Since my b/f doesn't express his feelings, we're always breaking up then getting back together!
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend seem to be stuck in a bit of a destructive pattern. We both love each other very much and get on great most of the time, but the problem is that he doesn't tend to tell me how he's feeling and lets it build up. We've b...
A. 27 March 2005: Men are sooo different to women and many tend to keep things bottled up. It's a fact, but there is one thing you should try and that is to show him that you are there for him no matter what it takes. But you definitely should not take what he is ... (read in full...)
It was my first time trying to have sex, but we couldn't get anything inside!
Q. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but it wouldn't go in. My vagina seems to stop about 3 centimetres in and then nothing else can go up. Even when he tried fingering me he couldn't get his fingers in there. What is wrong?...
A. 27 March 2005: Maybe you were just too tense. When you come to have sex you must always remember to have lots of foreplay just to make you lubricated for when it comes down to the serious stuff. But don't worry. Many women have this problem when it is their first ... (read in full...)
His words say "I love you", but not his actions. I just want it to work out.
Q. Can someone please give me advice, I am with my boyfriend 3 years now and am finding myself getting really down and crying all the time. He is never home before 9 oclock in the evening, which is either working or in the pub, and when he does com...
A. 26 March 2005: From what I have read, this guy is really pulling you down. I know what it is like to love and not to be loved back, but you have to look out for number 1 and that's you. Many ways men can determine how far he can push a woman is to make her ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss him, he wants to kiss me... but how?
Q. I am 13 years old and there is a boy that I really like and he has asked me out. I said yes but I have never been out with anyone before and don't know how to snog someone, whereas he has kissed loads of girls. He really does want to kiss me and I...
A. 26 March 2005: Relax. We have all been there. Many boys and girls have different ways of "snogging". As long as you relax and are not pushed into anything that you do not want to do you will be fine. Believe me sweetheart, good things come to those who wait!... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and want to break up with my boyfriend but am scared of consequences
Q. Last year, I got pregnant and subsequently had an abortion. During this upsetting period, my family and I learned that my sister was having her first baby. It was so hard to cope, although I was so happy for her. Since then, I have wanted to break ...
A. 25 March 2005: Good god, if anyone were to "take sides" I would think that they wouldn't understand. Obviously you made the right desision for you, if your "boyfriend" loved or cared for you he would understand. If you feel that the only way you can be at peace ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 24... and I'm pregnant
Q. im 15 and my boyfriend is 24 we have been going out for just over a year, and we had sex without any protection. i know it was a stupid thing to do and now ive just found out im pregnant. what do i do?...
A. 25 March 2005: First things first. Go to your doctor and them that you're pregnant and you need advice on everything. They won't tell your parents as everything is confidential. With you only being 15, they will give you help whatever you decide to do, as that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend acts differently after he found out about the miscarriage...
Q. I had a miscarriage about 4 weeks ago. I'm seventeen and didn't want the baby. It wasn't planned and I was only about 2 weeks pregnant. I found out after I had the miscarriage. The problem is now my boyfriend acts different a lot of the time. I ...
A. 25 March 2005: Oh Sweety, I am sorry, but first things first: boys are completly different in the way they deal with things, so just be patient with him. It possibly hasn't sunk in to him yet, so relax. As long as he doesn't blame you and he understands that ... (read in full...)
Am I just over-reacting, or could my b/f be cheating?
Q. Hi, I need some advice. I recently posted a letter asking about whether I was overreacting about my bf seeing/ meeting his ex gf without telling me. We had a discussion about it, he told me Ii had nothing to worry about, and he didn't tell me c...
A. 25 March 2005: The way I see it is that you are still struggling with the past. From what I have heard, he is scared to open up and tell you how he is feeling. My advice would be to get a babysitter and you and your boyfring go out for a meal and discuss all that ... (read in full...)
Do I have sex with the boy I like, even though he might also be having sex with someone else?
Q. I really need help. There is this boy. I really like him but he asked me to have sex with him and I said yes. But I found out the same night he was planning on having sex with another girl as well. Then when I asked him he says it is not true. P...
A. 25 March 2005: No, don't let him take advantage of you. Sex is a special thing between a boy and a girl. First of all, if he can't answer your question then there is something fishy going on. Trust your instincts. Personally, I would save the sex thing for some... (read in full...)
He told his ex he was through with me and loved her, but told me the exact opposite!
Q. Hi, I had been with my boyfriend 4 months and we were totally in love. He has 2 children with his ex and told me he would never go back to her. Two days ago he told me she had asked for another chance and he agreed, he told me they were just tal...
A. 25 March 2005: Sorry, but this guy sounds like a real jerk. If I was you, I would sit and think logically and decide whether this guy is worth all the pain and betrayal. Look sister, by the sound of things you are a great girl. I know from past experien... (read in full...)
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