How do I know what is more important
Q. Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...
A. 2 December 2009: Friends work out better the majority of the time! If you friend isnt that great in bed, teach him a thing or two, let him know what you want! He wont be offended if you say it the right way.. And in the end, you'll get what you need and want!... (read in full...)
Best positions for full penetration??
Q. I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate ...
A. 30 November 2009: It sounds to me like your uterin wall is in the way! After time passes, and he keeps trying eventually it will go all the way in.. Is he getting satisfied? Are you? If he is and you arent because of this then I would suggest that you play with your ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to be in any other relationshi[?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in September after ten months of being together. We were apart for about a month and a half, until we ran into eachother again, and all the feelings came back. We started seeing eachother no strings attached. (Well, ...
A. 24 November 2009: I have to say I went through the same thing with my first love! You have to give yourself time to recover from everything and eventually things will fall in the places they are meant to be! It might take a couple weeks or (if you really love him) it ... (read in full...)
Help! Is this normal?
Q. Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is ...
A. 29 April 2009: Either he is too big, as the other woman said.. OR, your uterus wall could be close, some womans uterus wall isnt very far back. To find out if that is the problem, ask him to finger you, and if he feels something that is hard (make sure its not the ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son?
Q. Is it wrong to date my dads ex wife's son? Even if they aren't married any more, but my dad has a son with her which makes him my half brothers half brother???...
A. 29 April 2009: He is not my dads son. When my dad and her got married yes they had a baby, but that one is not the one i am talking about. I am talking about her son from a previous marriage. he was only my step brother, and now he isnt anything...... (read in full...)
Virgin? Or not?
Q. My bf n I have been dated for 1 yr n 3 months. we haven't have sex bc i wasn't ready for that step. Other than that he n i did everything else. On xmas, i was spending time with him, we was making out and stuff n i was really horny so he ask can he ...
A. 9 January 2009: im not for sure why you were bleeding but yes you lost your viginity. im sure thats not what you wanted to hear, but its true.. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant without sex?
Q. Okay this may sound stupid, but I really need to know. Okay... my boyfriend and I have made an agreement to abstain from sex until marriage. We do how ever fool around. I am a virgin so it is very important to me that we don't have intercourse ...
A. 30 December 2008: i would take a test, but just so you know, if you are stressed out, that can delay your period. it can change your days, and even make you not have one, and or have more/less days. just relax, and the cramping could be from your hormones causing it ... (read in full...)
Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!
Q. okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...
A. 30 December 2008: it doesnt matter how far in he went, even just a little, you lost your virginity. but the good thing is, that he didnt pop your cherry, if he did then there wouldnt be just a few spots, it would be like a puddle(trust me).. you probably ripped! if ... (read in full...)
Why do I get so jealous when he visits his mother?
Q. Why is that i get so jealous even when he is visiting his own mother? We have been dating for 7 months now and he happens to be devoiced and he is 12 older then me. Can it be that im afraid he might run into his ex wife, even if she is not in the ...
A. 30 December 2008: well the whole mother part, (if they are close) you probably subconciously think that she will take him away. and i dont mean that in a perverted way. and the whole being different around friends, its because he doesnt want to let his friends know ... (read in full...)
We had an argument and now he's not talking to me...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months then on christmas day we had an argument and now he is mad at me nor talking to me. When we were arguing I pushed him in is head and he told me not to call him and he won't call me or answer my ...
A. 30 December 2008: if you really like this guy, even though he seems to be a total jerk (but you cant help who you care about) then i would just let it go, and give him time. if he really wants to be with you then he will get over it, but if you keep calling and ... (read in full...)
Should I wait a few more days?
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex while i was on my period without a condom. i was spose to get my period around the 20-22nd of this month but it hasnt come. i dont have any signs of being pregnant so what do you think? should i wait a couple more days?...
A. 29 December 2008: i wouldnt stress over it. if it is meant to be then you are.. a few days doesnt mean anything, you being stressed out can effect your cycle, you thinking about being pregnant can actually make you have all the symptoms, as my cousin thought she was, ... (read in full...)
Single and pregnant?
Q. Ok I was talking to this guy... we've been talking for a while.. And one day we had sex... Big mistake.. He used a condom the first time.. Then we went at it again.. But he didn't clean himself after he took off the condom... Although we waited like ...
A. 29 December 2008: I am only 17 and the day i found out i was pregnant, my daughters 24 year old father left. i went to my mom, and she helped me. my daughter is now 3 1/2 months old. i know you said you have no family, but the state can help you. you can get wic, ... (read in full...)
We don't want this kid!
Q. I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: there are a few ways you can take care of this. 1 would be abortion, which i dont believe is the right thing to do, bc that would be killing an innocent child that didnt ask for this. 2 would be to talk to some people and you can look online, for ... (read in full...)
Can father's drug use have effect on unborn baby?
Q. I am 3 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and i have been trying for months, but when i told him the news, he confessed that he had been using angel dust, cocaine, and marijuana on and off four months ago.... he is clean now- i had him take an at home tes...
A. 29 December 2008: yes. my daughters dad secretly did meth and all the other drugs out there, my daughter now has horrible stomach problems, but its not anything really serious. she just screams all the time bc her stomach hurts, and spits up all the time. some babys ... (read in full...)
He said yes ...but yes to what??
