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Missed the deadline to confirm my seat in law school. Is it too late?

Q.   okay so i know this isn't a relationship question, but i was hoping someone would possibly be able to help me in some way. i had applied to law school and gotten accepted to start in january. however, the letter they sent me for acceptance someh...

A.   28 November 2013: I think maybe a forum like Collegeconfidential might be more appropiate. I missed a deadline too and they gave very helpful suggestions!... (read in full...)

My child's father risks jail because of his behavior towards me and I feel guilty!

Q.   I need help.....i feel guilty for putting my child father in jail. His jealousy causes him to do crazy things to me. At first I thought his jealous behavior was cut until it ended with property being destroyed. Now we have a pending court case and I ...

A.   29 October 2013: I am going through a similar ituation, where I was in love with an abuive ex boyfriend. My counselor pointed me to read about "TRAUMA BONDING" It is very enlightening. I advice you to read about it. I used to think a lot about my abuser, and f... (read in full...)

I am scared to leave him after he said that he would kill himself.

Q.   im in need of advice. i been with a guy for over 6 years and is been a roller coaster, i sometimes was happy sometimes wasnt, we dont live together but that was the plan to move in together, we met in new york but his choice of living was florida ...

A.   24 September 2013: DONT TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY. I bf did this to me ALL the time. Funnily enough I was in Orlando when he did it again. What I did was calling the police on him, saying "I am afraid he will self harm" and he STOPPED. If his threats are real they wi... (read in full...)

I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them

Q.   Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfrie...

A.   29 July 2013: I am sure if your girlfriend said your friend had a bigger penis than yours, or was hotter than you...you would not feel it was right. Some stuff we have to keep to ourselves, there are boundaries, and he is your gf's friend. Keep your comments... (read in full...)

Whichever answer I give is the wrong answer!

Q.   Whenever I meet American girl on dating site and we get along well, I get confused when she asks me would like to travel to US? If I say yes, they suspect me approaching her for getting to US. When I answer no, then they thing I don't want to meet ...

A.   27 July 2013: I think an in between answer would be best. Something along the lines of... "I would love to visit if given the chance, I think the culture is interesting." And maybe follow up with "Have you ever been interested in visiting Pakistan? It's rea... (read in full...)

Are girls okay with a guy experimenting a lot with his looks?

Q.   I moved to Ireland 4 months back to be with my wife . I'm 33, she is 30. I'm still holding Pakistani nationality and soon will be Ireland citizen thanks to my wife. I always like experimenting with my look: One month I will have French Cut beard and ...

A.   24 July 2013: I don't see why she would have a problem with you changing your look. Unless she thinks you are cheating? It's like when girls go to the hair salon and try new looks! I'm sure your wife does it too! I don't understand why people tell you t... (read in full...)

My boyfriend told me he already sees the end and when he's ready he will leave me

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been officially dating since mid may, but have been talking as friends for about 10 months prior to that. He's a great guy that i enjoy talking and spending time with. I've Always had a 'thing' for him, and when we were just ...

A.   23 July 2013: You arr asking why. Well, firstly he is I assume in your age range 22-25. Why would he want to tie himself up so early in life where he is not even stable? I give the guy props for being honest with you so you are not making up ideas in your he... (read in full...)

Am I just not date-able?

Q.   I have been single for a year now and I am starting to get really frustrated with it. I am a attractive and interesting 22 year old girl. I am over weight, but I, and other guys I know find my body very sexy because of it's shape; I'm very hour ...

A.   18 July 2013: I think your weight is holding you back, but not in the way you would think! I was just like you ...and I knew I was attractive, but still *I* knew I was overweight and that held me back from being as confident ans outgoing as I could be. So I... (read in full...)

My long distance boyfriend insists we get married so we can be together

Q.   Thank you in advance for any advice regarding my problem. I am pretty torn up inside and I'm not sure of what I should do. I'm 25 years old and so is my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been in a transatlantic, long distance relationship for about ...

A.   15 July 2013: I've seen this before. If he pressures you that much to get married....don't. Tell him to come visit you first. You can give him an invitation letter saying he will stay at your place for a determinate time. Have him come on HIS money on a touri... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend told me I had bad breath and now I'm paranoid

Q.   Hi everyone my ex boyfriend who i split up with 4 month ago told me i had bad breath i have asked all my friends and family who i can trust to tell me the truth i have had a couple of dates with a new man but im so paranoid about the comment my ex ...

A.   15 July 2013: Hello. Don't worry about it. He was probably being a jerk. My brother had a huge breath problem, no matter how much he brushed. He bought this mouthwash called Therabreath. You can google it, it was like 7 bucks a bottle, and it worked great. E... (read in full...)

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