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... Send *ooGenerous a private message | | | *ooGenerous's profile:I have been lost for about 12 years now. I do not know who I am anymore. I am glad to have found this site - it has been a wonderful distraction that is turning out to be a beautiful learning experience.
I am licensed in Reiki, Flower Essence Practitioner and Body Alignment Technique. I help people with their relationships and body image all the time and have forgotten who I am. I am beginning to get back to healing and helping my self, instead of healing everyone around me. I feel that I have insight into relationships, but I don't have insight into my own. Am I a hypocrite for having insight into others? Or is it the way that we all learn? I hope that I can help you find out who you are and I hope that you can help me find out who I am.
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Partner says he'll give me more sex if I dye my hair!!!
Q. My partner says if I dye my hair blonde, he will give me more sex but I don't want to dye my hair. He watches a fair amount of porn by the way, which I think interferes with our sex life already. But should I leave him or adapt?...
A. 23 April 2010: Porn in relationships always leads to heartache. If I were you I would just get some wigs - if he needs to have the feeling of having sex with other women then that should be enough. I use to have the same problem with my man. We would rather be at ... (read in full...)
How can I feel more like this is going to last?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. We have had lots of problems so he moved to florida to try and fix what he needs to fix and i'm in michigan working on the things I need to fix.It's been 45 days now since I've seen him we both ...
A. 23 April 2010: He might never come back and you need to brace yourself for that one. If it was a problematic relationship before he left, then it will probably be problematic when he gets back. I wouldn't sweat the small stuff. I would move on in my mind. Not ... (read in full...)
Are his looks lustful or appreciative?
Q. what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help.....
A. 23 April 2010: I had the same thing with my man. I started noticing them before he did and it worked! I would say to him - WOW - Look at that woman, she is beautiful!! And he would look and say yes or no. And that was that! It is all in how we perceive things that ... (read in full...)
How can I help my obese wife who won't help herself?
Q. I'm having serious issues right now... I have been married almost 3 years. My wife and I have been together since middle school except for 3 years after high school when we broke up and dated other people. When we first got back together, all of ...
A. 23 April 2010: A woman's weight is something that she probably feels worse about than you do!! Find out what she is missing. Was it her father? Mother? If you have known her that long then you probably already know the answer. She has moved to food to fill a void ... (read in full...)
Should I call off my wedding to a man who finds me unattractive?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're engaged and getting married this summer but lately he's been acting weird towards me he complains about my weight he tells me that I'm not attractive anymore, the sex is awesome, he wants it all ...
A. 23 April 2010: This is coming from someone who has been with someone for 12 years and never married him!!! I would definitely call off the wedding. Why put yourselves through that? You both should get counseling before you marry and make sure it is exactly what ... (read in full...)
He says he sometimes can't be himself around me...what on earth does he mean?!
Q. My relationship is good, at home my boyfriend is great to me and we've been together 6 years. But when we go out, there's the problem. He recently told me that he can't be himself when I'm around - he can be more rude and talk to who he wants. I'm ...
A. 23 April 2010: Women and men will never figure each other out. It is the facts of life. I would say that it sounds like he wants to keep his options open. He doesn't want you to be around him because he is looking for something else. I hate to say leave him, but ... (read in full...)
What's the best way of telling my parents I am pregnant?
Q. hi guys, ive just found out that im pregnant and i want to tell my parents but am scared that they will be dissapointed in me. How can i help them understand that its what i want to do. ...
A. 23 April 2010: I was 30 when I had my first child. Being in the age group that you are in, it is going to be hard. I hope the father is going to help support you and your baby. On telling the parents - I don't know what type of parents they are!! Are they ... (read in full...)
Should I start charging my boyfriend rent?
Q. My boyfriend of 12 years and I have 2 children together. We have moved to 3 different houses in our years together all of which I paid for with cash. I am happy in the 3rd home I have purchased, we live in a lakefront home, have a boat, and the kids ...
A. 23 April 2010: Yes - I am not telling you everything. I have been taken advantage of by his family. I won't even say how much - but it has been ALOT over the past 11 years. He had a gambling problem in which I had to pay his Bookie $20,000.00, he use to be ... (read in full...)
I can't let go of her past
Q. well ive been married for 2 years and everything seems typical , but i have a problem i cant let go of , my wife told me she has had over 50 one night stands ! it bothers me sometime i feel like a sucker , she also has had three ways with guys and ...
A. 23 April 2010: The past is the past, period. I know my boyfriend of 12 years sowed his wild oats, as well as I. It doesn't matter though! You need to not think about it. If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, then go and buy something that will spice it ... (read in full...)
I never overcame his past infidelities, am I being too insecure?
Q. My husband cheated on me 14 years ago, since then we have rebuilt our relationship and have gone forward. He has been the best husband and father ever and Iam so glad that we made it work. He had recently hooked up with an old girl friend from...
A. 23 April 2010: That is a hard one. I too have been through some rough patches with my boyfriend of 12 years and we have 2 kids. I never have gotten over the past, but I've learned to forgive. It's the forgetting that takes time, maybe I will never forget! However, ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex's girlfriend act so mean. He dumped me for her.
Q. My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up in Janaury and its been really hard for me espically since he left me for somebody else. But the girl he left me for is really mean to me. I knew who she was before they started dating but ever since ...
A. 23 April 2010: If she is acting that way, it is because she feels threatened by you still. Don't let it bother you - just smile when she comes in and take the higher road. If you act like you are damaged by the way she acts towards you - then she will get exactly ... (read in full...)
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