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writes: Hey, I want to call my ex girlfriend today. She was sick and so went home for the weekend to go to the doctor's and just kind of take it easy. I told her the other day before she left to rest up and get well soon, etc., so maybe I shouldn't call and just try my best to not contact her. But I also feel that it's my best chance to really talk to her when she is at home because she is not at school with her rebound guy or her roomate (roomate is inexperienced in relationships and just kind of a downer, I think sometimes she talks to my ex about us and only worsens the situation).Call or don't call?
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 To you the relationship is a rebound relationship but what if to her it's something that can be come serious to her. if you dont want to tell her how you feel about her, try and feel how she feels about her relationship, about you.
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reader, shredordie +, writes (9 April 2006):
shredordie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, well, I talked to her to see if she was better and express my concern, but that was it. Do you really think I should talk to her about other stuff, even though she's in a relationship? I think that might be a mistake. I think it might be better to wait it out. Her relationship right now is just a rebound, it won't last.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (9 April 2006):
okay i think you should call her, i think she would like to hear from you. and in time when she's better then you should tell her how you feel, if you love her so much then you should try and get her to have another go at your relationship. but wait until she's better
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reader, shredordie +, writes (9 April 2006):
shredordie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, I know. It would have to be a concerned friend, anything else would be unacceptable. I am most definitely concerned as I love her to death. However, I am not over, so I am thinking about not calling. I'm realizing more and more that I need to let her live her life and make her mistakes, no matter how hard it is for me to let go. Thanks.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (8 April 2006):
Okay well i think if your going to call her it should be as a concerned friend, who's worried about her health, who wishes to help and be supportive through this time for her.
It shouldn't be from a ex wanting to get back together with her, she doesn't need the extra stress that will come from that type of call.
If you really love/respect her you wouldn't bother her with the fact you wish to get back together, you'll just be there for her as friend. i understand you my have feelings that you wish to express but this isnt the time.
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