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Virgin? Or not?

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Question - (9 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *hristina123 writes:

My bf n I have been dated for 1 yr n 3 months. we haven't have sex bc i wasn't ready for that step. Other than that he n i did everything else. On xmas, i was spending time with him, we was making out and stuff n i was really horny so he ask can he put his penis in, i said yea go ahead,[i couldn't think straight bc it feel so good] so he went in half way n then we hear noise so we stop. I didn't bleed at all, Those that mean i lost my virginity????

another question is, one time he was eating me out real hard, no finger or anything at all. I bled a little after that, why did i bleed????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009):

It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. You said "It felt so good!". Now, you are a woman. You had sex and you want more. That's natural. Every woman is fully equipped for sex. The problem is it feels so good that once you start it's very hard to stop. What counts most is, what do you want to do with your life? How can you develov and make the most of your talent? What do you want more, sexual pleasure, or reaching rewarding goals? Do you control your crotch or, does your crotch controle you? Would you rather be civilized or give in to your animal instincts? You are either the master of your fate, or the victim of your mistakes. The solution: Find the right mate for you. Date him without sex. Tell him on the first date "I will not have sex until my wedding night!"

If he still wants you, without sex, and you really love each other and if conditions permit. Have fun, don't do anything you'll regret! It's no fun being a 'tramp"!!!

Dick

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

Maybe when he was giving you oral that broke your hymen, which coursed you to bleed then when he penetrated you there was no hymen to brake leaving no blood. Thats just an idea though. Do you still have your hymen?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

Yes, you lost your virginity. You are not a virgin anymore. He stuck his penis inside you, just because you didn't bleed doesn't really mean anything. It means he didn't break the hymen. But he still penetrated you. You are no longer innocent.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntHard to tell, but in my book you loose your virginity when you have intercourse.. Even if it's only in a little or for a very short time.

If you want to stay a virgin, then you have to stop having sex.

As far as bleeding from being given Oral.. No idea. :(

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A female reader, the1st1 United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

im not for sure why you were bleeding but yes you lost your viginity. im sure thats not what you wanted to hear, but its true..

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