Are we dating or are we in a relationship?
Q. So there is a guy that I really like, but I'm confused about what we are. We went out for a few dates etc and really hit it off. We have similar interest and I would like to go to the next level with him. So far we've went on about 4 dates. Recent...
A. 16 April 2015: these is the classic scenario of a fwb. you might see it as the begininng of a relationship but he probably sees you just as someone he likes to hang out with and alsohave sex with.... (read in full...)
I've been talking to a guy on and off for 3 years... however for some reason he is never available on the weekends. Should I move on?
Q. I've been talking to this guy off and on for about 3 years now. I met him online. We have not slept together, but have gone out on several dates. We live about 2 hours away from each other. I am incredibly attracted to him and he always says that I ...
A. 9 March 2015: have you ever been to his house??? if not theres a reason why...hes married! if you have why dont you try just dropping by on the weekend just to see whats up.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 3 years just now told me he had a child that was put up for adoption
Q. I feel so shocked and hurt that I don't know what to do or where to turn. I've been in my relationship for three years now. Recently we made a decision to come off birth control and start trying for a family. The decision came after I had a sc...
A. 27 February 2015: maybe he just wasnt ready to talk about this before...having a child and giving it up might have been hard on him and he learned not to discuss this episode of his life.... (read in full...)
This could be my last chance at having a baby but everything is all wrong!
Q. I am 35 and my bf is 27. We have also only been together for 3mths. I discovered that I am pregnant. I have no kids and to be honest, at my age I had pretty much given up on the idea of it ever happening as I am prob too old now. I was on the ...
A. 26 February 2015: instead of terminating the pregnancy have you thought about an open adoption? i know there are couples looking to adopt and willing to have the birth mother involved to a certain point. ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?
Q. I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....
A. 15 February 2015: dude get a grip! youve been married almost 10 years and you have a kid by her. youve been happy till you found out this info. it sounds to me like youre looking for an excuse to cheat. ... (read in full...)
I would like his kids to be part of our big day, but what if they cant?
Q. Merry Xmas everyone! I just want a bit of advice..I am getting married next year and very exited. My fiancé has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I love them to bits. My future step daughter who is 7 is a bridesmaid and step son usher. They ...
A. 26 December 2014: heres a suggestion...just have a small ceremony in front of a judge when you ALREADY have the kids with you-like a spontaneous thing. then if you want have another ceremony infront of friends and family.... (read in full...)
I feel like such a loser lately!
Q. Man I feel like such a loser lately. I'm 22 years old, filled regret from my college experience because it was basically 4 years of stress/emotional suffering/extreme loneliness. I graduated with an ok gpa luckily, but so far I have no job (I've ...
A. 23 December 2014: is this field of study you can do volunteer work in? volunteer hours look good on a resume plus it gives you experience and a chance to maybe meet new people. even if you do volunteer work in a different field it atleast shows you have initiative!... (read in full...)
I'm a man who is being emotionally abused by his female partner. What should I do?
Q. I have reason to believe I am a male in an abusive relationship. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years, we have 2 kids, and she makes me feel completely worthless on a daily basis. In the start she used to make me feel limitless, a companion i ...
A. 21 December 2014: i dont think she will ever change...imo your only alternative is to leave and fight for physical custody. it really doesnt sound like your fiance will be a great role model once you leave. if you do stay i foresee her teaching the kids to disrespect ... (read in full...)
Should a girl like me just learn to be happy with what she has? Are my expectations too high?
Q. I started dating my current boyfriend about 7 months ago. I didn't know him well, but had gone through a really devastating year trying to adjust to a very competitive program at school, dealing with depression, family trouble and being abused by ...
A. 16 December 2014: imo hes never going to change. you sound like you have a bright future ahead of you...dont settle...youre still young. i know being single kinda sucks but its not the end of the world. and the fact that you have a mental illness isint the end of ... (read in full...)
Is she waiting until we're in a position to be married, or is she pushing me away?
Q. Dear readers, My post is kind of long, so please bear with me.. It all started in 2011 when i got a text message from my childhood schoolmate. We started speaking well. Infact we used to text each other rather through out day and night. Then one...
A. 5 December 2014: maybe she got sick of the sexting and stuff all the time. i know i lose interest in a guy very quickly if all he wants to do and/or talk about is sex!... (read in full...)
Talk me down! Hair salon appointment tomorrow!
Q. This may seem like the dumbest question ever, but tomorrow I'm going to the hair salon. I absolutely hate going to the hair salon, but I don't have time to style my hair for a wedding that I have to go to. The reason why I hate going is because...
A. 2 December 2014: you havnt said what the problems are but my suggesstion for most hair issues is to either put oil-jusst regular cooking oil works great-in your hair, let sit for like 15 mins and then wash normally. your hair will be moisturized and look alot ... (read in full...)
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