Why does my wife lie about her sexual past? I overheard a convo she had with a friend. Should I tell her?
Q. I have been married for many years my wife had a couple of sex partners before we met. She always said that when she was with the them that they didn't have a lot of sex which would not have bothered me if she did. My problem came up as we talked ...
A. 30 April 2017: Are you willing to become the poster boy of "If it ain't broke, don't fix it"?
Unless in the conversation with her friend, your wife was disrespecting and belittling you for your penis size, then there would be an issue that would need to be addre... (read in full...)
We are having an affair. Should my sister in law and I just run away together?
Q. Hello everyone, So my sister in law and I, ended up exchanging flirty messages and then it became wide open that we both wanted it. One thing led into another, before you know it we were having full on sex and everything in short order. It has be...
A. 29 April 2017: You may be reading way too much into your sister in law's behavior towards you. Just because she is having a sexual affair with you doesn't mean that she is willing to replace her husband for you and even she is willing to walk away from her ... (read in full...)
My wife's co-worker gifted her diamond jewellery. Would "just friends" do this?
Q. My wife recently received a "HW" diamond ankle bracelet and matching toe rings (2) from a fellow worker who she swears is just a good friend. They go out of town on business trips two or three times a month staying for at lest 2 nights each ...
A. 28 April 2017: You feel relieved that your wife is "only" engaging in extra marital sex but unless you are thoroughly on board with this, all the therapy in the world will not help either you, your wife and your marriage.
If you haven't done so already, you need... (read in full...)
Married to my FWB guy but sex life is terrible and husband isn't 'up for it'
Q. Hi all, we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and my husband doesn't feel like having sex much. I m lucky if I get it once a week. And he gets erection after a lot of trying. I will give u some?background info. So basically we started as FWB a...
A. 24 April 2017: Aside from a medical checkup, you may want to consider going to a sex therapist who may be able to help you two find new ways to have sex that are not so performance intensive (sexual intercourse).... (read in full...)
My wife's co-worker gifted her diamond jewellery. Would "just friends" do this?
Q. My wife recently received a "HW" diamond ankle bracelet and matching toe rings (2) from a fellow worker who she swears is just a good friend. They go out of town on business trips two or three times a month staying for at lest 2 nights each ...
A. 24 April 2017: No they don't.
I almost could go along with her behavior (if it is what I think) if only she would be open and honest.
What do you mean almost?
I told her this but she still insists they are just really good business friends and not... (read in full...)
I'm in a sexless marriage due to my wife's depression and now menopause. What do I do?
Q. My wife had 10 months off work with work related depression now the menopause has struck We have not had sex for nearly 2 years and even sleep in different rooms at times as she is in bed by 9pm most nights due to the medication. I am now becoming ...
A. 23 April 2017: I have something somewhat controversial because it involves some manipulation but it is definitely much less destructive than going outside your marriage for sexual satisfaction. For starters consider starting to make yourself little by little... (read in full...)
Painful sex for wife is causing serious problems in our marriage
Q. Hi. I am married to a woman who is wonderful other than the fact that intercourse is very difficult for her. We don't have kids, she is working and so do I. We were both virgins before we met and there was some problems in the intimacy department, ...
A. 23 April 2017: Sex and sexual intercourse are two totally separate things. Sexual intercourse is a part of sex, not be all end all of it. The sooner you and your wife realize this, the sooner the two of you can explore other forms of sex that do not involve sexual ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat but how can I recover from my infatuation?
Q. I'm a married woman with 2 children in my mid thirties, I've been in a long term relationship with my husband before we eventually got married (been together over 10 years). What I'm about to say is something I had never dared to share, please be...
A. 23 April 2017: Since you appear to be a heterosexual woman, it may be safe to say that just because you signed a piece of paper and had a wedding, that you (like other heterosexual married women) didn't stop being attracted to men (not all of them of course).
... (read in full...)
She has no problems trying to crush my ego. NOW she says I'm bad in bed. How should I respond to her insults about lovemaking?
Q. My girlfriend completely criticized my sex. Said I suck in bed when she's been wanting me for 3 years saying that no one knows her body like me and she never felt this good before and blah blah blah. But as soon as she gets mad at me that complet...
A. 22 April 2017: Have you considered that maybe she is cheating on you? Many women who cheat often start fights and demonize their BF or husbands in order to feel good about their betrayal. Our male egos sometimes blind us to the reality that our women are betraying ... (read in full...)
Why 25 later after an affair with my wife does this ex friend want to get together?
Q. My wife had a intense two year long affair with a single friend of ours back 25 years ago...we had tried a threesome with him,after a nite of drinking, and I found out rather quickly that I wasnt into it, but as it worked out my wife and this other ...
A. 22 April 2017: I take it that since you forgave your wife, and the fact that you are still married to her 25 years after she betrayed you for 2 years, that she has proven herself trustworthy. Why then chance the risk of reigniting old passions between your wife ... (read in full...)
I am at the end of desperation with my relationship problem.
Q. I am a married man and I got involved with this super nice girl at work. I love her slightly more than my wife but I can't leave my marriage because of my children. I wanted to leave my wife until my children confronted me and I had no choice. When ...
A. 22 April 2017: You say that you did not leave your wife for this other woman because of your children, but have you ever considered the possibility that your wife one day may find another man and that she then will drop you like a hot potato? I ask because from ... (read in full...)
How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?
Q. Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...
A. 21 April 2017: Skilled lovers come in all penis sizes. Sure there are some women who find an above average penis more satisfying. So why not turn your insecurity into actions by educating yourself on how to become a skilled lover for your GF? If she's a keeper, ... (read in full...)
Why is it a sought after fantasy, that satisfies so many men, to want to watch women hurt and degraded during a porn film?
Q. With the proliferation and popularity these days of extreme hardcore porn much of which depicts violence towards women , do men still see women as worthwhile individuals or are we just sexual objects for their gratification? Although I understand p...
A. 21 April 2017: Good question but an equally good one is "Why is it a sought after fantasy, that satisfies so many men, to want to watch their wives have sex with another man and even have them humiliate them and degrade them during a porn film?" And yet many of ... (read in full...)
How do guys cope with knowing their Gf's ex was well endowed? Do girls miss it and just settle ?
Q. Hello all, I have always struggled with intimate things as I would be worried about if my partner had been with very well endowed men. I know that statistically most guys will have to deal with that. But how do they? It always seems like...
A. 15 April 2017: Look even so called well endowed men get cheated on and/or left for another man (or a woman) with an average or below average size penis. That is a fact of life.
Instead of worrying about whether your penis will measure up to a woman's standard... (read in full...)
I have my ex husband's last name. My current boyfriend wants me to change back to my maiden name. Should I?
Q. My boyfriend does not like that I have kept the surname of my ex husband. It is just easier as my child's last name would be the same as mine. My boyfriend said it does not matter if my child's last name is different from his mother. I ...
A. 15 April 2017: No don't appease him. Having the same last name as your childs is much more practical not to mention the hassle of contacting multiple organizations that you are again changing your surname is no small thing.
Besides, unless it is an extremel... (read in full...)
How could she have a three year sexual affair with this guy, and still have sex with me??
Q. I recently discovered that my wife has been having a sexual affair with a single friend of ours for the past three years, usually when I was at work.... he is single and has had girlfriends in this three year period..She knew this because he came ...
A. 10 April 2017: I believe your wife posted here about a month ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-was-cheating-and-my-husband-found-out.html#provide_answer There are men and women who can compartmentalize sex from love. Your wife seems to be one of these peo... (read in full...)
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