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I'm shini and I am a very happy 16yr old girl :D I have many problems that I need help with and would be thrilled to help others with similar situations :)
I always help my friends who are all important to meh ^.^ and they say I give great advice! I wont judge as I've got my own troubles that are pretty bad.
I'm single and enjoying life!
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I'm scared of asking people out!
Q. I'm scared of asking people out is my problem here, My friends will laugh If I get turned down so will hers Wont be able to be friends Weird everytime we see each other What can I do so that I am not scared of asking people out and being rejec...
A. 19 July 2011: I have the exact same problem! I'm terrified of being rejected. It's so confusing, however I find it easier to tell when a girl likes me than when a guy does. For example most of the time girls wont flirt with you unless they have a motive e.g. they ... (read in full...)
Lost my heart in the breakup. How can I make and keep new friends?
Q. I don't know how to explain but I'll do it as best as possible. Two years ago I was dumped by my gf for reasons that weren't making sense at the time. It became apparent she had met another guy and so I figured it was for this. I feel I've lost my ...
A. 11 May 2011: Do you have a job? My friend works at a bakers and he said he meets new people everyday, men and women. If that doesn't work then go to a club or pub, there's bound to be lots of people just waiting to be talked to there. Maybe go to a coffee shop ... (read in full...)
Why would she lie to me?
Q. Me and my girl are very happy together, we spend nearly every day together and love each other too bits. However today when she was in college she rang be by mistake when her phone was in her pocket and i listened =[ I heard her friend shout her ...
A. 10 May 2011: Maybe she new you would get jealous and just wanted to avoid and argument. If she was lying it was probably just to protect you. Or maybe she's telling the truth and you miss understood her.
Either way I'm sure you'll be fine, just don't start argu... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's going out with someone else!
Q. it's almost valentines day and theres a guy i really really really really like. here's the bummer:he's going out with someone!!!!! and also i get nervous that ill say something dumb in front of him! help please!!!...
A. 10 February 2011: Do you think hes unhappy with this other person? If not then leave them alone. See it's girls like you who start fights and arguments in relationships so just back off before you ruin what they have. Stay away and wait for there relationship to end ... (read in full...)
How can I ask his friends if he likes me?
Q. I really like one of my guy friends, and I want to know if he likes me. I was thinking about asking one of his friends who he likes, but his friend that im closest to likes me so i cant ask him and his other friends im pretty close to too but i dont ...
A. 10 February 2011: Um... when I fancied this guy my friends asked him if he thought I was attractive and he said "no". My friends all expected me to be devastated but to be honest it only bothered me that I wasted my time lusting over someone that didn't even like me. ... (read in full...)
Have I just been fooled?
Q. So, here is the situation: I feel like a fool right now. I started to get closer to this girl more than one and a half years ago. She had a boyfriend back then, but I knew that she is unhappy and the guy just does not let her go, even after a few...
A. 12 January 2011: It's pretty obvious that you care about the relationship a lot more than she does and that's why you're being used. At least to me it sounds that way. Some people I know don't have relationships (including coitus) and they are happy and fulfilled. ... (read in full...)
I have a long term boyfriend but I'm attracted to someone else
Q. I have a long term bf whom I love a lot. But I am attracted to a guy who I know from the gym. It is not something I'd act on, but what does this mean? ...
A. 12 January 2011: I think it's pretty natural it probably doesn't mean anything just hormones and what not.
Good luck :3... (read in full...)
My BF's friend sent me dirty texts which I showed him, and his reaction was zilch!! How do I get him to be more protective of me?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half who's just turned 16 I've come to grips to the fact that he's not the jealous type. This kind of bothers me because I definitely am. When I get upset over little things l...
A. 10 January 2011: Thanks for the replies :) I'm going to discuss it with him and tell him how I feel. You've really helped.... (read in full...)
I don't want to come across as a total weirdo!
Q. well this is cofusing butt ive had a crush (not just a stupid one) a hugee crush on my best-boy-mate who ive known since year 3. Also used to go out with my best-girl-mate he says hes over her but how csn i be sure? How do i tell my best friend i...
A. 8 January 2011: I'm guessing if you have had a massive crush on this guy since year 3 then she already knows. Sometimes my best friend just looks at me and I no something's not right, she even has a face for "I Fancie him!". It's little things.
If he says he's over... (read in full...)
I really want to find a girl who is like me to be with. Any advice?
Q. I am a 17 year old closeted lesbian...I've never been in a relationship with another female but I have had some drunken hookups (as a closeted lesbian it's easy to "blame" alcohol). Lately, however, I've been really wanting to get into a ...
A. 6 January 2011: I actually think it's all stereotypical that all lesbians are "butch" because all my past girl friends have been girlie with long hair. I get what you mean that it's hard to tell and sometimes it's just down to going for it and asking. In a lot of ... (read in full...)
Planning on losing my virginity but scared about a lot of things!
Q. Im 13 year old and im planning to loose my virginity to a 16 year old soon ! Dont know what to do! I love him but i got doubts im scared he'll leave me or change towards me , i honestly am confused , his never offered for sex but i feel like i am...
A. 6 January 2011: I your worried about all these things then it's probably smarter to wait until your body has matured. Don't forget it is possible to get pregnant with a condom but allot less likely than with out so make him wear one if you do. Ones you've hit ... (read in full...)
What happened to just falling in love?
Q. it used to be about finding your soulmate, whoever they might be, whatever they might be like - blonde, redhead, blue eyed, mixed race, it didnt matter if you loved them. Now days people care more about looks than personality and it bothers me, why ...
A. 6 January 2011: "It used to be about..." I don't truly believe that it ever used to be like that, maybe in a fairytale. The really old ones. Actually then again the prince charming loved Cinderella when she was wearing a beautiful gown... her sisters thought she ... (read in full...)
Would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend?
Q. Hey, would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend? We both have strong feeling for each other just can't really be together because she lives in a far away state now. I just want to do something nice for her, make ...
A. 6 January 2011: No I think that's a great idea! It's not crazy more romantic. Unless she's in a relationship with anyone else because that might send him paranoid about you. Apart from that I no loads of women who would be over the moon about the trouble you'd gone ... (read in full...)
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