My mother in law is totally against me breastfeeding my daughter.
Q. My mother in law is totally against me breastfeeding my daughter. Since her birth she has told my husband that breastfed babies are not as smart as bottle fed babies, that our sex life will not be the same as long as I am breastfeeding, and the I ...
A. 15 April 2009: I am sorry you are going through this! My mother in law treats me terrible as well. I had to write her off several years ago.
My wife breastfed all 5 of my kids. She so enjoyed that special time with them. Take courage that you are doing the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents? I think I'm pregnant
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. Should i tell my mom and dad? I need advice before i do anything. I've had sex 1 time but he pulled out and we used a condom. I told him we shouldn't do it anymore unless we're really ...
A. 10 April 2009: Being pregnant is huge. It is life changing in more ways than you can imagine. Yes, tell your parents. They might get pissed, but they will help you.
Please do not try and do this alone. There is way to much that can go wrong.... (read in full...)
Why would he tell me he masturbates to my picture?
Q. My male friend just confessed to me that he masturbates to my picture, should I be offended by this? (He has a girlfriend) What is he trying to say?...
A. 10 April 2009: Obviously he finds you attractive and you turn him on. The fact that he told you probably means he is interested in more.
How into him are you or could you be? How serious is this other relationship? ... (read in full...)
My wife is "talking to someone else." I am devastated. Please help!
Q. My wife told me a couple of weeks ago that she was "talking to someone else". I am 33, she is 34. We have been married for almost ten years and have been together since high school. In some respects we have a fantastic marriage. We travel, go to ...
A. 10 April 2009: Sorry you are going through this. I myself have been married 12 years to a wife with a very low self esteem. She has gone outside the marriage twice looking for that something that I was not giving. I do not have all the answers for you, but I do... (read in full...)
What happens in the 1st weeks of pregnancy?
Q. Hey,im just wondering what happens in the first week of pregnancy?do you have certain syntoms or you feel different?if you drink is there a risk of loosing your baby?my friend is not sure that she's pregnant but she's been feeling weird this past ...
A. 29 March 2009: My wife and I had 5 kids. She never felt anything until after she missed that first cycle.
Perhaps, your friend is feeling weird because of her diet. I see you are still young. Drinking certainly doesn't make anyone feel better the next day. If ... (read in full...)
We keep fighting about my past and my b/f's "lack of trust"
Q. I am seriously involved with a guy now and it has been going on for 2 years. I was in quite a few relationships before which ended badly. I did not speak about them when me and my boyfriend started seeing each other initially. At one point I told ...
A. 29 March 2009: Wow, I now I had a few issues with my wife when we got married 12 years ago. Funny though, she developed issues as well when she started asking questions about my past.
For us, time and maturity were the answer.
Of course, that is not the answer y... (read in full...)
Coach acts creepy
Q. So I'm currently playing a sport at school and I'm starting to get worried about how my coach treats me at times. Here are some of the 'weird' things he has done and continues to do: He'll randomly repeat my name and pretend that he's loo...
A. 29 March 2009: The first thing you need to do is get other people involved. Preferably a parent. Do not get yourself in a bad situation where he moves on you and no one else has ever heard of this before.
You can let whoever now that you are not sure, but some... (read in full...)
I am tired of being lonely and played by dating! What can I do?
Q. Hey I am 27 year old, attractive female. I do not have any family or too many friends in the place i live right now (the whole state - actually the whole country). Its depressing, hard and lonely life I live at times. Lately I have been gettin...
A. 29 March 2009: A older gentleman once told me the secret to finding the "right one". He said if you are looking for Ms. Right, make sure you are Mr. Right.
Sounds corny, but the advice will make you take inventory of your life and what kind of vibe you are send... (read in full...)
I would like our frienship to include sex
Q. I have a friend who is a beautiful woman. I would like our relationship to include sex. I hope she wants the same thing in our relationship. How can I hint at the fact that I would like our relationship to include sex? How can I mention this ...
A. 29 March 2009: It sounds like you want casual sex and not an emotionally connected and committed relationship. It might work, but most women want more.
It reminds me of a Jerry Seinfeld show where he and Elaine decided that wanted to have sex, but then go back... (read in full...)
My wife is going to sleep with another man tomorrow
Q. I do not have a direct question, I just want some love from the dear cupid community. My wife of 12 years has plans to sleep with an old boyfriend tomorrow. She is in another state visiting her mother. While there, she met up with this guy. Th...
A. 29 March 2009: Wow, what happened to "kind words"?
Thanks Old Guy. I wasn't looking for a lecture, but empathy. You gave it.
My marriage got into trouble well before this. The idea of her and someone else has actually brought us closer because it opened u... (read in full...)
My wife's college sweetheart is now my next door neighbor!
Q. About thee months ago, my wife's old college sweetheart "Ken" moved next door to us. Ken was the all-American jock-football player, well built, and smart, and, I have to admit, nice. They dated for nearly 4 years until they each went to grad scho...
A. 28 March 2009: My wife is currently in another state visiting family. She just had dinner with an old boyfriend (swears there is nothing there) and now is visiting another old fling. She called to confess she kissed him and wants to....well, I don't even want to ... (read in full...)
Porn addicted husband wants my help.
Q. My husband and I have been married a year in May. We have a son who just turned 3 months. I found out about 8 months ago that he has a porn addiction. I confronted him on several occations and he always told me he would stop. He didnt. I have a p...
A. 8 March 2009: My wife found out I was looking at porn about two years into our marriage. 10 years later it is still an issue. I promised over and over to stop. I went to a counselor (about 4 years into marriage) because she was leaving me if I didn't leave it ... (read in full...)
My husband told me to sleep with another man, I have and liked it,will we have problems?
Q. my husband, of two years,. has given me permission to have sex with other men. i did not ask him for this, he just told me it was ok one day while we were raking the yard (why, when we were raking the yard...wouldn't bed be a better place...but ...
A. 8 March 2009: I told my wife months ago that I liked the idea of her having sex with another man. She was very offended and hated the idea. I told her it was just fantasy and that I enjoyed imagining her being very sexual and teasing other men to the point of ... (read in full...)
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