How long should an orgasm last????
Q. I recently only started having sex for the first time. I was wondering why it seems that i only orgasm for like 5 seconds and thats it? is it suppose to last longer? How can i make it last longer? ...
A. 27 August 2007: Well, a female orgasms for a few seconds to my best knowledge. I didn't have any premarital sex experience but I knew that for a woman it would last no longer than 10 seconds. This is in fact what my wife, my sexual partner of 5 years, reassured me ... (read in full...)
Heartsick over her playing around with an old bf..will we ever be able to build the trust again?
Q. I need help. First, the background. I met a girl the end of September, and we really hit it off. The end of October, we both said "I love you". She is mid to late 20's and I am mid 30's, there is 8 years between us. I decided to take her on a qu...
A. 3 January 2007: Well, you should be very careful with this. Use kid's gloves to handle it.
As you said, the trust between you two has been damaged and it takes a hell of long time to be right on the old track again. She's probably having confused feelings abou... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Happy Xmas to everyone, from DearCupid!
Q. It has been a busy year here at DearCupid! We celebrated our 2nd birthday in November and had our 20,000th question and 70,000th answer published... Thanks to everyone who contributes to the site: Those who ask questions, those who answer, and ...
A. 24 December 2006: HaHaHaHappppyyy Xmas. Give liberty, equity and brotherhood to every single human.
So be it!
And you Andrew: We all wish you the best of ever in the upcoming year. Communication is everything in our lives and you give us his unique oppor... (read in full...)
Is he coming on strong or is he just wanting to be friendly?
Q. I have been married for four years and have made friends with my husband friends which are also married. Now over the past few years every time we meet up or go to dinner the guy in question finds a way to sit next to me, this in it self is not a ...
A. 23 December 2006: I agree with the other commentators. You have to let your man know about it because I think this is his right to be filled in on what is going on around especially considering the fact that you still show a high degree of sensetivity to this "guy's ... (read in full...)
What exactly is 'charm' and how can I be charming?
Q. wot is charm? how can i be charmin to a 14yr old gurl. im 16. any ideas? we say hi n met on a mates bday b4 dats it!...
A. 1 November 2006: Charm for me means 'Charm of Personality' and not just the charm of appearence. Honesty, respect and wisdom will make you look like a legendary figure, a savior and the very Prince Charming himself. Also, trust yourself and believe in yourself and ... (read in full...)
He and I both have differing sex drives! How can we help each other meet halfway?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and he has never been as sexually driven as me. I know more often than not men want sex more, however I like sex daily or at least 4-5 times a week. Whereas he like it about 1 time a week. ...
A. 28 October 2006: Be realistic. Maybe it's his upbringing, but you should be aware of the fact that sex drive is determined by many factors: body state, mental preparation, pervious sexual experience and your behavoir, to name a few. But if he gives you "reasonable" ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 23 October 2006: This is not normal at all and is known as incest. Any incestuous relationship, especialy between a sister and a brother, faces social disapproval and condemnation (among "lay men")or is legally a crime in almost any community. It reflects deep, ... (read in full...)
Whats the best position for a girl to have an orgasm ?
Q. A question for the girls. What is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm during sex? If you want to say on top - please be specific?...
A. 18 September 2006: A part of it is physical, I mean your position. And that's your clitoris to be touched, played out and stimulated to bits. You and your partner will find the most befitting position in time. A part of it is mental: try to take off from a relaxed ... (read in full...)
I dont love my husband, but have a lover, he wants me to move near him, but wont leave his wife!!
Q. Im married with 3 children but im not very happy as i dont love my husband anymore.I have a lover who i have been with for a number of years,the thing is he has a partner who is 25 years older then him but its not a sexual relationship just ...
A. 18 September 2006: This looks more like a catch-22. I mean you should be careful, very much careful, in you r decision because it may affect noy only you but the lives of the kids. Does your husband feel the same as you? Doe he no longer feel any commetment to your ... (read in full...)
I gave up partying as I was committed to her, she however hasnt, I dont feel this is right advice please!
Q. Me and my girlfriend are in a commitment relationship and currently living apart, in a long distance relationship. I stopped drinking and partying for us, changing over to a new leaf of life so to speak. However she continues to drink and party and ...
A. 18 September 2006: Let's be honest: you think she should change over to your way of commitment or enjoy the same level of your new lifestyle, what do you believe forces her to get along with you? And why do you keep on deluding yourself into something that is not ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up things by having a threesome! My bf thinks it's a bad idea..any advice?
Q. I want to spice things up in mine and my boyfriends sex life and we thought about having a threesome. I want to but have no idea who to choose to join us. We've agreed it must be a girl but I don't want a friend or someone I don't know at all! Help! ...
A. 18 September 2006: Three is a crowd! Throw the idea off away and get down to your relationship. Your seems to be strong and spicy enough and you don't need to flavor it up by dragging anybody els into a space they do not belong to. Personally I fundamentally disagree ... (read in full...)
My BF looks at other women when we have sex!
Q. Why does my boyfriend have to look at other women while we are having sex? He also does not like me to make eye contact while we are having sex. We have been together for 4 years and I have not yet experienced the intimacy that I need. He i...
A. 18 September 2006: Communication is every thing. In a solid relationship, also physical sensivity ,or what you think of as intimacy, plays a crucial role. Make him understand that you need to be stared at into eyes, that you while having sex are in dire need of ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents he is of a different race???
Q. i just posted the question "I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!" around 2 days ago, but i honestly need as much advice as possible. So we've been spending soooooo...
A. 10 September 2006: Tell them right NOW about this guy. Be frank. They better know about it a.s.a.p. or a time will come when you are caught between Mr. devile and seven deep blue seas! Afetr all, we are in 21st century and I do not think people still are as hard and ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and in an abusive relationship with my soon-to-be husband
Q. hi im 18, supposed to be marrying my fiance of nearly 3yrs in June. We have a 9 month old son. I dont know what to do about my fiance. He has absolutely no respect for me whatsoever. He knows i hate porn and when he got a porn video emailed to h...
A. 6 September 2006: Get out it now! If he is as bad as painted up there, well, there is NO, absu-bloody-lutely, NO logic in continuing this. Respect, honor, dignity, self-esteem, these are vital in any sort of relationship, but this guy seems to be taking these ... (read in full...)
Who knew that the reality of living together would not match the fantasy in my head?
Q. I moved out of my parents house 6 months ago and got a flat with my boyfried of 3 years. For the first 4 months everything was great, but recently sex seems to have taken a back seat i.e only having sex once a week for12 minutes. We make plans to ...
A. 5 September 2006: This is a common setback with the couples in their first or second year of being together. The first few months 'every thing goes fantastic' because you are still not fully on the track: the relationship has not taken its final shape and shows you ... (read in full...)
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