Tongue-tied around my crush
Q. So I want to start a conversation with a girl but I don't know how to start it. The problem is that I have a little bit of a crush on her and when I try to talk to her I just stare at her and its very weird. Please help me!...
A. 18 July 2014: you sound so cute, ok so you need to relax. try practising by yourself or with a friend. Pick topics beforehand. One good thing you can do is get a new clothing or lucky garment that will boost your confidence. ... (read in full...)
Advice about friends and dating needed
Q. I have a few problems and I hope this isn't going to be too confusing, but I really need some help. I'm bisexual - out to only a small group of LGBTQ friends, one of which is my best friend, one of which is a friend I've fallen for. We've be...
A. 16 July 2014: ok, so first up your innocent shy flirting, well there are subtle signs you would see if she was doing it back like accidentally bumping shoulders but it really wasn't an accident and so on. You probably should try talking to her about this. However ... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend has become a playboy
Q. hii people plz help me out i m girl of 20 years in a ldr for about 2 years ..this is my problem 1) my bf attitude changed recently he is asking me to flirt with guys i feel terrible d it is totally not my wish 2) he has changed a lot ...eg befo...
A. 8 July 2014: dump him, y u still with him???? he is a jerk.... so...
he says he wanna marry you but that marriage won't last if he hurts u like that. ... (read in full...)
I thought we were in love, but then he confessed he loved another!
Q. I sit here in pieces and in need of some words of comfort. I'll try and keep it as succinct as possible as there could be the potential to write a lot. Me and my boyfriend over two and a half years broke up tonight. He is in love with anothe...
A. 7 July 2014: yes i know hun, my guy was in love with his childhood friend and me and i still have insecurity issues to deal with. mmm lets see, it doesn't appear that he was tortured or anything, quite the contrary if u ask me. He does sound confused on what he ... (read in full...)
I am in a good relationship but still miss the moody, unpredictable ex!
Q. I am in a relationship of 2 years with a wonderful man. Before him, I was in a stormy relationship which was bordering jealously abusive from both sides. I love my present partner. Sex is good. The problem being I have never been able to let go o...
A. 5 July 2014: The reason why you cant stop missing him even though it doesnt hurt emotionally, well you miss the sex and something in your ex made u let go like no other man has made u let go. its rlly jus that simple... (read in full...)
Married co worker is giving mixed signals
Q. I'm 20 and about to start my last year of college. For the last two years, my major requires us to work in hospitals nearby. I worked at one hospital where I eventually started to like this man. He taught me everything I know. When i first m...
A. 4 July 2014: he could very well genuinely like you, but because he is married he doesn't want to jeaprodize that. It really shouldn't matter what he wants though, if he can't be with you and only you then it doesn't matter. being friends with some1 u really like ... (read in full...)
Husband sulking over old school pal
Q. Hello Thankyou in advance for any advice..sorry it's so long I've been with my husband for a long time and we have a 8 year old daughter together and older kids from our first marriages, on the whole we've been happy, but about 6 months after we ...
A. 3 July 2014: lets see, emotional affair is still an affair. n technically you hurt him, but honest to god i don't see the big deal, u weren't telling your best friend that you should have been with him n that your current relationship is stupid. he confessed to ... (read in full...)
Married co worker is giving mixed signals
Q. I'm 20 and about to start my last year of college. For the last two years, my major requires us to work in hospitals nearby. I worked at one hospital where I eventually started to like this man. He taught me everything I know. When i first m...
A. 3 July 2014: he likes you, u like him, that's simple. he has a wife, your single. he is 30, your 20. ....... honey he wants your ass. he hasn't given any sure sign he would leave the marriage for u, he is a gentle man enough to not let things go out of control, ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and my husband is out of the country I feel so lost and alone!
Q. Dear cupids. Sorry for the long message. I am breaking apart and really need some advise that can help me to cope with my current situation. I am 29 weeks pregnant and have a 5 year old daughter, my husband left the country over a month ago to a new ...
A. 30 June 2014: Honey cheer up, pregnancy makes a woman emotional. Yes he does not have as much time as you would like for him to have to spend with you but you need to focus on the positive. Too much stress is not good for the baby. Keep distracted and do ... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared of someone loving me?
Q. Hey everyone....I don't know the best way to explain this..I really want to be in a serious relationship with a guy. but whenever I meet someone I get scared and change my about starting something with them. It usually happens after I find out that ...
A. 30 June 2014: honestly you sound like me three years ago when i was in a relationship with this guy. I was so hurt from my previous relationship with my ex from high school that i always ran from anyone who told me they loved me simply because i didn't want to ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?
Q. Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...
A. 30 June 2014: sighs you sound like me minus his wannabe marriage proposal. Listen you have a good man, you need to relax, yes your frustrated that you don't get to see him often but from what you write he has given you no reason to doubt him. It is in your best ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel ...
A. 30 June 2014: 1. ok u need to state if in the beginning wen sex was hot n heavy if he had problems wit sex n needed the pills. if he didn't need the pills in the beginning of the relationship then that means he probably feels embarassed that he needs them now. ... (read in full...)
What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?
Q. Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...
A. 29 June 2014: ok so guys thanks for the answers but the thing is even though he has me and her, he does spend more time with me. Its not like people dont recognize us as being together, they do. Yes i have insecurities and trust issues but i really do think you ... (read in full...)
Would this be classified as cheating?
Q. Hi everybody! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Me and my boyfriend were together for 5 years before the relationship ended. It was mainly my fault, I was writing my university dissertation, revising for exams, working to help my parents ...
A. 28 June 2014: ok so it really wasn't exactly cheating though, the fact is he was single at the time. Talking of being together and being together are two different things.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and flirting on FB, where did I go wrong?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years we have gotten in a very big fight. He is out of town for work for three months. My boyfriend calls me once a day and thinks it is enough to sustain a relationship. He doesn't acknowledge me on ...
A. 28 June 2014: you didn't do anything wrong, there is a saying 'what's meant to b, will b.' If he wants you and only you then girl chill he will come back n hopefully change, but never say its your fault and don't apologize for something that you thought you did ... (read in full...)
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