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Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?

Q.   Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...

A.   13 October 2008: It doesn't matter if you don't put your penis all the way inside her, or that you pull out before you come. The pull-out method is not a valid method of contraception, as you may still release pre-come, which has sperm in it. If you don't want to ... (read in full...)

Age difference - I need your advice please!

Q.   I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...

A.   13 October 2008: Even if you want to have sex with this man, it is NOT LEGAL for you to do so. Be honest with him about your age. If he really cares about you, he'll wait till you're 18 and old enough to legally consent to sex, and if he doesn't care enough to wait, ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to answer if he were to ask me to marry him.

Q.   How do I know if he is Mr. Right? We already dated for four and a half years and I don't know what to answer if he would aske me to marry him. We are both 26 years old....

A.   13 October 2008: If after four years of dating you still have to ask an internet site, and don't know what you would answer, he probably isn't "Mr. Right for You." Good luck... (read in full...)

Is it too early to tell him I love him?

Q.   ok i am 21 yrs old i know this sounds dumb, i am afriad to tell my boyfriend i love him. if i love him i should just tell him, but i am really scared. i am already crying. it was four months ago that he held my hand for the first time, and i guess ...

A.   12 October 2008: My bf and I knew after three weeks. if you feel it, say it. ... (read in full...)

How do I give her a "screaming orgasm"???

Q.   Hi, i have either a very usual or unusual question. I dont know how to give my GF a "screaming orgasm" I mean, i have given her one but it isnt enough... She doesnt cum and doesnt moan like my friends say she sould. The way i do is just rub my ...

A.   4 October 2008: The best way to find out what she does like is to ask her. A common mistake guys make with this is rubbing too hard--if you do that, it desensitizes her down there and she isn't going to feel much. But ask her what isn't working if you want to know ... (read in full...)

I have mood swings, I'm sleeping a lot and have developed stretch marks. Am I pregnant???

Q.   I haven't had my period since June and I have my period every other month. I had a period in May and the reason why I had my period in June was becasue when I take the plan B pill it makes me have my period. I had my period in June and ended it...

A.   27 September 2008: It's a possibility, from the symptoms you report, and you should definitely get tested. For the record, Plan B is not an ideal method of regular contraception--if this is what you have been using and you turn out not to be pregnant, I'd still ... (read in full...)

She wants to move in, but I'm happy the ways things are. I feel like she is being selfish. Do I stay or do I go?

Q.   I don't know whether to stay in a relationship or to tell her I give up? We are both lesbian. She wants me to move in with her--has wanted this since 2 months after we met. I am not used to moving this fast. Apparently this is common with les...

A.   23 September 2008: I'd follow your instincts on this one. If you feel that she is using you, get out...... (read in full...)

I am thirteen, and have had my period for a while now, I want to use tampons, my mother is strongly opposed to my use of them, what is wrong with tampons at my age?

Q.   Well I use tampons secretly behind my moms back. I find pads uncomfortable. I asked when I can use tampons and she tod me when you're WWWWWAAAAAAYYY older! She's afraid I'll hurt myself (im 13!) and that I'm too small to use something "big". AND ...

A.   11 September 2008: Tampons, if used improperly (i.e. inserted and then left in for way too long) **CAN** (quite rare, but it's possible) cause something called toxic shock syndrome, and this in turn can be fatal. That's the only other thing that I can think of that ... (read in full...)

This isn't a lesbian crush, because I am straight. But why then this desire to be always near her? What is this feeling?

Q.   This is really weird, so i'll try and explain. I've just started 6th form and there's this girl i've just met who ever since i first saw her i felt really drawn to her. By the way, this isn't some lesbian crush, i know i'm perfectly straight and it ...

A.   10 September 2008: As you have described it, your attraction does sound like something a little beyond the bounds of simple friendship. Possibly you're bi-curious. I wouldn't worry about it too much. I've made out with other girls in the past and it was fun, but I've ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting my own space?

Q.   Right OK. Basically I want to know if I'm right. I feel that my girlfriend of nearly 2 years is expecting way too much from me. We only live across the street, and I'm a very private person who loves their own space. Tonight (but lots of othe...

A.   9 September 2008: Have you discussed this with her? You say you make excuses, but perhaps instead of inventing reasons for why you can't hang out, you should simply explain (as you have done here) that you need time to yourself sometimes. You're not wrong for wanting ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

Q.   When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. ...

A.   9 September 2008: First off, I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you. With regard to your question, I'd say you should do both. Your sister may not want to hear this, but it sounds like the two of you have a somewhat rocky familial relationship to begin with. She ... (read in full...)

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

Q.   My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I...

A.   9 September 2008: Well, if you're only having vaginal sex and your boyfriend doesn't stimulate you manually either, it's not that surprising that you've never had an orgasm. Many women can't orgasm through vaginal penetration alone; I'm one of them. Try getting your ... (read in full...)

What can I do to prevent any accidents during my period?

Q.   ok this is embaressing but i started having my peroid about 4 months ago and it's been pretty regular but i have no cramps or warining signs so i don't know when or were it will happen and i'm afraid that it might happen while i'm at school so any ...

A.   9 September 2008: Keep pads or tampons (whichever you use) and a change of panties in your backpack or school bag, just in case. Make sure you put them in a pocket you don't often open to get other things out of, though...could be embarrassing if they fell out! ... (read in full...)

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

Q.   I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened ...

A.   9 September 2008: Your lover's infidelity is between her and her husband. It's not your place to tell him about it, especially since you are just as guilty as she is. It takes two to have an affair. If you're hoping he will leave her so that you two can be together, ... (read in full...)

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

Q.   Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

A.   9 September 2008: Whether you were drunk or not, whether you were in a relationship with him or not, if you told him no and he forced sex on you anyway then you were raped. You need to go to your doctor or OB-GYN, and you need to go to the police. Do not feel like ... (read in full...)

Could I possibly be pregnant?

Q.   hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

A.   9 September 2008: If you became pregnant as a result of a sexual encounter occurring four days ago, you would not be experiencing the symptoms yet. This is not to say you aren't pregnant; if the sex was unprotected, you could be, but it's too early for you or anyone ... (read in full...)

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