Is it fair to say that if she won't do it for me, I won't do it for her?
Q. my girlfriend had a lot of sex before she got with me. She was well known for giving blow jobs. We have been together a year and she won't give me one. When I asked her to do it she refused. She said that when she was younger she did it ...
A. 13 April 2010: This is a pretty tough situation! You've got to sympathise with your girlfriend, her past has obviously had a bad effect on her and giving blowjobs triggers some unhappy memories in her.
I would tell her you understand and you're happy to give ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 23 April 2008: Do you really need to worry whether they do or not? He's scum.
Time for you to start strutting your stuff and find yourself someone new!
(And no, when he gets old, she'll probably trade him in too ;))... (read in full...)
Is there any hope of winning her back?
Q. This may be long but please help me out Ok so my gf left me a month ago. The final talk we had she said for me to let her go if i loved her as much as i said i did and that i wasnt giving her space and so i did, she also said we cant get back to...
A. 31 January 2008: I'd say give it a shot yeah.
Get in touch and promise her everything you've just said. You know what she wants, if you can give it to her, you stand a good chance.
Good luck... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me when he behaves like this?
Q. My husband has damaged our relationship, we have been married for 30 years, recently I discovered he had been watching porn and masturbating to it, he said he would stop and that it was probably due to boredom having been together for so long. Then ...
A. 23 January 2008: I know it probably makes you feel less sexually attractive and you might be jealous that he's looking at younger models. But really, he's probably been masturbating since he was about 12. It isn't a big deal, i promise, especially not for guys, your ... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 21 January 2008: Thanks to everyone who responded! My mind really has been put at rest, i'm not feeling so insecure anymore that's for sure! Slowly slowly i'm feeling myself getting over my ex, and pages like this have helped so much.
Thanks all.
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Lost and alone...still in love with my ex gf!
Q. I have just split up with my girlfriend from a six year relationship and im complteley heart broken now i love her more than anything in the world and ive gave her space that she asked for and tryed to show her how hard im willing to change so tha...
A. 21 January 2008: I'm sorry, i completely disagree with Laura. I went through this about 4 months ago, a girl i'd been with for 3 years, who i was convinced i was going to marry, left me for another guy once we hit uni. You haven't explained much, so i don... (read in full...)
Help! I can't get it 'up' for her and I don't want to lose her!
Q. Hey. I am 17 years old. Recently, I have been with a very close friend of mine, whom I have known since pretty much the beginning of high school. She is one of my best friends, we hang out all the time, and we basically talk about everything with ...
A. 15 January 2008: Well if it's usually in working order, and doesn't go up when around her, it's clearly just nerves.
Make sure there's no pressure on you, and let things just happen when you're doing stuff with her. And they probably will ;)... (read in full...)
I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??
Q. Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...
A. 13 January 2008: This sounds like something similar i went through. Except in my case my girl ended up loving a new guy, apart from that the situation is incredibly similar. If you love her, don't let her go. Persuade her you want to see her one last time, just to ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to boost my confidence and actually talk to him?
Q. Well, I have getting over a lad who has a girlfriend for a while now. I still find him attractive but im doing all the things to stop me thinking about him which is gd :). Well, i have recently started noticing another lad in one of my college ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hmm. I'd give it time. The last thing you want to do is be so nervous that you ruin the chance of anything ever occurring at all! If you're shy, just wait for the right opportunity for you to start talking to him. Don't go up to him seemingly ... (read in full...)
I feel I have no life, help please!!
Q. im in a relationship , i feel i have no life i have no say in anything , i can not move anything around the house, ie ornaments, furniture. i have no say in the decor, im not aloud to do the ironing when hes at home im not aloud to buy anything ...
A. 11 January 2008: Uh oh. You're clearly not happy.
And quite rightly? He's treating you like rubbish, completely taking you for granted!
Go have an affair! :P... (read in full...)
She acts like we are a couple, holding hands, cuddling. It would be great if we'd be together, but she already has a bf!
Q. I have a friend from uni who i've known for just over a year. She started with her boyfriend about the same time I met her, didn't bother me to start with, I wasn't really attacted to her. During this time she tried to kiss me but I turned away. ...
A. 11 January 2008: I bet she'd treat you the same way she's treating her bf if you ever got into a relationship with her. Which i bet won't happen anyway. I'm very familiar with the type of girl you're describing, the type that just loves attention. If she really lo... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 11 January 2008: Girls don't generally taste nice down there. But some guys are willing to go through that for their girls. There's no reason to dump him solely because he won't go down on you!
I'd definitely do the getting him drunk thing. And what i always u... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and I forgave her, but I think that she still likes him more than me. What do you think?
Q. Hello! I have been with my girlfriend over a year now and we just had a relationship crisis. She cheated on me with some guy and told me about it. A know that she is sorry and would go back in time and not do it if she could and I love her very ...
A. 11 January 2008: I'm sorry, i know your heart might be telling you otherwise, but you've got to leave this girl.
At least temporarily. It's unbelievably out of order to cheat on you THEN carry on contact with the guy in question! If she's being secretive about hi... (read in full...)
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