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writes:Me and my girl are very happy together, we spend nearly every day together and love each other too bits. However today when she was in college she rang be by mistake when her phone was in her pocket and i listened =[ I heard her friend shout her over and asked her look at this picture, it was a picture of another lad in the college and the photo was reaviling, i know this because of what they were saying =[ !!! I couldn`t hear much after that but whan i phoned her when she was on her break and i told her that i heard her spreking about some picture, she said it was a picture of her girl mate! she has clearly lied and this makes me wonder why she would want to lie to me???? I don`t know what too do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Hi
She probally felt watched! it was an innooent occurance but felt if she told you the truth you would feel otherwise! Its not a lie, its a case of not telling you so she dont hurt your feelings, as she knows you so well. She obviously loves and cares for you, and is afraid to loose you, that is why she held back the whole truth. And she is probally embarrassed that you got the call, and was shocked, and didn't know how to react!! Give her the benifit of the doubt this time, and move on :)
I hope this has helped
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reader, gerryjg  +, writes (10 May 2011):
There could b a reasonable "excuse".Suppose your significant other was ashamed or embarrassed at the thought of you hearing them in that light or unknown aspect of thier life, maybe fantasyish for example. On the other hand,you could send her a pic of "someone-you-know",(a set-up if you will} and see where that goes.Best Wishes!
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reader, Shini +, writes (10 May 2011):
 Maybe she new you would get jealous and just wanted to avoid and argument. If she was lying it was probably just to protect you. Or maybe she's telling the truth and you miss understood her.
Either way I'm sure you'll be fine, just don't start arguments because it never ends well.
Good luck xx
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