Q. I met a guy that works in my local pub and we have been flirting for a few weeks now. I'm new to the dating scene as I have been in a long-term relationship for a number of years so I need some help please to understand the signs. This guy told ...
A. 29 December 2008: he probably thought you were going to ask him to be with you, and his answer was yes. but to be sure just ask him, and you dont have to think you will sound stupid or anything, bc if he thinks you sound stupid then he isnt worth it.... (read in full...)
I am heart broken... does he know he broke my heart?
Q. Ok so I was in a horrible abusive marriage and found true love somewhere else. The new BF was in a dead marriage with no love. We fell for each other hard. Whirlwind romance for over a year. We both filed for divorce... But real life sets in- ...
A. 29 December 2008: who cares if he blames you. you didnt make him do it. and who cares if he knows he broke your heart. to tell you from experience, if he knows he hurt you, he will feel control, and power. the less he knows and the more you act like you are happy if ... (read in full...)
If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend?
Q. If a girl that you're interested is always wearing pyjamas when you go to her house, does she just think of you as a friend? I'm not talking sexy negligee or lingerie, I'm talking flannel matching top and bottom pajamas. Don't get me wrong, sh...
A. 29 December 2008: i always wear pjs when i am home. it doesnt mean that she only likes you as a friend, she could just be more comfortable, or she could be letting you know that "she is READY for bed"... (SEX)...... (read in full...)
I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy?
Q. hi, I'm 2 months pregnant, I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy? I'm a 34e now so what does everyone think they will be? plz help I want to be prepared xxx...
A. 29 December 2008: you cant really tell. my mother had really big boobs, and my dads mother did also. my sister had her baby and went from an A to a DD, i went from a D to a C, so it doesnt necessarily depend on genes. you'll just have to wait and see. sorry i couldnt ... (read in full...)
Would it work better if we didn't use a condom?
Q. Hi this is gonna sound so stupid but me and my boyfriend tried 2 have sex and couldn't.... it wouldn't go in and he was wearing a condom. Now he thinks there's something wrong with him and I don't know what to do.... Would it work better if we ...
A. 29 December 2008: USE a condom, unless you want to get pregnant, even if your on birth control it can still happen. if it is because he is big, or your to small, then try to get him to get his fingers wet or use KY jelly, and he needs to use 2 fingers, or you can do ... (read in full...)
Do I love him?
Q. hi iam 18 and bin with my bf for 7 months ago its goin great but when we have these little arugements i use to get upset but the other day we had a silly roul n i didnt get upset he loves me to bits but sometimes i think to my self do i love him ?? ...
A. 29 December 2008: the question really is, do you think in your heart that you love him? most people go with what their brain is telling them, and not their heart, so in a few years they realize that they really dont and somebody gets hurt. when you love someone you ... (read in full...)
Normal behavior for straight guys?
Q. Is it normal to wank with your bestfriends, touchin each other penises but no suckin or fucking because were all straight guys... Do straight guys do this to?...
A. 29 December 2008: its normal. if your not in a relationship with a female then its okay. now if you were in a relationship, that would be considered cheating, but everyone in there lifetime does stuff like that whether they want to admit it or not!... (read in full...)
My husband has beaten me up.
Q. Can you help. My husband has beaten me up. What happened was I had affair with his brother and got pregnant. We tried to work through it but my husband had a mental breakdown and was admitted to hospital. When he came out he was a changed person. ...
A. 29 December 2008: OH dear! YES YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM!!! if a man ever lays his hands on you, you should not wait around for him to do it again! one hit can lead into a few, a few hits can lead to the hospital and maybe even death! leave him, i know so many people that ... (read in full...)
We made a deal and he hasn't sent me what he promised
Q. I've been dating this guy for about 6 months (long distance). he wanted me to help him get a play station 3 that he's been crying about for the longest. at first I didn't want to do it until he agreed that if I help him he would send me a pair shoes ...
A. 29 December 2008: well the first thing you should do is DROP HIM. he isnt worth it! most long distance relationships dont work anyway, even if he once lived right next door to you!... and i wouldnt be sending my money to someone even if you trust them, because he ... (read in full...)
My 17 year old boyfriend wants to have sex...I'm afraid!
Q. hi,i'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 17 he's always asking me if we could have sex but i'm afraid!! should i or not at this age?...
A. 28 December 2008: no, i dont think you should. anything can happen for example, im 17 and decided not to wait and now i have a 4 month old daughter, and the worst part about it is that her father is 24 and isnt around and hasnt been since the day i found out. if he ... (read in full...)
Reasons why a guy would talk to a girl?
Q. what are some reason why a guy would want to talk to a girl...
A. 28 December 2008: It really depends on the guy... some guys want to talk because of your body, they want sex. or just because they think there could be a future... (read in full...)
How's it feel to have sex with same gender
Q. hmmmmm how does it feel to have sex with the same gender....?...
A. 28 December 2008: Its not all that great! the only good part about it is that a girl knows what another girl wanta, but if your brave, you can tell a guy exactly what you want to!!!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my father's half brother's son?
Q. I need to know if it is ok to date my father's half brother's son? My dad and his dad have the same mom but different dads. Not that it makes a difference but they weren't raised together. They were raised on two different sides of the island. ...
A. 28 December 2008: That would be your half cousin!... (read in full...)
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