I've kept my cheating a secret, but it's killing me!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we are soo close. Ive never felt so strongly towards someone and i'm extremely glad i'm with him. And he tells me he feels the same. But ages ago, when me and him were together for about 4 months, I ...
A. 20 February 2009: If you tell him you need to make sure he stays like begging and making sure he knows you are sorry, you probably are thinking about it and in turn getting obsessed with it, where it is almost taking over your mind, you could just ignore it for now, ... (read in full...)
Making out and he started shaking... was he just excited?
Q. The other day my boyfriend and I were making out in my car in the back seat. I was laying down in the back seat and he was on top of me. We were making out and it seemed like he started shaking. Does that mean that he was excited?...
A. 20 February 2009: lol, it was probably because he was holding himself up on an angle, with his back, abs or arm, and his muscle has shaking because of the angle, it's common.... (read in full...)
What do you classify as inexperienced?
Q. I understand from what I've been told that most guys/men prefer women or girls who are experienced in relationships. I've been referred to as inexperienced which I guess I would agree with, only I have had one or two rather serious relation...
A. 20 February 2009: It means sex, a lot of people like experience because experience is like learning, learning how to do it good and make the other feel good, so they think someone more experienced will pleasure them more, which is sometimes true, but not always, I ... (read in full...)
I'm lost! I don't know what to do or even ask her about the pictures
Q. A little over a month ago my girlfriend and I went out fo rdrinks for her birthday, when out and I wasnt at the table we were sitting at she grabbed a strangers grion. When we got home I kicked her out. Nearly a month later she came back into my ...
A. 20 February 2009: Well, it seems quite likely that she did, but likely that she didn't also, like a 50/50, I'm not sure how you can find out unless there are messages suggesting more information. She would have taken the pictures for a reason and received them ... (read in full...)
He swears he didn't cheat, but others say he did
Q. I have a partner who I have been with 4 years and have a baby with. In the first year he cheated on me and we split for six months but got back together. The first year after we got back together was really tough and we had several 'breaks' - where ...
A. 20 February 2009: It seems to be a while in the past, even if he did maybe your relationship is worth forgetting the past, but maybe you should go to him and say you will still be with him whatever he just needs to tell the truth, and then if you decide to break up ... (read in full...)
I'm wearing the ring, but do I say yes??
Q. Comments please. I have been with my partner,living together for nearly 6 years.2 years ago i found him on an internet dating site,i spoke to a few of the ladies concerned he eventually gave up the ghost, as we say in the UK,apologised and we moved ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm from the UK and never heard that phrase, anyway. If you are asking the question of yes or no then you aren't ready, you only say yes when you are totally certain beyond even thinking about it as you will know there is no need to. He may have ... (read in full...)
How can I enjoy my life when it's one crisis after another?
Q. I have a lot of very sad crises in my life, they are so constant, that I have no time to heal, and I can't stop worry. I really should stop, as I know worry destroys me. For some of us, life is a constant crises, it could have several reason. I ...
A. 20 February 2009: Not sure what advice to give, I'm going through something pretty similar, I'm just taking it day by day trying different things to remove the problems or make them better, but for now I'm just down.. Hopefully something will get better soon.... (read in full...)
Why isn't he touching the right place during intercourse?
Q. I can orgasm easily by masturbating or when my boyfriend uses his fingers, but not by sex. When we have intercourse, his penis isn't touching my clitoris and of course I can't orgasm. We have tried all kinds of positions but nothing works. We always ...
A. 20 February 2009: Try missionary with your legs closed, or a position where one of you could use your hands for clitoral stimulation, it is rarely stimulated during sex... (read in full...)
How can I be sexier to my boyfriend?
Q. I wanna be sexier to my boyfriend. When we're hugging in bed i put my hands up his t-shirt and rub his back all over and sometimes but my hands down his boxers and rub his bum.. I also carress his chest.. When i kiss him i hold the sides of his face...
A. 20 February 2009: You could try different clothing, you could tease with your tongue, licking anywhere on his body, while looking in his eyes is usually a big turn on, just to tease, or even with nothing at all or just a finger, try his finger so he can feel it. You ... (read in full...)
He wants me on top for first time sex and I'm not so sure...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and we're talking about having sex. Its not that i dont want to do it, but he says he wants me on top. i've heard its a great turn on for guys to have thier gf's on top but the thing is its my ...
A. 20 February 2009: Firstly, if you get on top you will pick it up pretty fast, but as it's your first time, you should get to choose, after that you should experiment with girl on top and so on, but you should do the first time however you want it, even if it is his ... (read in full...)
Do women actually enjoy anal?
Q. Hey do women enjoy anal? Also if me and my gf were to try it what should I do to make it as enjoyable as possible? As far as lubes, toys, and technique. Thanks....
A. 20 February 2009: I understand that hardly anyone here answered the question properly, just opposed it. Anyway, used a thick lube, a lot of people prefer silicone based lubes, Astroglide is a thick one or KY jelly, thick ones don't run away and tend to last longer, ... (read in full...)
He came in me during anal sex, can it do harm?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend and I regularly practice anal sex. Recently, he came inside me during anal. I don't know why I'm worried but it can't do any harm, can it?...
A. 20 February 2009: Other than STI's, if it is a very regular thing then any protein in the rectal area can rot and rot away your insides, but generally if it's not a regular thing, you are fine, this also counts for just eating high in protein foods aswell like ... (read in full...)
He is very upset and unsure if he should marry a 'loose woman' (because of her past).
Q. OK, I don't have a problem, but I have a friend who is having some serious thoughts about his fiancee. I intend on getting as much advice from this site as I can, then either print out the answers, or log on (not at work) and have him read all your ...
A. 20 February 2009: My fiancée is 19, she has been with over 30 guys, but it's in the past, she used to be like that, sexually hyper and go for one night stands until she realised it didn't make her happy, about the 'loose' part, I'm not sure what to say really, some ... (read in full...)
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