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Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

Q.   Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in t...

A.   24 February 2013: It doesnt matter what he is or is not addicted to. He is cheating on you regardless. End it now.... (read in full...)

I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!

Q.   I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly d...

A.   21 February 2013: What do you do now? The world is your oyster. I can not tell you what to do. That decision is yours. I can however, suggest what you don`t do, and that is marry her or even go back to her. Not going back to her will sort out your problem once and ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wont stop using dating sites but makes me out to be the bad guy! What have I done wrong?

Q.   Will someone please understand where I went wrong and what I did what was wrong? I have dumped my girlfriend because yet again she is on dating sites. She is not letting it go and is behaving like I have done her the greatest injustice for leaving ...

A.   24 January 2013: I am under the understanding that you have caught her on dating sites more than once? Where did you go wrong? You gave her the message you are soft and gave her the chance to do it again. That is where you went wrong. Break all contact and do not ... (read in full...)

I love 2 men and don't want to hurt either of them

Q.   I am in a very weird position. I love two men! I was dating a man in the army who was just about to deploy, he said he really likes me etc etc Then he went away and we decided to talk about taking our relationship further when he comes back. He is ...

A.   15 January 2013: You will probably fall in love with everyone by the sound of it. I dont think you really know what love is. Are you frightened of being left on the shelf? ... (read in full...)

Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas ...

A.   5 January 2013: A narcissistic personality disorder perhaps?... (read in full...)

Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?

Q.   I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...

A.   20 December 2012: I cannot answer for him personally. To me it sounds like he wants you back because he isnt getting the success he had hoped for from the dating sites. Whatever it is, you would be mad to even think about going back to him. Will he change? You dumped ... (read in full...)

Her parents are staying with us over Christmas, but I've found she is having sexual conversations with strangers on the internet! Should I confront her now, or wait until her parents have gone? I'm really disgusted and thinking about leaving...

Q.   My girlfriends parents are due from overseas to visit and stay over christmas. It will be the third time I have met them and we get on great. I have now discovered my girlfriend is having relationships and sexual conversations with strangers over ...

A.   19 December 2012: Show her the same respect she has shown you and dump her.... (read in full...)

She wont give up the dating sites and chat rooms, what can I do? I don't want to leave our son....

Q.   I have been living with my common law for 6 years and we have a 5 year old boy. For the last 18 months we have constantly argued over her use of dating and adult related chat room type websites. Just as always, I think we are getting back on the ...

A.   17 December 2012: All I see it as, is she is a cheat or a potential one. If you dont leave, then there`s a strong possibility she may leave you if someone she views as better is on the other side of her chatroom. She is only with you because she cannot get anyone ... (read in full...)

Does he just prefer being married or does he really not know how to behave?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 and half years has been pressuring me to marry him. I have been unsure because we have been making up and breaking up perpetually, over his use of dating sites. He seems to overlook how much it upsets me, even though he doesnt go ...

A.   11 December 2012: He is cheating on you. What are dating sites for?... (read in full...)

Girlfriend pressured me to throw out all things from my past but she lied and didn't do the same!

Q.   After 6 months I bowed to constant pressure and threw away all my old photos, holiday photos the lot (except the ones of my son). My girlfriend was adamant that they belonged in the past, was nothing to do with "us" and told me she had thrown all ...

A.   9 December 2012: It is her first peg on the ladder of having full control. You are about to lose all your identity and become a molded model of what she wants.... (read in full...)

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