He has been married twice before but wont marry me!
Q. I've been with my bf for about 4years now we have 9month babys and we have had are ups and dwns but now that we are good I want to get married to hem he's been married twice befor and he's half my age everytime I talk to hem about getting married he ...
A. 12 June 2012: To the male advice giver...seriously.... They have kids together and he doesn't want to get married....tell me really...when a guy gets a girl pregnant and has a life with them together but doesn't want to get married. OK...now why is it that when ... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying to be on good terms?
Q. Hi, my ex broke up with me just over two months ago and things have gotten worse since. It was messy and it ended badly with him hammering home the point that he didn't care about me. He said a load of other stuff that I'm not going to bore you ...
A. 12 June 2012: Yes, walk away.... When he walks away when you talk to the friends, let him, you are not in control of his behavior, but you are in control of your own. Once he see's there is not reaction to his action, he will stop being a dick head. As far as ... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying to be on good terms?
Q. Hi, my ex broke up with me just over two months ago and things have gotten worse since. It was messy and it ended badly with him hammering home the point that he didn't care about me. He said a load of other stuff that I'm not going to bore you ...
A. 9 June 2012: Well to be truthful with you, I would move on quickly.... DO NOT, try to be friends with him, don't try to be enemies with him. Just don't be anything with him. If he isn't a dick, he will just let things be. If getting another job will help, ... (read in full...)
We met on facebook and he wants to have sex with me
Q. MODERATOR NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED FROM SAME ASKER so im 16 and i know this guy from fb that i have been iming 4 bout a month now he is 23 and realy cute n he asked me out and wants to sleep with me but he said if i dont sleep with him then he ...
A. 9 June 2012: OH Dear Lord...... Put yourself in his shoes.... I mean, I'm not saying you are not pretty... I'm sure your as cute as a bugs ear... but Really, did you ever ask yourself why this man that is 7 years your senior is not dating in his own age ... (read in full...)
He has been married twice before but wont marry me!
Q. I've been with my bf for about 4years now we have 9month babys and we have had are ups and dwns but now that we are good I want to get married to hem he's been married twice befor and he's half my age everytime I talk to hem about getting married he ...
A. 9 June 2012: Ok, first of all you need to work on YOUR self esteem.... I have been there and done that and trust me this is not worth it. My advice is to walk away. Apparently this guy knows his limitation, although he is pretty stupid for getting right back ... (read in full...)
My six yr old son doesn't want to meet my new partner
Q. split with my ex 2 years ago and we have a lil lad of 6. When we split we agreed if we got with any one else we would meet the person b4 letting lad get involved. Ive met a lovely woman and have been with her 8mths. The ex and lad know bout her. ...
A. 9 June 2012: I was divorced before and have had this problem as I have 3 sons. One thing your going to have to understand, children of a new divorced couple want attention. I think you are giving too much attention to this. I think that you should make plans ... (read in full...)
How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University?
Q. How do you cope moving far away from family to go to University? First off, I'm not the 'traditional' student. I'm 23, have a great relationship with my mom, not really into the whole being alone, living it up partying phase, I feel like I've ...
A. 9 June 2012: I'm sure a million people will say "I understand" but I guess my question would be, you are brave and smart enough to get a degree. Use that strength to plow through the hard parts. I mean if I had this chance back in my 20's to go for a degree, I ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be upset with my boyfriend for masturbating 3 times a week when we only have sex once or twice a week?
Q. Is it normal for a guy to masterbate 3 times a week even tho he has a girlfriend? And say your having sex once maybe twice a week. Does the girlfriend have a right to upset with him? ...
A. 30 May 2012: I wouldn't be upset, about the masturbating, lots of people do it, it's really a natural thing. You might do some different stuff in the bedroom, maybe kink it up a bit. He may be wanting to do something different but thinks you may not go for it. ... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex?
Q. What maybe the problem when after making love you experience spots of blood on your pants....i mean me and my boyfriend having been havin sex and evrything was just great until last month when we had sex when i got @ home i was bleeding as like if i ...
A. 30 May 2012: Well it could be the vaginal wall that may be irritated, it could be that you may have chlamydia, you might want to go to a doctor as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....
Q. I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and ...
A. 30 May 2012: You can't be happy, yes he is happy, he is screwing with your head, and his wife is having fun screwing with your head as well. dump them both!!!! You need to get back to being YOU!!!!! Get off this drama merry go round that they have involved you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?
Q. Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard tim...
A. 29 May 2012: Well I can answer this question standing on my head. It will only get worse if you keep answering his questions or lieing to him. You have to sit down with him and make sure HE know's that this IS a problem and it is HIS problem not yours. You ... (read in full...)
What is the best way I can persuade her to be with me?
Q. I need a quick answer to this problem, any advice is appreciated. I am going to have a one on one meeting with my girlfriend this week, she is going to decide between myself and another man. Im assuming her mind will be made up What is the bes...
A. 29 May 2012: Well to be truthful, it seems she may be playing a game. Any woman that is "making a decision between two men is playing. She must have a very large ego, especially right now. If she says, "I'm going with the other guy", the best thing to do is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....
Q. I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and ...
A. 29 May 2012: Well, at my age, 56, I have been where you are, I stayed with it and found out how it ends, "or how it never does" In my experience, the guy loved the drama and it was such an ego boost to him that not only did his girlfriend, (me) want him but his ... (read in full...)
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