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writes: HiI have a lady friend (A) (not too close) who has a friend (B) that I like. What is a polite way of asking her to introduce me to her girl friend?A already has a boyfriend, but the way she looks at me makes me feel that she likes me (I have asked her out once before but I didnt continue after I found out she has a boyfriend. She didnt reply nor denied when I asked her out). Do you think she will be offended?
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (12 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneveryone has the same answer. i think everyone has made the right suggestion.
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reader, SweetIvy +, writes (11 July 2012):
I agree with previous answer. It looks funny asking her out then asking her about her friend. Just go straight to the friend and politely ask her for her number or invite her for coffee. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2012): Girls do NOT help when you enquire about a friend of theirs, but rather try to put you off. Talk to her friend directly.
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (10 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am almost graduating soon. I took a summer class so Im way ahead of A and B. Ill be graduating earlier than them so I wont be seeing B. I havent even talked to B. Not even once. B probably knows that I like her cause she saw me looking at her and I got her attention. she approached one of her classmates who happened to be near me; however, i didnt talk to her. darn... i know. Im not sure if I got cold feet or just really nervous because that was before the final exam of one of our hardest course in university. Should I send B a message on facebook?
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (10 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCerberus, that's a good point...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2012): She'll be offended if she likes you and you ask her to set you up with her friend. Just go straight to the source OP and introduce yourself to the friend. You have a friend in common so it will be easy to find a reason to do that.
OP I always find it better to go straight to the girl, girls talk and if you ask her friend to set you up they'll discuss together whether that's a good idea or not, your good and bad qualities and the fact you've already made moves on her and have now gone to Mrs. Second Choice, if you know what I mean.
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reader, wildrose +, writes (10 July 2012):
Well I don't think she will be offended because 1.if she is so into you then surely she would do something when you ask her out2.the fact that you think she likes you may be it is just a phase and she already has a boyfriend & feel free tell her how you fill for her friend B
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