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Taken for granted?
Q. Hey everybody. The title says it all. I’m in a relationship with an amazing woman whom I love dearly with all my heart. And may be that’s why it hurts so much to realize that she is taking me for granted. It’s not anything major, but rather little ...
A. 17 June 2010: Thanks everybody so much! I appreciate your advice and it sure helped. I absolutely agree - there are always two sides of the story and I know that I just need to see those things that she does and stop concentrating on myself so much. One again - ... (read in full...)
I don't think he'll like me because I'm of mixed race... how do I get him to love me?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, My biggest problem right now is that I'm crazy in love with a very handsome guy, but the thing is, I'm mixed race, half-black half-mexican, and I don't think he'll be into me cause of that. Please help me find a way to get him t...
A. 9 August 2009: People will ONLY love and respect you if YOU love and respect yourself! ... (read in full...)
We have so much chemistry... but he has a girlfriend! Should I wait to see if he breaks up with her or forget him?
Q. I've met a guy I really like. He made it clear from the beginning that he had a girlfriend and that he didn't want anything other than friends. I accepted that and we went out. But it became very clear that there was chemistry between us. He flirted ...
A. 9 August 2009: Do you believe everything he is saying? It sure did look like date with you which means that he is not loyal to his girlfriend. And that's too bad because if you ever decide to get into a relationship with this guy - you better make sure you are the ... (read in full...)
I should hate him but I don't, I can't move on.
Q. Ok, so here I am. It's been 6 months since my break up with the guy I was with for 5 1/2 years. There have been some mean and nasty things said back and forth and there has definately been some sh*t talking and now his whole family pretty much hates ...
A. 9 August 2009: First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your pain. But if he has not talked to you ever since you broke up - that means he doesn't want to go back. Just accept it the way it is. It can be hard, but you have to (and this is a MUST) to move on. Even if ... (read in full...)
I want to give him a chance but he punches me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me ...
A. 30 July 2009: I'm sorry - I should've not called anybody stupid. My fault... I was just saying that you deserve better than someone who doesn't treat you right... You can do better!... (read in full...)
I want to give him a chance but he punches me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me ...
A. 28 July 2009: What? Some girls are really stupid. He treats you like "nothing" and you are still with him? You have no respect for yourself. He doesn't either. Don't you think you deserve better? Start respecting yourself...... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do to stop missing him!
Q. I miss my ex. We were together for 3 and a half years and have been broken up for over 4 months now and haven't talked at all since we broke up. I have dated people and am seeing someone right now who just wants to date casually or whatever and I am ...
A. 28 July 2009: You need to be satisfied with you work in order for it to make you feel better. If work is not what makes you happy and keeps your mind off - then it's not the work you need to be doing. If you're good at something - you feel good about yourself. ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm scared
Q. Okay, I'm new to the whole asking for help thing. I usually help others and don't ask for help. But, There is this boy (I'll call him Bob), I know he likes me because he has told me and last year he had asked me to be his girlfriend. ...
A. 26 July 2009: Get into studying and start working hard on your career. It's about the right time to set up a goal and decide what/who you wanna be in life. Take classes that might help you out in college or get you prepared for it.
This is one of the best ways... (read in full...)
I read messages on my boyfriends phone and don't know if it's innocent or not. What should I do now?
Q. Hi. This kind of thing is always asked, but I just don't know what to do! Basically, I read my boyfriend of 6 months messages a few weeks ago because he is so protective of his cell, I know this is wrong and that I have betrayed his trust, ...
A. 26 July 2009: #1. You do NOT trust him. Reading his text messages is a good proof of that. Then I just have to ask a question: if you don't trust him - why would you want to go on?
#2. Relationships are complicated. I know exactly how you feel. If my gfr was text... (read in full...)
I love him so much, but I feel like I am single in this relationship
Q. My problem I don’t know how to approach or to deal with my boyfriend or to discuss this issue with him cuz its not very clear to explain it to him ? I feel that I love him loads more than he does, no no its not feeling its true , I keep missing...
A. 26 July 2009: I'm sorry to say, but he seems not to care for you. He understands perfectly well how you feel, and yet, acts like a kid. He even isn't strong enough to say "No, I want this relationship to end now". So, why are your wasting your time on someone ... (read in full...)
Do you think, despite the age difference, our love is too good to be true?
Q. I met this guy, I knew I was in love with him right from the beginning, but thought he would never fall for me. I'm 14 and he's 16, however I didn't complain because we became really good friends and have a lot in common such as our hobbies. Against ...
A. 26 July 2009: No offense, but you guys are still very young to talk about real love. When you go to college - you'll meet all sorts of different people. You might be "in like " with this guy now, but not "in love". My opinion...... (read in full...)
I feel at an all time low after losing family members and breaking up with my boyfriend.
Q. hi everyone, I just need someone to talk to... everything seems to be going wrong at the moment. I have lost so many family members these last few years.. my dad, sister, brother, grandad, cousin, great aunt. Everyone that meant the world to me. ...
A. 26 July 2009: I'm so sorry about you losses. I think you're a smart young lady who understands the meaning of life. So please - don't even think about self harming. You won't win. Instead - go on with your life. This "black line" of your life will be over one day ... (read in full...)
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