I'm in love with someone and I don't know how to tell him..it's ben torture keeping this to myself.. What should I do?
Q. Hi. I'm in love with someone and I don't know how to tell him. We met two years ago and became really good friends and that's when I initially fell for him. And I've tried getting my mind on other men, but that just doesn't work. For two years I'...
A. 15 December 2006: Don't just go and tell him out of the blue. That would scare most men. Just try your best to wait until he gets back and then let him know that you like him and start with dating, then just let it progress. You may be inlove with him now, but as a ... (read in full...)
All of a sudden i dont feel like I love him anymore! Whats wrong with me?
Q. im so scared, all of a sudden i dont feel like i love him anymore. I dont even know where these feelings came from . I have been in this relationship for 8 months and i dont know where the love went, sometimes i feel like i love him and sometimes i ...
A. 15 December 2006: I've felt that about my partner before, but at the time he worked away and we were always apart. I think both being apart and together work best aslong as you're not apart for too long and too often... (read in full...)
Shots, pills, patches...what's the best birth control?
Q. birth control Hi, I was wondering if some of the women out there could help me out? I have thought it out carefully and decided I want to go on birth control. However, how do I get it? What's the most convenient, in your opinion? I hear there are...
A. 15 December 2006: If you're over 16 you should be fine, just go to your doctors first to discuss it they're really helpful.
I started with the injections every 11 weeks then went onto the implant in my arm that lasts three years. It was good, but when someone ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to become a stripper. I am not sure if I am ok with it.
Q. My girlfriend wants to be a stripper. She has started working in a peep show. i.e women behind glass dancing together. I think she wants to do this as part of her sexual growth and exploration. She mentioned that she is thinking of working in a ...
A. 15 December 2006: What about a compromise like her working in one of these places where they just pole dance and no lap dances. I personally hate these places, but pole dancing gives you the best figure.... (read in full...)
I am about to lose my virginity and I need tips on how to make it spectacular!
Q. Hey! Im 17 and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 to 7 months. Any tips? I want to make the first time good for both of us! (I know i cant expect fireworks or choirs singing 'hallelujah' chorus) But i want to make him and me feel rea...
A. 15 December 2006: No matter what you do it'll not be that good for you anyway with alot of women when they lose their virginity they get pains and lose blood. Men aren't hard to please and if you're not pleased, then don't worry I'm sure you will be in the future. I ... (read in full...)
It was my decision to break up, but I can't get over it! Am I going to regret this the rest of my life?
Q. Hi, Really need help! Broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago. And it was my decision so I know I should get over it but I can’t. He understands me, loves me and believes in everything that I do. Everyone wants a boyfrien...
A. 14 December 2006: You just have to believe that you're reasons are good enough. If you don't then you'll always regret it. Alot of people believe that they've found 'The One', but if you'd have lived in a different country you'd have found someone else. What I'm ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, he's 16 - I want a normal relationship w/ him but it's impossible b/c of our parents!
Q. Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want...
A. 14 December 2006: It's not the age difference that's the problem it's just that you're only 13. I know this might sound harsh, but one day when you're married with kids (to a different person) you'll think back on this and laugh. Don't worry and start being a kid and ... (read in full...)
I emailed an ex just to say hi - afterwards I found out she broke up w/ her bf the previous day! I fear that now look like a desperate stalker! Help!
Q. My ex girlfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me about 8 months ago. We had a great relationship but she wanted out eventually to pursue other relationships and experiences. Anyways I've been thinking about her lately again and since I hadnt sp...
A. 14 December 2006: If you're over it then let go and move on... (read in full...)
I'm 16..is masturbating 2 times per day too much?
Q. Im 16 and i think i have a problem. I masterbate about 2 a day or maybe more and finish everytime. I think i am doing it to much or is this normal? and all of a sudden i keep looking at porn sites again, can someone please help. Please....
A. 14 December 2006: Just don't become obsessed like alot of men, when you meet a girl stop otherwise unless she's into it, you'll only cause problems.... (read in full...)
Can a happily married guy really be "just friends" with a single attractive girl?
Q. So I've been married for 6 years, been with my wife 11 years and have never come close to having an affair or even flirt with another woman. Out of nowhere this "girl next door" literally, I can easily see into her bedroom while standing in fron...
A. 14 December 2006: I sort of agree. Either leave you're wife or be happy with what you've got and stop thinking about what could be.... (read in full...)
My duaghter is being raised in another country by my parenst. She 14 and I worry about her now that she has a bf!
Q. i have a daughter left in my country she is now 14 years old,i was away from her for a very long time since she was a little baby and the reason is i have to work abroad to support what she needs since her father left us for a new woman. shes now ...
A. 14 December 2006: She'll be fine. Me and my mum have always been open and that's the best thing. My mum got pregnant with twins at 17 and when I got serious at 16 she thought I was going to do the same. I didn't. Most pregnant teenagers don't have a good relationship ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my father's half brother's son?
Q. I need to know if it is ok to date my father's half brother's son? My dad and his dad have the same mom but different dads. Not that it makes a difference but they weren't raised together. They were raised on two different sides of the island. ...
A. 14 December 2006: It's still blood. Even though it's ok in some states of America it's still very wrong... (read in full...)
He's 30-I'm 17. Is the age difference a big factor here? And he does this weird thing with his eyes..what is it?
Q. Well, i am 17 years old. I met a guy at college and we get along really well. I like him alot but he is 30. I sometimes think the way he acts around me that he might like me but im not sure. He smiles alot when he is around me and if he sees me in ...
A. 14 December 2006: When you're young enough to be their child then it's not right... (read in full...)
Should I carry on fighting for her or let her go and move on with my life?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2and a half years. But six months ago i did some thing silly and i had an affair with a girl from work, the only thing is i kept it a secret apart from my friend. About 2 months ago it came out what had ...
A. 14 December 2006: I believe that once you've cheated you'll do it again and if you really love someone you wouldn't possibly be able to do it in the first place even if you're drunk. I'd say just move on, even if you did get back together the past would always come ... (read in full...)
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