My boyfriend's ex is demanding more in their friendship than I can accept
Q. Okay everyone im having problems with my boyfriends girl best friend. A week or 2 ago he hugged her and I told him he needed to chose between me or her. He chose me they stopped having out and barley talked unless it was about their phone bill cause ...
A. 5 October 2013: Is she his ex or his friend ? If she is an ex kick her to the curb. If she is his friend he made the wrong decision on your ultimatum. Not only does he lose a friend by choosing you but he also let you tell him he is not allowed to be friends with a ... (read in full...)
He's crossed boundaries in the past so I'm tempted to snoop
Q. need your advice please-to worry or to relax, to snoop or not to snoop! background: i've been with my bf 3yrs, he proposed (out of the blue) 1yr ago and we've since moved in to a new house together and are planning to marry in 2 years (giving us...
A. 5 October 2013: He believes that marriage is important because of what it shows other people. Yet he does not think what he shows you with his cheating behavior is important.
After the first time you decided to give him a second chance which i feel was the righ... (read in full...)
He's in jail now. When he gets out do I tell him I was a prostitute and other things about my past?
Q. So I'm talking to a man, who is currently in prison for a charge he caught at 17, for burglary. He gets out in 12 days, and I plan on spending time with him. We write all the time and I have met him. My problem is, he wants to know me, like rea...
A. 5 October 2013: You are ok with him being in prison currently. The least you should expect of him is him being ok with your past. Im mean seriously he is a convicted felon do you really think you should accept him looking down his nose at you. ... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you have sex with a woman on her period?
Q. What are your opinions on period sex? Especially guys... Would you have sex with a woman on her period? Would you do this only if you were in a relationship with her and care about or love her? Or would you do it with a random woman if you wa...
A. 5 October 2013: It definitely does not mean anything about connections or if he loves you or cares about you. Guys dont do or not do sexual things based on how much we love a woman. Exception for some guys is something he feels degrades her in his eyes. And i ... (read in full...)
Is it just my destiny to be lonely and alone all my life?
Q. I think I am going to be single for the rest of my life. My longest relationship was 3 years, but the average is 6-12 months, however I've been single for over 3 years now. I am very shy but even so joined evening classes at college, I also make ...
A. 5 October 2013: First how do you know when someone is only interested in no strings sex with you ? Do they tell you that ? Also with guys no strings sex is not always string free. I have been with my wife for 16 years and i definitely wanted sex with no strings ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to change my looks to get guys to notice me?
Q. Is it bad to change my looks to get guys to notice me? I'm 19 and a sophomore in college, yet I have never had a boyfriend. I know I'm not the most attractive person out there, but I'm always extremely kind thinking my personality will outdo my lo...
A. 5 October 2013: First you need to understand that guys notice every girl. Short tall big small pretty or ugly. We notice them all.
Second you are in college. This is the time of your life to experiment with who you are and what you look like.
Third guys are so a... (read in full...)
BF says he's Committed but still clubbing. I don't like it. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend sometimes likes to go out without me. I don't get it. I mean, why go to bars and clubs if you are not single? Tonight we were out with his friend and at 2AM he basically told me to go home. (I have work at 8AM anyway) but he wanted "...
A. 5 October 2013: Why go to a club if you are not single ? To hang out with friends , have a good time , drink. You know the reason everyone goes to clubs. Sure you go to hook up too but you usually dont. Which leaves the rest of the stuff. You guys dont always... (read in full...)
I have unfounded fears that my boyfriend would get back together with his ex if she wanted
Q. I have unfounded fears that my boyfriend would get back together with his ex if she wanted. They only talk via facebook message every few months, conversation seems innocent. Hi how are you kind of stuff. He does look at her page on facebook ...
A. 5 October 2013: So you are worried that your bf will get back with his ex if she asks. Are you worried he might get with someone new if she asks ? Why worry about something you have no control over ? Why worry if someone who no longer wants to be with you stops ... (read in full...)
An incredible night and now I can't get him out of my head
Q. Dear Cupid , A few nights ago I met this guy J . A really funny, laid-back, attractive guy [that was staying with a friend of mine ( J's best friend ) for a while]with whom I shared hours of hilar...
A. 5 October 2013: So after one great night of talking and sex you fell in love with a guy you dont know that does not want a long term relationship because he is from another country and is just visiting.
I understand he was your first. That being said you have... (read in full...)
I am 5 months pregnant and I don't trust my boyfriend going to parties getting drunk.
Q. I'm 5 months pregnant and feeling very stressed out. I'm in a relationship with someone I love very much. We have been arguing all week and its starting to really get me down, the main reason we are arguing is this.... Basically on Monday he told me ...
A. 5 October 2013: Aaahhh the old i trust him its the women i dont trust story.
What dont you trust these women to do ? Flirt with him ? Hit on him ? Have sex with your man against his will ? If you trust him then you know he is not going to do anything. What does... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or come to reality and move on?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. We are going through a bad patch at the moment but I don't want to break up with him because I really love him - if I didn't I would have broken up with him ages ago. I just need some g...
A. 5 October 2013: Why do you really love him ? Is the living situation new ? Has he recently not gotten a degree or gotten a job he hates ? Has he just now decided to not have a license or a car ?
My guess would be that he is probably the same guy he was when you... (read in full...)
I have lost attraction to my wife since she gained a lot of weight.
Q. Hi i have a problem,my wife is fat she has put on weight,I requested, advised her to decrease her weight, but she not taking any step to do it,due to this i am annoyed how shall i tell her that i am not able to manage my sexual intercourse, i don't ...
A. 5 October 2013: First thing is if you love and care about and respect your wife you need to be honest with her and tell her what the problem is.
Second do not beat yourself up for feeling this way. Although she may be the same person you married she is not the ... (read in full...)
My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?
Q. I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...
A. 5 October 2013: I know im a bit late but i wanted to add my view. First if you feel it is wrong or cheating or what ever if your husband watched porn ask yourself why you feel this was. Do you have a problem with porn or your husband getting turned on by it and m... (read in full...)
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