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He swears he didn't cheat, but others say he did

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Question - (20 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a partner who I have been with 4 years and have a baby with. In the first year he cheated on me and we split for six months but got back together. The first year after we got back together was really tough and we had several 'breaks' - where we were still together but spent time apart to think about what we wanted.

Ive heard several rumours saying that he cheated on me with various girls in this first year, but all were from quite unreliable sources so i chose not to listen. I have now been told by two girls that he slept with them when he was with me - one of them he allegedly slept with when i was pregnant. he swears on our childs life hes only ever cheated on me the once that I know about but these girls are telling me different and so many people have told me that he cheated on me that first year.

What do I do?

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A male reader, scifi_aaron United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2009):

It seems to be a while in the past, even if he did maybe your relationship is worth forgetting the past, but maybe you should go to him and say you will still be with him whatever he just needs to tell the truth, and then if you decide to break up because he did, that's your choice, even though you said you wouldn't, you'd have the right.

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