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Should I make contact with my old teacher?

Q.   I had a real thing for this teacher that I had. He left around a year ago now and I haven't been able to stop thinking about him, I actually cried when he left. Obviously he doesn't teach me anymore and I'm over 16. We used to get on so well, we had ...

A.   11 February 2009: Why the hell not you live once and thats not for long , dont live with regrets. ... (read in full...)

No time or privacy for masturbation!

Q.   It's a shame, I live in a very small house with paper thin walls, 95% of the time whenever I'm home there's someone else home in my family and I never feel comfortable about doing anything while theres people in the house or next room. It's like I ...

A.   11 February 2009: bang some sound on and have a good time. its normel when your single. if you have no locks on the door just put something in the way for a heads up....!!!! enjoy ... (read in full...)

The guilt is eating me alive.

Q.   I just cheated on my girl friend of one year. I knew it was wrong and once things started to progress from just kissing I had to stop because I just knew that what I was doing was a terrible thing. I told the girl I had to stop and I just went ...

A.   11 February 2009: men are weak and so are women. but you stopped your self not many blokes would. you were bad dont get me wrong but yyou know that and you stopped b4 it got worse. if there is no way that you bird can find out dont tell her youll hurt her for no ... (read in full...)

A moment of weakness...

Q.   My husband of 9 years just sat me down the other day, and told me that 6 years ago he had a moment of weakness and with a co workder pulled over in a parking lot and and pulled his pants down, and before anything could happen the cops pulled up and ...

A.   11 February 2009: only you know all men are different do wat your gut tells you were all weak at some point. no excuses thats just bein human, its then up to you two to know weather you can get passed it. if you dont think you can then its best to cut the ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's porn makes me feel betrayed

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for around seven months, it is my longest relationship and it seems to have been going better than usual recently.I love him and am happy in the relationship. However, the topic of porn came up recently...

A.   8 February 2009: Men and porn go together, i havent met a man who doesnt have porn.. id be supprised if i did!! dont be upset if they dont look like you, he wouldnt be going out with you if he didnt think you were hot. when he mentions how hot they are again just ... (read in full...)

18 year old b/f sent me naked photos..is it illegal?

Q.   my boyfriend sent me pictures of him naked on my email, and we both r aware of r realtionship being illegal, cuz he is 18, but is it illegal for me to have his naked pictures. cuz i no its illegal if i send him pictures, thats child porn, but he i...

A.   8 February 2009: your to young to recieve pictures like that, he should no better. And if he asks you to do the same no matter what he says you dont. if hes sending you pictures like that then i dont think hes a good person for you to be talking to.... (read in full...)

Set up on a date and don't want to go!

Q.   My friend is having people round next weekend but it's going to be her, her boyfriend, another couple, this guy and me. I'm not into this guy at all and I feel like it's really cringey and 'set-up' so I don't want to go, but she knew when she asked ...

A.   8 February 2009: You can do what ever you like you are your own person if you dont want to go you dont. Just tell her you cant make it cause you dont want to and that she shouldnt have put you in a spot like. if she doesnt already know that you dont like the guy ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my friend its a "girl's weekend" and boys are not welcome?

Q.   My best friend is constantly with her boyfriend,they've been going out for just inder two years and never seem to be apart, obviously i'm happy for them but it's so annoying on the weekends she wont ever do anything with the girls unless he's ...

A.   8 February 2009: some people just cant take the hint, you got to say it how it is. You have to say this is girls only nobody else is aloud to bring their men and that it includes you, if she doesnt like it she doent come. Try explaining aswell that no man will put ... (read in full...)

Do women realise this about guys? Is it not true?

Q.   To many women think we are playing mind games with them so guys I'm gona have to spill the beans and tell them what we are realy doing. When a guy has a great conversation with you wherever it may be and then all of a sudden seems to ignore you for ...

A.   7 February 2009: That may be how you feel but that's not the whole population most are just jerks.. there's only a few that are like that. ... (read in full...)

Best friend keeps stealing my guy!

