Asexual? I'm rarely interested, and when I am I get rejected.
Q. I'm 24, M, hetero, virgin, and have never dated anyone romantically in my life. I'm rarely interested in other people, and when I am...I am usually rejected. Nobody I am interested in has ever been interested in me. I'm pretty successful for m...
A. 15 July 2008: "Looks: 4-5/10 (6-7/10 for my own race)"
Maybe you should start by realizing that Chinese people aren't inherently less attractive!!
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Can there be love BEFORE sex?
Q. Whilst sex is an important part of life can a man fall in love with you before he has had sex or vice versa. I think ive fallen in "love" with a man but we havent had sex-is it possible I havent known him long but I do have these feelings B...
A. 11 July 2008: of course it is. Love and sex are pretty much independent of one another.... (read in full...)
His fantasy is to have a threesome. So should I tell him my fantasy of having sex with his brother?
Q. My husband has shared his fantasies with me. He'd love to see me with another woman (I'm straight), he'd love us to be in a threesome with another woman, and a couple of other things. He wants to know my fantasies, but I just can't bring myself to ...
A. 2 July 2008: Don't tell him that. Those two fantasies aren't exactly equal in scope. He's telling you a more conceptual, abstract fantasy - he would like to see you with some random woman...the fantasy doesn't really revolve around any specific other w... (read in full...)
He won't have sex with me because I had a one night stand. This is breaking my heart.
Q. hiya well im 17 and my bf is 27 we have been together for 3 years and i love him dearly i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he says that he wants the same. well the problem is about 1 and 1/2 years ago while we was split up i had a one ...
A. 30 June 2008: This story would make way more sense if you were 27 and he was 17. I mean, you were broken up AND you didn't go through with it. Had you closed the deal, I could understand what Yos is saying, but you didn't. To say that you did nothing wrong is ... (read in full...)
Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?
Q. I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be ...
A. 30 June 2008: honestly, I think that everybody still ideally wants love, it's just that more and more people are becoming able to separate their sexuality from love and realize that the two things are not necessarily related. ... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost it and laughed out loud in the middle of sex? He was growling like a lion!
Q. Has anyone been in a position that has almost made you loose it and laugh outloud uncontrollably in the middle of having sex? I had sex with this guy and everything was ok until he started to make noises like a lion. I said nothing and hoped I could ...
A. 26 June 2008: ooh I have a good story along these lines. Once in college I had gone on a date or two with this girl - she was pretty cute but very cheesy, our tastes were as difference as could be. So the first night that we decided to have sex, she asked if ... (read in full...)
I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, a...
A. 30 April 2008: i'm confused as to which guy you actually ended up with...but I'm assuming the story is you broke up with the first guy but couldn't stay apart even when you tried to start dating or sleeping with other people, and you swapped stories about this ... (read in full...)
Fiancee lied about past sex life, what to do now?
Q. I have been with my fiance a little more than a year now. We were talking one day and our past sex life came up. I was a virgin until I met him. I've always strongy believed in sex after marriage, and I made a big mistake breaking it, but I'm at ...
A. 7 April 2008: Yep, this is two separate issues - the past sex life being one and the lying being the other.
As far as the past sex life, well, you're probably just going to have to get over that. Trust me, I know that it can hurt, and I'm sure that effect i... (read in full...)
I would not have married her, had I known of her wild sexual past! What now?
Q. What do you do when you find out your wife has had a wild sexual past and you didnt know about it and if you had known about it, you would not have even asked her to marry you?...
A. 22 March 2008: I think that some of you guys are addressing this as if he said "I'm having trouble getting over my wife's past" - but that's NOT what he's saying. The question was "I would not have married her if I knew her sexual past" - therefore, I don't feel ... (read in full...)
I would not have married her, had I known of her wild sexual past! What now?
Q. What do you do when you find out your wife has had a wild sexual past and you didnt know about it and if you had known about it, you would not have even asked her to marry you?...
A. 20 March 2008: First thing you do is ask yourself why this should prevent you from marrying her.
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What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general?
Q. What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general? I think most men would go for it without much resistance....
A. 16 March 2008: Obviously all threesomes for both sexes offer the idea of experimentation and taboo to a degree, and hence can seem "thrilling" in that manner. It's also a manifestation of sexuality for purelu physical reasons, which can be a turnon to some. ... (read in full...)
What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general?
Q. What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general? I think most men would go for it without much resistance....
A. 16 March 2008: Obviously all three somes for both sexes offer the idea of experimentation and taboo to a degree, and hence can seem "thrilling" in that manner. It's also a manifestation of sexuality for purely physical reasons, which can be a turnon to some. A... (read in full...)
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