I am smart, not pretty & a nerd, what can I do to belong and bot be laughed at?
Q. Hey so it's not really relationship but please I need you guys: I'm in my third year of senior school and I am an A* student. I have a passion for art; I work hard in class and I'm on the top 21 list of students in my year and the Gifted and Talen...
A. 8 March 2012: it was just like that for me, (although im not clever) but it gets better, just ignore other people and talk to your friends and do what you want to do. i never wanted to fit in with the "popular" people cause i think most of them are shallow and ... (read in full...)
Voluntary work that doesn't need references?
Q. Can anyone recommend any voluntary work i could do that doesn't require references from employers?. I've been unemployed for a long time, and haven't had many jobs. I don't have enough work experience to get references from anyone, so i am looking ...
A. 5 March 2012: it depends on where you live, i live a very rural place and the only place i can volunteer is at a charity shop, so i guess that could be an option for you.... (read in full...)
I make friends with girls more easily than boys!
Q. Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i ...
A. 26 February 2012: im just like that all but one of my friends are girls, it means nothing it just what you find easier, i find it easier cause im gay.
i think girls are far more approachable than boys so its much easier to be there mate
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I like him but I'm wondering if he's gay?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice, I've met a really lovely guy who is in tbe military. But I'm concerned he might be gay. He can be camp at times, loves cleaning and ironing it took 7 dates for him to kiss me which I instigated and also said his ma...
A. 20 February 2012: i am gay, and im all those things you have described but so are some of my straight friends, it can be hard to find out a persons sexuality just by looking at there actions.
the best advice i can give you is to ask him in a careful way so that you... (read in full...)
Why do some gay guys don't seem to be gay at all?
Q. I have a friend who I've known many years. He always dated women and didn't seem gay. Then he came out a couple of years ago. I was surprised. His boyfriend is hot and doesn't really seem gay either. Such a shame! Is it just me or do I have a bad ...
A. 13 June 2011: lots of gay people don't act in the stereotypical way, im gay and lots of people don't know.
gay people don't have to always be feminine.
i think most people think that are feminine because they are the one that are easy to spot as gay.... (read in full...)
We kissed and now my mouth is bruised and hurts. Is that normal?
Q. I'll be quick. I went to my BF's house yesterday, we Frenched kissed(I've nvr done it before) and now part of my lip is purple and my tongue hurts. Is that normal?...
A. 13 June 2011: no it not normal. maybe you were kissing to hard, try too kiss more gentle ... (read in full...)
Sex isn't working out so well, is there a different position we can try?
Q. i had sex for the first time yesterday and then a second time today; but i just couldn't seem to relax today. when he entered me he basically got pushed out again. i think it could be the fact i'm still nervous but is there any other position that ...
A. 12 June 2011: i agree with angeldlite, get him to spend more time on you, then you will be able to relax and be able to get in to it. but if you want to try out different positions theres a few on http://www.cosmo... (read in full...)
I don't know what gender I want to date
Q. Im 18 years old virgin male and never been in a relationship but i want to have one. Now the big problem with me is deciding what gender do i like men or women. I can see myself dating and being in a relationship with a women but not a guy but i ...
A. 12 June 2011: being bi or being gay isn't only about who you want to sleep with. you said you you couldn't see your self with a male, im gay and i can only imagine myself with a man. its about who you feel comfortable with.
i'm 18 to but i knew i was gay for ... (read in full...)
How to tell my kids? I am a woman who wants to be in a relationship with another woman?
Q. I need some help!!! I am 32yrs old have 3 beautiful children and i am inlove with a woman who is my bestfriend... I know the feelings are mutual, I know they are real...What I don't know is how to tell my kids b/c I want to spend the rest of my life ...
A. 11 June 2011: i'm in the opposite situation to you, im trying to tell my parents i'm gay. the ideas i have come up with so far is a letter, which will give people time to react and think about what your telling them. but... i think that the best way woul... (read in full...)
Girlfriend Kissing Problems
Q. hello, i have been going out with this girl for a week short of a month and i really like her. The problem is that she hasnt had alot of serious realtionships before and is SUPER shy when it comes to kissing. we havent even made out yet. i am 16 and ...
A. 31 May 2011: when i was in this situation, i took my bf to watch a film at my house and we got close and started to cuddle and he got more comfortable and then we kissed.
so you should try to cuddle up to her and then slowly try to kiss her in a nice way mayb... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents that I'm gay?
Q. hi, this might no be quite the right place for this but its the only place i know so :) i was wondering how to tell people im gay, all my friends know. but i need to tell my mum and my step dad and i really don't know how to. i would really ...
A. 30 May 2011: thanks alot, you all really helped... (read in full...)
Could my environment make me gay??
Q. i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i ...
A. 29 May 2011: being around boys wont make you gay cause you dont like them that way to start with, so your not going to start thinking about ect. if your not gay you wont become gay.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so cold and unaffectionate to me I'm starting to think he might be gay!
Q. Im so confused and lost i dont know what to do. My bf who doesnt act like one is well confusing me perhaps there is a better word. Anyways, dating 3 mos i do all the driving he doesnt come to see me not sure i ask but he doesnt. The problem is when ...
A. 4 January 2010: bf have a nasty habbit of being cold and distent when they want you to break up with them. i know this because me and my mates have all done it.... (read in full...)
Telling people you're gay
Q. im 17 gay male. i think i should tell my friends beacuse its getting hard to keep in. but how do you tell people you have known for 10 years your gay?...
A. 4 January 2010: sorry for the lack of information.
there are 2 girls one ive known for 10 years and one that was my girlfriend for 2 years, i think that these will take it best.
then i have 2 male friends and im not sure how to tell them because the answ... (read in full...)
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