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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Heyy! Seriously it is the easiest thing in the worldd!
And itss greatt!
juss relaxx andd go withh itt dnt put tooo much tongue in and also dnt open ur mouth too widee!
when u get fed upp juss gently pull awayy!
juss go in like a normal kiss with ur lipss slightly apart!
easyyy!
GOOD LUCKK!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): okay im 14 and when i was 12 i had the same problem. It kind of comes naturally you just go in to kiss like normal but then it will turn into a pull and you know what to do on your own.There isnt really a way to describe it. Because there are many different ways to snog someone,Just go with the flow but dont be preasurred into anything otherwise it doesnt feel right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): hey, i had the same probelm i never snogged anyone or did anything with until darren(my now fiance!) and my advice is you should tell this lad that you have never snogged anyone before and your scared you will get it wrong. if he laughs at you you know he shouldn't be the one you first snog and there is always more boys that will come in and out of your life to experience that with.Don't forget your only 13 years old (and i never experienced that until 17 years old through to not being interested in boys much growing up) and maybe your not ready for that yet but if you are and so want to experience it tell your boyfriend and you never know this time next week you could be kissing none stop and your teacher is telling you off lol. I hope this helps you. Good luck.Keep us posted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): hey im not 13 well i nerly am i spose well im in lik the exsact same sicuation i want to be with this boy but heis gunna want to snog and ive never dun it and havent got a clue how im not scared if he wont lik me no more i jst dont want to look stupid so i jst want you to no dat your not the only one ok thats what i like to think but im still worryed cos every1 else seems to have dun it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): hey im not 13 well i nerly am i spose well im in lik the exsact same sicuation i want to be with this boy but heis gunna want to snog and ive never dun it and havent got a clue how im not scared if he wont lik me no more i jst dont want to look stupid so i jst want you to no dat your not the only one ok thats what i like to think but im still worryed cos every1 else seems to have dun it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): hey im not 13 well i nerly am i spose well im in lik the exsact same sicuation i want to be with this boy but heis gunna want to snog and ive never dun it and havent got a clue how im not scared if he wont lik me no more i jst dont want to look stupid so i jst want you to no dat your not the only one ok thats what i like to think but im still worryed cos every1 else seems to have dun it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): i kinda have the same problem i hav kissed guys but not snogged em... and i dont really know what to do either thats why im on this site lol... u will just have to experiment i guess!!
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reader, fraser836 +, writes (18 June 2006):
hi I'm fraser and I've got the same problem. My girlfriend said to me that her last boyfriend kissed like a fish and I'm scared she will say it about me to!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): i was once in your posiion and flt exactly the right way and i was so scared that i was going to muck it up i wasnt sure if i wanted a boyfriend but trust me on this one just pucker up wait to see what he does first because we all have different ways of snogging then do what he does it will be very scary at first but youll get the hang of it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2006): its easy, just relax and move your mouth around. it will feel a little weird at first but it will soon feel relaxing and normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): no idea i have the same trouble but with a female
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reader, Chazzishep +, writes (29 December 2005):
 Hey i am also 13 and have been in the exactly same situation im out with a boy who has basicly been round the whole school kissing everyone and when i said him i didnt no what to do but there isnt a right or wrong way to kissing just do whats comfertbly to u ok in if he cared he wouldn mind lol good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2005): Depends how you would like it. If he's quite experienced, let him make the first move, and whatever feels comfortable and nice for you, do it. If he puts his tongue in your mouth, massage his tongue with your tongue, and explore his mouth as he does the same with you. Seeing as this is coming from a fifteen year old boy's point-of-view, that's my best advice. I have kissed many inexperienced girls around your age, but once we were both comfortable, it was great. Or you could just say that your not experienced. It's up to you hun :) from Agony Aunt Pingu
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2005): Do it your own way. You may want to let him start and then take turns of control, you may wat to leap right in. No matter what you do, he'll enjoy it and I'm sure you will too! It's nature, just relax and do what your heart tells you. Good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2005): Don't think that... He will like you after it, if not more after it. You will be fine when he starts to go in and kiss you. Just close your eyes and lean in and kiss him.
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reader, sammi +, writes (26 March 2005):
Relax. We have all been there. Many boys and girls have different ways of "snogging". As long as you relax and are not pushed into anything that you do not want to do you will be fine. Believe me sweetheart, good things come to those who wait!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2005): Tell him this, i know you are both young but you never know, he might like to teach you. I enjoyed teaching my girlfriend how to play snooker, you never know so go for it. But please, I have to warn you, don't, whatever you do have unprotected sex! I know you are 13 but these things happen, keep your head screwed on and you will be fine.
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