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writes: Hey guys,It's becoming clearer and clearer to me that my ex and her rebound guy won't work out. You know how you can kind of tell when a girl really digs a guy or not? I feel like she's just kind of using him to get over me, it's just a matter of how long she is going to stick with this guy.My questions is, if I play my cards right, is there a chance that she will come back to me initially after breaking up with this guy? Or do you think I'll have to wait even longer ...?
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reader, Ryder  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Since you both are friends the best way to get back up the top of her list is working the best friend to lover methods.
Just start over as if you are new friends forget the past, keep getting closer and closer to her like before and when you become a little bit more than friends bring up the subject about what happened don't get into detail or appologise just tell her can't we start over? forget everything that happened and start over..
If she does reject that then there is probably no chance for a while and that can be months even years.. If that happens stay friends and be normal cause there will always be a chance sometime for you to get back in her life if you are lucky.
Good luck and best wishes !
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reader, shredordie +, writes (7 May 2006):
shredordie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I'll try to make this as short as possible. We were head over heels for eachother but what killed the relationship was us spending too much time together and me being a little bit jealous. We were together together for over a year and towards the end there were a couple incidents where I got drunk and said some stupid things that I really didn't mean, and I apologized my ass off for this.
Anyway, I probably could have saved the relationship if I had backed off and given her a little space, but I know I crowded her and came off as needy and pissed her off more. Currently we are friends, and talking more than we have in a while. I'm going to remain hopeful, as I know I've gotten over my personal issues, and we could really have something great if she would just give me the chance.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (6 May 2006):
 I would say there is a chance but dont bank on it. She may get really into this guy even if hes initially a rebound or she may split with him but not come back to you. This is probably the answer you dont want to hear so sorry for that but....
If what was causing the problems in your relationship can be solved and you show her subtly without applying pressure that you still care then there is a chance but nothing is certain.
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reader, Ryder +, writes (6 May 2006):
Hey shredordie,
I get what you mean and i understand the situation but the whole concept still relies on the reason you two broke up.. Whether it was a serious fight ot just a silly one.
You might wana try doing some tests to see if she still has some feelings for you, if thats the case then you can get to her somehow.. You got to come up with combination to unlock her heart ;)
If possible post some information about the break-up and your current relationship with her that would help out !
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