I'm not handling this break well at all
Q. We were dating nine months. Things seemed great. We did have our issues, specifically I put off meeting her best friend, which was partially subconscious, partially related to my stresses about grad-work (I'm a writer), but bottom line I should have ...
A. 7 October 2012: Hey all,
Thank you for the thoughtful responses. I really appreciate it.
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Do I send the flowers to her work or her house?
Q. Sending flowers to a girl. She works in a restaurant as a waitress/hostess. No idea if I should send the flowers there or to her house. If she worked in an office then it might be better to send them to work, but a restaurant may be kind of ...
A. 9 July 2008: Ok, so no, I've never been to her house and she hasn't given me her address. Work is better then? Honestly, I'm rethinking the whole thing, it's more of a last ditch attempt to woo her, but I don't want to be seen as a stalker type. We went out ... (read in full...)
Do I send the flowers to her work or her house?
Q. Sending flowers to a girl. She works in a restaurant as a waitress/hostess. No idea if I should send the flowers there or to her house. If she worked in an office then it might be better to send them to work, but a restaurant may be kind of ...
A. 9 July 2008: Ok, so no, I've never been to her house and she hasn't given me her address. Work is better then? Honestly, I'm rethinking the whole thing, it's more of a last ditch attempt to woo her, but I don't want to be seen as a stalker type. We went out ... (read in full...)
Should I try to get close to her by donating to her sister's charity?
Q. Ok, so I really like this girl: younger, still in college (I'm 23, one year out of school). We dated long distance for a couple months before she broke it off before coming home for the summer. I was affected by this more than I thought I would ...
A. 15 June 2008: Thank you India and lexilou for your answers! The truth of the matter is that yes, I guess I do have ulterior motives, but Ann is just such a nice girl and passionate and enthusiastic about life and causes like these, that she has definitely rubbed ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my best friend and the girl of my dreams all in one!
Q. So one of my best friends (college buddies, known each other for over 3 years, would do anything for the guy) recently came out and told me that he hooked up several times over the past year with my ex girlfriend, starting 3 months after we broke up ...
A. 9 February 2007: Hey, thanks for your input Eve. I'm sorry if I wasn't clear, but they weren't ever really dating eachother. They had some one night flings while she was dating a nother guy, whom she broke up with in mid-November. You're right though, and I ... (read in full...)
I have spoken to her in 2 weeks and it's killing me. I want her back!
Q. Ok, here's the situation. So I havn't talked to my ex for just over two weeks. It's killing me! Seriously though, I'm going to continue to keep this up, but I was just wondering how long it takes to start feeling better. Maybe it's because I'm ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hey guys, long story short, while we were very passionate and close in our year long plus relationship, we ended up spending too much time together, and due to my lack of relationship experience, I often found myself insecure, and acted a bit ... (read in full...)
My ex got bitchy by text when I told her I still wanted to be with her...
Q. Ok, I'll try to keep this short. My ex girlfriend is going to Hawaii for a week with her rebound guy (started dating him right after we broke up and then had a fight). We have been broken up for just over 3 months, and while it was tough for a wh...
A. 21 May 2006: Hey guys, I appreciate the input. I'm going to try to go at least the whole summer without talking to her. If she ends up moving into the city just down the street from me like she plans, it might make it harder, but at this point, I've messed ... (read in full...)
Does my ex-girlfriend still care about me and want me back?
Q. So my ex and I were getting along fairly well as friends even though I still love her. The semester just ended (we go to the same college), and I went out to drink and celebrate. When I got back, I IM'd her and we were talking lightly, joking, ...
A. 19 May 2006: Hey guys, you can see my new question with the unfortunate update should be posted by now. Let me know what you think. Thanks for the advice and words of wisdom.... (read in full...)
I've made a list of why they won't work....do you think this is right?
Q. Help! I'm think I'm going nuts. My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for almost 3 months and I can' t get her out of my head. Sometimes I'm fine, but today I saw her and her rebound guy together and now I feel like I'm right back where I ...
A. 9 May 2006: Thanks man. Yeah, sorry I was just having one of those down moments. I'm going to try to distance myself as best I can.... (read in full...)
Is my ex going to come back to me after her rebound?
Q. Hey guys, It's becoming clearer and clearer to me that my ex and her rebound guy won't work out. You know how you can kind of tell when a girl really digs a guy or not? I feel like she's just kind of using him to get over me, it's just a matt...
A. 7 May 2006: Well, I'll try to make this as short as possible. We were head over heels for eachother but what killed the relationship was us spending too much time together and me being a little bit jealous. We were together together for over a year and ... (read in full...)
Any chance of my ex getting over her rebound relationship and coming back to me>
Q. Hey guys, Me again. My girfriend is seeing a guy (started seeing him less than 2 weeks after we broke up) who is the complete opposite of me, and now she doesn't even hang out with the group of friends that we always hang out with (we were fr...
