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writes:Okay, I'm new to the whole asking for help thing.I usually help others and don't ask for help.But,There is this boy (I'll call him Bob),I know he likes me because he has told me and last year he had asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him No, since I didn't know him very well and I liked someone else.Ever since then we have been writing to each other, at first it was just awkward but we started to get to know each other better and there is some things I do and don't like about him.I'm thinking that is normal?He calls me almost every-other day, but I only answer maybe twice a week. I just freak myself out, and feel like I have nothing to say so why talk?Almost every day I think about him, and if I'm not, his name will pop up somewhere. Like one day I was watching T.V. and his last name was on a truck.Then his first name was on the brand of grapes I was going to eat!Or, I'll listen to music and a song will make me think of him.I'm on vacation right now, but I'm going home and he knows I only like being asked out in person.But, I'm scared.I was kind of jealous as well when he had a gf but he started dating her when i started dating another guy. but after i dumped my bf, he did too not too long after. even before he dumped her, (nvm thats another story).It's a like/dislike thing with him. I always push him away. Any advice on how to shut my brain up and let my heart have a chance?
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reader, SapphireLily +, writes (31 July 2009):
SapphireLily is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm a good student, all A's.
Boys, don't really affect me, since I'm never in a relationship.
I don't know, I guess I'll just have to take a chance.
But it wouldn't be a chance since I know he likes me.
I mean we talk almost every night either by talking on phone or email.
Thank you very much for your responses, I really appreciate them.
-SapphireLily
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reader, MisVally  +, writes (26 July 2009):
sounds like you also have feelings for this boy but at the same time you're scared of getting too close to him. Since he has already told you how he feels about you before i think you need to tell him that you feel the same way because if you keep pushing him away he will get tired and start looking elsewhere. Good Luck
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reader, Timothy81  +, writes (26 July 2009):
Get into studying and start working hard on your career. It's about the right time to set up a goal and decide what/who you wanna be in life. Take classes that might help you out in college or get you prepared for it.
This is one of the best ways to get your mind off of someone. It also helps you and others to respect yourself more.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (26 July 2009):
 Just got for it...x
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