Why does he say I should be grateful?
Q. Hi, When I have a grievance against something my boyfriend has done or said, he'll say 'you could have it worse, you know. You could be with someone that lies to you and cheats on you.' He'll say that to just about anything I complain abou...
A. 28 December 2005: why in the world would you stand for his treatment. sounds like he is the one who should be grateful that you are with him. move on.... (read in full...)
Would it be better for me to have sex with another virgin, or with the girl who I'm in love with?
Q. Hi, I am 16 years old and just met this wonderful girl who I am in love with. However she does not seem to feel the same way. I am still a virgin and she rather prefers a sexual relationship. I know she slept with other men before and I w...
A. 28 December 2005: You might be surprised at what could happen if you tell her you are a virgin and you are in love with her. any man or woman loves to make love to a virgin for the first time. two virgins making love for the first time seem to be shy and lost as to ... (read in full...)
I get an orgasm each time I get intimate with my boy... Normal or lucky?
Q. I've read some of the questions about what an orgasm is and some replies said that they're not even sure it they've had one. It took him a while (about 4 mo., it was both our first times having any kind of sexual pleasure by another person), but now ...
A. 28 December 2005: Being with a man who can and who is willing to pleasure his woman to complete satisfaction is nothing to complain about. You and he are very lucky to have this satisfaction. enjoy the pleasure he gives.... (read in full...)
I like a lot of sex and she is refusing. Am I driving her away or is she trying to bail out on this relationship?
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for 12months now but i think i have a few problems. it all started 2 months ago. she said to me that all i wanted her was for sex but i enjoy having sex and i do feel like i always want to have sex with her. so she...
A. 27 November 2005: you have already shown her that having sex is more important to you than a true relationship with her. best say bye and let her move on. ... (read in full...)
I'm confused! The guy I like ignores me when we see each other but he always text messages me. What's going on with him?
Q. Hey, my problem is that I like this guy but am not sure what he feels for me. Whether its just curiosity or more! I met him a month ago and he got my number, but we have never been on date, because he hasn't asked me out. We have met on a couple of ...
A. 27 November 2005: You left some vital information. the age of the guy and your age. Maybe he just is not sure what to do or how to approach you to ask you out. Maybe he has had a bab relationship in the past and now he is "girlshy". be bold, ask him out. if he beats ... (read in full...)
He won't change but wants me to...what do I do?
Q. Please help. When I first met my boyfriend, it was hearts and flowers. I've since discovered that he can be critical, impatient, judgemental and school teacherish. He has a temper and doesn't cope well with stress. I stand up to him now (didn't ...
A. 27 November 2005: WHY are you still with him them? You just said he said that he has been trying to get rid of you for months. Say bye and move on. someone who loves you for you will find you and you them. ... (read in full...)
He had flings with family members but I'm not allowed to confront them!
Q. i have been split up with my husband for 10 months, we are going through a divorce. my husband has just recently confessed that he had a string of one night stands during our marrage what hurts the most is that one of them was with my brothers...
A. 27 November 2005: Hold your chin up, you are not the first or last to go through this type of problem. AFTER your divorce write a letter to the male parties of the women involved, just telling them you seen their woman out with ?. you can sign your name but it would ... (read in full...)
Had a crush for three years, but I'm too scared to tell him about it!
Q. Hi I'm a 16 year old girl. I've had a crush on my best friend since I was 13. His name is Chris and I like him so much. I'm scared to tell him. How do I tell him I like him?...
A. 3 September 2005: write a poem!
Give me an application, For a position in your heart;
You don’t have to pay me, Just tell me when to start;
Looking for choice employment, I’m at your service, when you call;, When it comes to pleasing I’m always on the ball.
... (read in full...)
Help! Things are moving too fast. I'm 12 and my boyfriend is 17...
Q. Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend. I'm 12 and he's 17, we've been together for 2 months I really love him but things are moving a bit fast for me. We haven't even told my parents yet and he's talking about having sex! He has had sex with...
A. 3 September 2005: You said it yourself "He has had sex with lots of girls". WHY do you think that is? he gets what he wants and moves to the next girl. if you want to be the "proper girlfriend" then you will say "NO" and wait for the man of your dreams. if your BF ... (read in full...)
We cheapened what could have been by having text-sex...
Q. Hey...I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I have got a big problem. At about this time last year, I met a guy who was in the year above me at school, but whom I hadn't noticed before. When I got talking to him I liked him straight away, he seemed so ...
A. 28 August 2005: no your not in love with him. your in love with the idea that someone talks to you in the language you enjoy talking in. dirty sex talk. you need to tell him you lied and your not that type of girl who is looking for JUST sex. you are looking for a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated, and now she's pregnant. How can I deal with this?
Q. I am desperately in love with my boyfriend of 4 months. I thought we would be together forever. But I just found out he cheated about 2 months ago, in a drunken one-night stand with an ex. I never suspected a thing, even though I knew they had ...
A. 23 August 2005: how do you deal with it? by saying "bye"! ... (read in full...)
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