A. 16 April 2006: Well, I sent the letter. I'm prepared for the worst. I'm ready to not see her for a while if that's what she wants. At least she'll know how I feel. Right???... (read in full...)
I 'm going crazy! I want to contact my ex gf so badly and she's dating another guy!
Q. Going crazy!!! My ex broke it off with me almost 2 months ago, and only a week or two after we broke up she started seeing someone new. We went out for a little over a year. My buddy just recently broke up with his girlfriend and together we ...
A. 13 April 2006: Hey guys, yeah, It was definitely me who caused the problem in the relationship. I had hurt her once, and a few months later we hit a rough spot. We hit the rough area because we basically spent too much time together. So we agreed to work on ... (read in full...)
Should I call or not call her?
Q. Hey, I want to call my ex girlfriend today. She was sick and so went home for the weekend to go to the doctor's and just kind of take it easy. I told her the other day before she left to rest up and get well soon, etc., so maybe I shouldn't call ...
A. 9 April 2006: Ok, well, I talked to her to see if she was better and express my concern, but that was it. Do you really think I should talk to her about other stuff, even though she's in a relationship? I think that might be a mistake. I think it might be ... (read in full...)
Should I call or not call her?
Q. Hey, I want to call my ex girlfriend today. She was sick and so went home for the weekend to go to the doctor's and just kind of take it easy. I told her the other day before she left to rest up and get well soon, etc., so maybe I shouldn't call ...
A. 9 April 2006: Oh, I know. It would have to be a concerned friend, anything else would be unacceptable. I am most definitely concerned as I love her to death. However, I am not over, so I am thinking about not calling. I'm realizing more and more that I need ... (read in full...)
Why should she be annoyed now we are no longer together??
Q. Hey guys, maybe some of you are familiar with my situation, I have posted several times before about my breakup and you've been a great help. My ex is on the rebound with another guy and I'm still in love. Here's the latest: She was singing ...
A. 5 April 2006: Hey, thanks guys, I appreciate the input. I'll keep you updated on my situation. I am trying my hardest to move on with my life, but I can't imagine ever not loving her.... (read in full...)
I want to believe badly that her new man is only a rebound!
Q. Hey guys, I've asked a few questions before, so a lot of you probably know what my situation is. My ex means so much to me and I'd like to maintain hope. Here's the thing, I think that she might think that she is in love with her rebound guy ...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey guys, yeah, I think you guys are right, and I've been wavering back and forth between not contacting her and contacting her. Please don't misinterpret though, I'm not harrassing her and calling or iming her all the time, or giving her gifts ... (read in full...)
I want to believe badly that her new man is only a rebound!
Q. Hey guys, I've asked a few questions before, so a lot of you probably know what my situation is. My ex means so much to me and I'd like to maintain hope. Here's the thing, I think that she might think that she is in love with her rebound guy ...
A. 30 March 2006: Hey guys, I appreciate your thoughts and advice. I don't really feel like I'm doing anything to interfere in her relationship right now. Do you think that the easter gift would be too much? I can't give it to her as a dear friend? What's really ... (read in full...)
I want to believe badly that her new man is only a rebound!
Q. Hey guys, I've asked a few questions before, so a lot of you probably know what my situation is. My ex means so much to me and I'd like to maintain hope. Here's the thing, I think that she might think that she is in love with her rebound guy ...
A. 29 March 2006: Thank you Smeedle. You are right, I don't plan on walking away anytime soon, but I also do not plan on meddling in her current relationship. I guess one question I have is how much contact and effort on my part is too much? Is an instant message ... (read in full...)
I want to keep fighting for her love! I feel that we were meant to be-what do you think?
Q. Hey guys, I have a question to ask, asked a few before, so if you want to get a background on my breakup and questions about it, here's the links ... http://www.dea...
A. 27 March 2006: Anymore advice? I'm doing well with the no contact thing (2 days with none, than a little bit the third day). How should I go about asking her to hang out, or should I just not bother? When I take her out to the game, is a gift out of the ... (read in full...)
I want to keep fighting for her love! I feel that we were meant to be-what do you think?
Q. Hey guys, I have a question to ask, asked a few before, so if you want to get a background on my breakup and questions about it, here's the links ... http://www.dea...
A. 25 March 2006: Hey guys, thanks a bunch. I always feel better after getting everybody's feedback. I know I should probably cut back on the contact, but I don't want to lose the closeness that we share, should she decide not to make much of an effort to stay ... (read in full...)
Is she keeping me on the back-burner?
Q. This is driving me crazy! My ex wants to remain friends (I want more than that but will settle for now if that's the only way I can keep her in my life) but says she is either too busy to hang with me or blows me off to hang with her rebound guy. ...
A. 17 March 2006: Thank you everybody for your responses, they are a big help and much appreciated. I was wondering if this means anything. My ex used our anniversary as her password for some online stuff, like email, etc. I was curious the other day and checked ... (read in full...)
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