Q.   Well to start off there's this one girl I used to be best friends with last year, this one guy liked me and she liked him. She constantly was jealous and now we enter the next grade and another train wreck. 2 long months of my ex-bestie getting ...

A.   3 February 2009: Tell your friend she has to back off your men, and that shes lucky you are still mates if my mate done that to me theyd be no mate of mine now. If she doesnt back off, then my advice is you shouldnt be mates. you should be able to trust your friends ... (read in full...)

I feel the odd one out. I'm not like my family. How to talk about it without starting an argument?

Q.   Ok so this isn't a relationship question but I think this site looks like a semi-respectable, if not more, place for advice. So I am 15, nearly 16. I have an older sister who is very very clever, heading to Uni in september etc, turning 18 this yea...

A.   3 February 2009: Do you know what i found worked when my parents didnt get what i was sayin, and maybe i wasnt sayin it properly. Write them a letter it gives you time to clearly say how you feel without a row, and it seems to hit them clearer when its in black and ... (read in full...)

How do I find confidence & be happy with myself?

Q.   i'm insecure with how i look. i have all these family/friends/work problems coming at me all at once. and dealing with a break-up! i know one of my problems is that i am too passive and naive. (is it wrong to be nice and trust everyone?) another ...

A.   3 February 2009: i know what you mean when i started saying no to people i had a few who made me feel terrible, i got to the point were i said i have my own life and my own problems you dont like it your not in my life. Harsh it was and it took me a while to be able ... (read in full...)

My horrible story please read

Q.   im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...

A.   3 February 2009: You need to go to your doctor and get professional help, your a baby yourself. Dont take this the wrong way but you seem very immature yourself, thats why i say you need professional help with this one.... (read in full...)

How do I find confidence & be happy with myself?

Q.   i'm insecure with how i look. i have all these family/friends/work problems coming at me all at once. and dealing with a break-up! i know one of my problems is that i am too passive and naive. (is it wrong to be nice and trust everyone?) another ...

A.   3 February 2009: Deep down i think everyone is insucure about themselves in oneway or another, some hide it better. You are what you are and being different is what makes you you. You should be pround of you and expact loads of problems in life cause we will all get ... (read in full...)

Am I a fool for waiting for her for so long already? How can I make this marriage work?

Q.   hi I've been on here afew times...but deleted my account for various reasons.... I am in a very hard situation that I don't know what to do.... Basically, my wife (married for 5.5 years) took an amazing job back in her own country (12hrs fl...

A.   2 February 2009: Yes your a fool, a sweet caring fool but thats what they tend to be. Any relationship is 50/50 and that doesnt seem to count for your darlin little wife who lives her own life and does what she pleases regardless of you and your feelings . life is ... (read in full...)

I'm angry & think he's using me but I love him

Q.   This is going to sound really strange, I was with my boyfriend for a year and he finished it saying I basically drove him crazy because I wanted a serious relationship and he felt we were too young. That was a year ago and we have been carrying on ...

A.   2 February 2009: You say love him, do you really? or do you love what you think you can have with him and his family. It sounds like hes doesnt want to settle, maybe hes a bit to young and doesnt feel he needs to yet.. And why should he when he has you for all his ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't want to get involved with someone younger than 16

Q.   Well I've been talking to this guy. And I really like him, my friends say he likes me and that i should just ask him if he does. But he said that he doesn't want to get involved with under 16s after what happened before. And then theres this girl ...

A.   2 February 2009: what happened with the other underage girl for a start? And you are far to young to be having this problem people are growing up to quickly now, you should be having a laugh not worrying other a boy cause believe me youll have plenty of time for ... (read in full...)

My brother's GF will not let him go anywhere without her.

Q.   My brother's gf will not let him go anywhere without her. When he is not with her he has to be on msn with her. She has put 18 pictures of the two of them in his room. She writes him letters that say she cant live without him and that he is the ...

A.   2 February 2009: ive learnt when it comes to family and the people they choose to be with, there more you tell them you think it a bad idea there harder they'll try to male it work.... (read in full...)

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