He wants to let things go "day by day". Do I wait?
Q. I'm single female w/no children. I have been dating this guy with 7 children for 4 months now. When we 1St started dating he stated he don't trust women and how his relationships never seem to last b/c of his job (bodyguard) and his children. I ...
A. 31 August 2010: Depends on whether you want children or not. Do you want to give birth? If so, walk away. If not, do the day-to-day. It's all about give and take!! Equality of the right kind.... (read in full...)
How do you regain confidence after a brush off?
Q. How do you regain confidence after a brush off? The guy I was seeing and I found ourselves at a work related event in which we didn't know anybody, it was only us from our company. So I sat with him (we had a friendly brake up, and were still sp...
A. 31 August 2010: The next time you are alone together you should say something. It could just be a sentence or two. Let him know he is being a jerk and that you deserve better treatment, especially in the professional arena. To tell you one thing then a few weeks ... (read in full...)
Is it my fault or is it his fault I feel worthless?
Q. I've been with my childs father on and off for 10years so I will just break this down. Ever since we had our daughter in 2002 I've been taking care of her alone basically. He always seems to be too busy hanging out with friends drinking and wha...
A. 22 August 2010: Allow yourself time to heal away from The Jerk! My Goodness! Where does he get off treating you like that! It's hard getting over your feelings for someone but it's so worth it, for you and your daughters. Get back into modelling, do your thing and ... (read in full...)
I like the guy, but the ex is in the way
Q. Hey, so I like this guy at my college and we have been friends for a few months now, he is super nice and sweet and I really like a lot about him. However, there is this girl who dated him before and she is always around him. I know for a fact that ...
A. 15 August 2010: I am sorry that I got it so wrong and thank you for the charming correction - beautiful. Seems like you have no problems in proceeding hun - he'd be very lucky to have you!!! And the other girl would do well to watch and learn, lol. Best wishes. xxx... (read in full...)
He's 17, I'm 13, he wants sex but I think I'm too young!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm gay and in my first relationship he's kind and he's everything I want in a man but since he's 17 and I'm 13 it's quite strange but it's both of our first relationship he wants to have sexual relations but I think I might be too you...
A. 15 August 2010: You know that you are to young - don't give in to him. Be sure that you know. Doubt is a terrible thing. Having no regrets is a wonderful thing. Know you are supported by at least one person in your choice to do the right thing. Please don't. ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't morning sickness have finished by now?
Q. Im just going to get straight to the point. 5 months ago i had unprotected sex and you guessed it got pregnant, i know it was stupid but me and the guy were and still are in love i dont regret my decision just wish i could of changed the timing. ...
A. 14 August 2010: Might continue throughout. Ginger works, even ginger beer - no alcohol. Stop the gym and try gentle exercise - specialist yoga perhaps, but be careful. Best wishes!... (read in full...)
What can I do with this desperate longing to have a baby?
Q. ever since i was about 15 i have felt ready for a baby, then i just thought that its hormones, well im 19 now, and my need is even stronger, it hurts sometimes when i think about it, i want a child so so so much, and then when i think about it more ...
A. 14 August 2010: Wait! Just make other plans, get passinate about something and let this play itself at the back of your mind and in the pit of your tummy. Been there too. These feelings kicked in at 15 and never really went away. Buried my head in studies, football ... (read in full...)
I like the guy, but the ex is in the way
Q. Hey, so I like this guy at my college and we have been friends for a few months now, he is super nice and sweet and I really like a lot about him. However, there is this girl who dated him before and she is always around him. I know for a fact that ...
A. 14 August 2010: Run! Leave them to it! He, if he was any good, would tell her in front of you not to be nasty. He would also make it clear that he is with you. It is possible to do this in a nice way too. Why be with someone who likes horrid people. Let him chase ... (read in full...)
Help! I need help with my marriage!
Q. Please, please could someone help me? I have been in a relationship with my husband for 11 years and married for 5. He has always had difficulties - he doesn't like watching me eat or drink, he doesn't want to sleep in the same room as me bec...
A. 13 August 2010: Hi! I am very sorry that you are having such a difficult relationship. I genuinely believe that you need some support in extricating yourself from such an abusive, self-centred individual. I thought that the description of your husband at the ... (read in full...)
Conflicting stories made me not trust him so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi and thank you for reading this question. I met a chappy online. We connected on a level over the internet and the phone. We met. Physically he is similar to my ex, both 'not-my-type' as in tubby and my height. He looked like a larger version of ...
A. 13 August 2010: Thank you very much for your response and confirmation. I have struggled with this as there was such a strong initial connection, on quite a few things. But hey-ho, c'est la vie etc etc lol. Thank you again and best wishes.... (read in full...)
I fantastize about ugly old dirty fat men! What is wrong with me?
Q. Hello, I feel as if I am abnormal...I am a 23 year old girl and in a good relationship yet the only thing that really turns me on is if i fantasize about much older, ugly, fat dirty men. I dont know why this is and it makes me feel like a freak. I ...
A. 12 August 2010: Nothing! Be careful though that you don't start playing this fantasy too often. Your mind is a wonderful thing and you can always change aspects of the fantasy. Rewind it like a movie and edit etc. Gradually do this till your fantasy man is ... (read in full...)
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