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First kiss dilemma...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating since January 17th and we want to kiss but we're both too nervous to. What should I do and can you get kicked out of the library for kissing? (we're only 17)...

A.   24 March 2009: Oh honey! Just do it. You don't have to say anything. Just walk up to him, grab him and kiss him. He'll kiss back and it will be everything you hoped it would be. You're way over thinking it! Just do it! :-) I do think it's cute that there are still ... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend and his ex in bed together today!!!

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 months (that I was really starting to fall for) cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. They are friends and have been since they broke up. I found them in bed together today. He said they went out and got really drunk, so drunk ...

A.   23 March 2009: To the previous post, R U KIDDING? no nooky for a month? That's rediculous! She should never have sex with him again! For him to cheat on her and betray her like this, then on top of that, say he's not sure if can stop talking to her?!?!?! Honey, u ... (read in full...)

Would having oral sex mean I would be losing my vriginty?

Q.   my boyfriend and i want to have oral sex.but i don't want to lose my virginity. so my question is can i lose my virginity if i have oral sex?...

A.   23 March 2009: Intercourse is losing your virginity. Oral sex is part of sex, but it doesn't mean you've lost your virginity. Have fun and enjoy. Oral sex is awesome! xoxo, Sarh... (read in full...)

Am I turning gay or am I just curious?

Q.   I don't know what to do. I am married and have a child, I'm am 5 years married. When we have sex she stimulates my anus with her fingers or a dildo. Now I have a want to feel a real penis in my anus. And I spend hours reading stories of first time ...

A.   23 March 2009: That's hot. Don't feel bad. You should feel free to explore you sexuality in anyway you need. Just be safe & definetly keep your wife involved! Don't keep secrets, it WILL destroy your relationship. You guys should come up with a way to explore ... (read in full...)

Do women find men masterbating a turn off?

Q.   I was wonderin if women find a guy masterbating a turn-off and how much times a day is too much? any help is appreciated...

A.   23 March 2009: I LOVE IT! It is like the biggest turn on ever! xoxo, Sarah... (read in full...)

How do you become a 'posh totty"?

Q.   Ive al ways wanted to have a love life like a posh totty... weird i know. Does anyone have any idea how to become one?...

A.   22 March 2009: I may just be retarded, but what's a "posh totty" can someone fill me in?... (read in full...)

I was raped by my brothers best friend

Q.   i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ...

A.   22 March 2009: I agree with that last answer 100%. YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE! Start with a parent or someone you trust, then go to the police together and PRESS CHARGES! I know it's scary, but this is something you need to do, if you don't you will regret it. Then ... (read in full...)

I worry loads

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together a while now, and he has always understood that i am a worrier so when it came close to use having sex i said i wasn't sure if i wanted to, the main reason for this is, is that i know after sex some may bleed an...

A.   22 March 2009: It's not weird to be worried. It can be a scary thing. There's so much anticipation with sex, it can be nerve racking. First of all, don't have sex just because you feel pressured, you will regret it. Second, it probably wont be as bad as you ... (read in full...)

My vagina is really red and itchy

Q.   I'm 13. I had sex with my boyfriend of 5 months for the first time last week. He's 14. This is a little embarasing but, my vagina is really red and itchy. I've been having headaches and stomach aches, frequently. I get a bit of a burning sensation ...

A.   22 March 2009: Obviously you need to see a doctor. If you don't know that much, maybe you shouldn't be having sex at such a young age. xoxo... (read in full...)

I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now

Q.   I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that...

A.   22 March 2009: I totally feel for you. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and she broke that. I would be very upset to. The thing is, it's not healthy for you or the relationship to hold on to this. After seriously discussing it with her, you need ... (read in full...)

I thought these people were my friends but why would they do that ?

Q.   My wife and I got married over christmas. A few weeks ago I went out of state to celebrate my best friends birthday I messed around with another girl. I told my fiend and she was vey upset but choose to forgive me. Friday night my wife and I we...

A.   22 March 2009: You're a pig. My heart is breaking for your wife. Whether she says she forgives you or not, this is something she will never really be able to forget. I hope eventually she has the courage to kick you to the curb and find a real man that will treat ... (read in full...)

How do I stop being needy and clingy? I constantly need reassurances. Any good tips?

Q.   How do I stop being needy and clingy? I am easily hurt and easily disappointed and I constantly need reassurance and unconditional love. I know unconditional love is practically non existent but I need it. If I don't get it I start to feel depressed ...

A.   22 March 2009: I have the same problem and it has really effected my life, not only with romantic relationships, but also friendships. I am currently single after a 4 yr relationship and am focusing on improving myself, starting with my neediness. I plan to remain ... (read in full...)

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