? Personally, I think she is a slut. Seriously to go THAT far, to put the ... (read in full...)

What would REALLY put guys off a girl?

Q.   A quick question, just out of interest :) Guys, what would really put you off a girl? ...

A.   10 November 2008: lol one thing huge for me, SMOKING. I don't care if she is super model hot with the best ass in all of history. She smoke,s instant dead turnoff. Like off the radarr. And that's just cuz I've seen the pics of smokers lungs, and no way in Hell woul... (read in full...)

Why do some guys feel guilty after the first time they masturbate?

Q.   Why is it that most guys that have sex their first time, feel guilty after they cum? Many have told me after they masturbate they feel kinda guilty.. why is this?...

A.   27 October 2008: lol I hope u havnt made many guys feel guilty... Anyways, there is a simple reason that is unknown to most men in the world. When we once heard of those stories as a young child, about the price and princess living happily ever after, not only was... (read in full...)

Am I falling for my best friend ?

Q.   My best male mate and I are both twenty-one years old and have been best friends since we were two! We grew up together and share absolutely everything! I feel like he's the only person in the world I can really open up to and trust. I've seen him ...

A.   24 October 2008: lol wow, sounds to me like a match made in heaven. It's obvious you got feelings for him, cmon now lol. I mean, you pretty much know him inside and out right? And ya did mention you were kinda jealous of his girlfriends...that means somethin... (read in full...)

Should I follow my dreams or listen to my friends?

Q.   My friends are mad at me for following my dream. ive always dreamed of being a really good cheerleader. And this year I tryed out for my school cheering squad, AND MADE IT!!! The girls in cheerleading say im really good, and im extreamly happy about ...

A.   11 October 2008: you silly girl, the answer is so simple, it's too bad you aren't wise enough to see it ^^ lol don't worry I won't leave ya hangin with a riddle =D Ooooook, so the answer is, follow your dream derrrr. lol friends, are people who support you n... (read in full...)

Why is it hard for parents to let a teenager date?

Q.   why do you think its so hard for parents to let a 16 year old date? ...

A.   11 October 2008: lol you really want to know why? I myself am not a parent but I know exactly the feeling in which they feel. It's simple really. They have raised you all your life, and every time when something bad happened, they were always there to pick you... (read in full...)

I accidentally hit her with a ball in gym, and now there are rumors going around that I hit her!!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have the same gym class. We ended up partners for volley ball. We were just passing the ball to each other. I already throw the ball when one of her friends said hi to her which lost her attention for a moment. The ball hit her ...

A.   9 October 2008: LOL. I'm sorry that is just SO hilarious. And trust me, when ya get my age you will look back and laugh too! Hmmm hard to give advice in which I know would be hard for you to understand and place into action. But here we go! First, lol do... (read in full...)

I want to move on for my own sake but I don't know how to do it.

Q.   I was with this boy for 3 years and we were absolutely in love... couldn't get enough of each other, we were with each other all the time, and when we weren't together we wanted to be and talked on the phone. the only problem was that my parents are ...

A.   9 October 2008: lol wow, sounds like your typical dramatic relationship. *sigh* I dunno why you girls put up with it, and of course vice versa why guys put up with stuff. Ok, my advice. CONTROL your heart. You said yourself, you definitely have to move, so do NO... (read in full...)

I just want to be happy but it never seems to happen for me...

Q.   I have been in my first real and first gay relationship for over a year now. I love my boyfriend very much to the point I think sometimes too much. For the past few months our financial situation has blown to the point that debt collector's are comi...

A.   9 October 2008: Ah, sounds like you're in a tight spot that no1 likes to be in, debt lol. Well bro, 1st of all, let me remind ya, the key to happiness is nothing more than a state of mind! I mean, seriously cmon now, don't worry to much about him leaving you,... (read in full...)

I really like her but don't know what she thinks.... any opinions appreciated!

Q.   ok, I'm a little lost, any advise is greatly appreciated, first of all, I have always had a problem with confidence, I fight for it everyday and I believe I am doing ok but still get very anxious. I have also never been in a relationship. The ...

A.   9 October 2008: lol wow bro, that does sound like its a sucky situation. But hey, you say you don't have much confidence, lol well someone stumbled on your post who has alllll the confidence in the world! Alrighty let's get this started. 1st off, make it clear in... (read in full...)

I'm becoming really depressed since my mother passed away, I feel lonely and I want to stop what I am doing wrong but there is no one to help!

Q.   OK this isnt a relationship question or anything but... well my mum died 6 months ago.. and im becoming really depressed. Ive been to the doctors about it but they cant do anything because of my age (16) and ive started smoking drinking and ...

A.   9 October 2008: Oh you, 1st I am sorry for your loss. Now, time for the hard part. The advice. And yes, there is a huge chance you will just ingore it, but I shall give it to ya anyways. ( Reason why you will ignore it: Very young, not mature enough ) Ok, so,... (read in full...)

Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?

Q.   When me and my boyfriend have oral sex..Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?...

A.   16 July 2008: Moaning is DEFINTELY A PLUS !!!! Nothing hotter than that. Well, when it's fake. Kinda a big let down... (read in full...)

I started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but I'm afraid I will.

Q.   I am 13 and have recently began to have sexual feelings...i started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but i am afraid i will... How can i relive my sexual urge without being caught doing something embarrassing? I have tri...

A.   16 July 2008: lol gotta admit, I surely thought this would've been a guy. But hey, 1st for all things right :P Alrighty, first of all, lol learn that well, it's kind've a ritual for children to get caught looking at porn. I mean, honestly have you met anyone w... (read in full...)

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