My friend will not stop talking about her sex life !
Q. Firstly, i'm an introvert, so I tend to get annoyed pretty fast with someone's presence if they're always around. Secondly I tend to bottle up how I feel for the sake of being polite and swallow my dislike in order to put the other person's c...
A. 4 November 2016: That's a tough one! I would bring it up but jokingly like laugh and she'll ask why you're laughing then say with a sigh "oh you just love to talk about this, you know you've already told me haha." I hear you though, it's annoying to hear your gf ... (read in full...)
Is this FWB thing wrong or should my friends not judge?
Q. Hello everyone I'm having a sort of fling with a guy I work with who is 20 years older then me but I feel dirty and a little bit ashamed after my friends started saying he was a pervert and that it was wrong. I'm 25, he is 46. He's divorced an...
A. 4 November 2016: It's only wrong if you truly feel it's wrong! I don't see anything wrong with it, it's just Sex like you said, and even if feelings happen then oh well! What's meant to be will be. Just continue being safe and I wouldn't tell anyone anymore, it's no ... (read in full...)
Is this normal? Should I avoid any contact sexually with men if I'm not gay or bi?
Q. I'm a heterosexual male and is not sexualy attracted to men. However I do get turned on when I see a male erection. I fantasise on occasions about performing felatio and mutual masturbation with guys. I have also participated in mutual masturbation ...
A. 4 November 2016: I believe being gay or bi means you're attracted to the same (and opposite if bi) both on an emotional and anatomical level. I'm a straight woman, but do I think some women are beautiful? Yes, some women can turn me on and I have fantasies of being ... (read in full...)
Ex has started dating an 18 year old guy! How do I deal with this shocking news?
Q. My ex boyfriend (3 year relationship, broke up with me 6 weeks ago due to him feeling neglected due to my depression and OCD) told me this week that he is now in a relationship with an 18 year old boy... My ex and I are both 27....... One week ...
A. 4 November 2016: What do you mean you got on with him? What a difficult situation, I would be pretty shocked too then again anything is possible. If I were you, I would be there for him as a friend and try so hard to not take anything personally. If he is gay or bi, ... (read in full...)
If you find yourself having messed up badly, how can you stop beating yourself up? and will God or the universe send the right person(s) your way without you being prepared?
Q. I met a great guy over a month or so ago and I blew it from the very beginning. I made a mistake by not respecting myself enough and made myself look like a low-value woman in his eyes by my actions and choices. I guess I didn't even realize my ...
A. 3 November 2016: I know how you feel, we all make mistakes. I'd try to look at the bright side-whatever is meant to be will be. Maybe he wasn't the one for you and yeah I'm sure he seemed like a great guy but maybe his true colors hadn't come out yet?? Again, no one ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he has never enjoyed sex much
Q. Hi, I have a wonderful boyfriend of 5 months. Originally we took our time getting to know each other before taking it to the next level. Now, that we have mentioned to each other that we are both ready. Every time we get sexual, it seems he ...
A. 3 November 2016: I feel like my husband is the same way! Just finding out about this with him. Glad you found that out before it's too late like get married! Ugh I wish I would've known about it before but we were in honeymoon stage and he was drunk every time we ... (read in full...)
Why did she have to exchange numbers with a pervert and a complete stranger. HELP!
Q. This is going to be a long one but what I'm saying was suspicion until I saw it with my own eyes. She has changed and has been hideous for which I think the situation that I've mentioned below might be the reason. So here it goes. Hi, my girlfri...
A. 3 November 2016: Sounds like you two aren't on the same wavelength. She clearly said she doesn't have a boyfriend and is single. You know you're own threshold, that would be enough for me. She also sounds naive to be having a convo with a man in another country ... (read in full...)
I'm not convinced she's stopped contact with him!
Q. I had found out that my girlfriend had accepted a married man while still in love with me, I ask her but there was no proper answer from her and I told her to call the man and tell him that she is going out with me but she refused to tell him on ...
A. 3 November 2016: Tell her how you feel! Say look, I love you and I want this to work but I'm still uneasy about what happened and I feel like you still keep contact. Then ask her what could be done for her to prove to you. If she's not in contact with him, she will ... (read in full...)
He'll only communicate with me via the dating site
Q. Help, I have been messaging a guy for 4 months on a dating site. We seem to have alot in common and message for hours maybe 2 times a week. But we have never met and i have never heard his voice. He wont share his phone number with me or txt my ...
A. 3 November 2016: He's a catfish or married/in a relationship. Could be just for ego also. I'd cut him off if he doesn't want to talk on the phone or video chat. ... (read in full...)
It's a rocky relationship and I just learned he's been sexting other women! I need advice!
Q. Please I need y'all advice. So my bf and have both live here in the U.K. I came here when I was a teenager and he's only been here for 3yrs now. His mum said I'm a good girl so she set us up. He was not my type so I didn't agree. He pursued me ...
A. 3 November 2016: I feel your pain. I would be so upset too! You have every right to feel that way. There's no excuse for what he did but maybe he was being spiteful because of how you're in contact with your ex?? I wouldn't be okay with my SO keeping contact with ... (read in full...)
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