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I lied about my age, what do I do?

Q.   Hey !!!! I am confused. I met this guy on myspace. i like him, he sounds like geniuine guy. hes a virgin and everything so im not scared of him being a pedophile. I have lied to him about my age. I said I was 16 when Im 14. hes an up and coming f...

A.   3 August 2007: My dear please don’t meet this guy, you lied so he could have too! You don’t know who this person is! You’ve seen a pic he could have got from anywhere and the rest is just writing! I could be a fifty year old man! How would you know? ... (read in full...)

36, still a virgin and have no desire for sex! Am I strange?

Q.   I am 36 years old and still a virgin! I have never had any desire to have sex with anybody! I have never seen a real life woman naked (and have no desire to do so, and I am definitely not Gay!!!) Please can you tell me why people have a deisre for ...

A.   2 August 2007: Yeah man you’re a head case, haha! Thank god for mankind the other 99.9% of us do feel a desire for it, and that our governments and politicians (as stupid as they may be) are not SO stupid as to “ban” sex! In a “pot” - now that’s romantic! ... (read in full...)

I signed up for a dating site and flirted with women, pretending to be one myself; was I cheating?

Q.   So i screwed up big with my girlfriend. Everything has been great with us and i've never been happy. This girl is amazing on so many levels and couldnt ever think of a better woman. But a couple months ago I was bored on the computer and ended up ...

A.   2 August 2007: Hey at the end of the day cheating is one thing – bedrail of trust. I don’t think you can really mess about with all this rubbish of, “you can do this, but not that” If you betrayed her trust you cheated. And I think you did! Naughty boy! You... (read in full...)

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

Q.   Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...

A.   1 August 2007: Why are you in this relationship!? What’s the point of it? Let’s just summarise what you said, - you don’t speak to him - you barely ever see him - you don’t have sex with him - and he’s blatantly cheating - and he keeps telling you he... (read in full...)

My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!

Q.   Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tel...

A.   1 August 2007: i think you should run for it! yours is the worse problem i have ever seen!... (read in full...)

I have to masturbate to climax even after 1-2 hour sex sessions... is this normal?

Q.   I can't seem to ejaculate while having sex i have to masterbate to climax. Me an my fiancee usually have sex for one to two hours and i have to masterbate to climax what could be done to help with this or is it normal. ...

A.   1 August 2007: Wow you’re every woman’s dream! Hey it's only a problem if you think it is! Do you think maybe that you’re always conscious of this "issue" now, and that while having sex you are always thinking about it (even if its in the back of your head) th... (read in full...)

Boyfriend won't get rid of his porn collection. Should I find someone else?

Q.   Another porn question. My boyfriend of 16 months has thousand of porn pics/clips. He says that it was from the years he was single, however all the material he has makes me wonder how long everyday he would look at it and get off to it. When we ...

A.   1 August 2007: hey been reading other peoples answers, everyone’s seems focused on "THE PORN" and everyone seems to agree that guys look at porn and it's fairly normal. But isn’t the issue here with you, you mentioned that it disgusts you and makes you "want ... (read in full...)

Deep inside I believe he will come back to me. What do you think of all these?

Q.   ok i met my ex b/f through the internet and i moved to the city he was studying to live together.It was the best year of my life.he was telling me all the time how much he loves me and he was showing it in many ways and promised after graduating and ...

A.   1 August 2007: I think he's grown bored, but doesn’t want to cut ties completely just encase he changes his mind. Then there you are! Waiting for him! A safety net if you like. Basically I think he's being really selfish! in your heart of hearts - (weather... (read in full...)

I'm missing some excitement.

Q.   I really need help to decide. I have a daughter to my partner of 8 years and we have lived together happily for over 7 years. He is relaible, dependable and everything a girl should need but there is no spark there no more. I have found myself ...

A.   1 August 2007: well you dont really need any help really do you, you have figured it out already. yes as much as people dont like to admit it Relationships run a course, like a river that finally finds the sea. It’s not sad, only natural. Passion and lust fad... (read in full...)

Do not want to risk our friendship.

Q.   Hi I don't really know how to go about asking things like this. My best friend has just finished with her boyfriend of 3 years and I really like her more than a best friend. We're both at university and have helped each other through rough patches ...

A.   1 August 2007: you know what, shes just broken up - she's not going to want another boyfriend just a friend to rely on. THATS YOU! if you like her, be there for HER not YOU. give her what she needs, feelings cant disappear and woman are intuitive, she w... (read in full...)

Sex at 14.

Q.   Am i too young to have sex at 14 ?...

A.   1 August 2007: some people ARE "Mature" enough for sex at 14 or even younger. heck most ancient societies got married at 12 and even younger! People will tell you not to, the “law” will tell you not to, today’s society will tell you it’s wrong and your too... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with wanting a baby at this age?

Q.   I'm 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been having sex and i got worried that i was pregnant then i got my period. And now i want to have a baby! Is there something wrong with that? And how would i tell my mum? She would go crazy. I really Luv my bf an...

A.   1 August 2007: well, you going to feel all over the place for a while, your young - (as much as you hate hearing it, YOU ARE!) so your hormons will get you wanting all kinds of things. what you want one day you may not the next. if your only consern is to ha... (read in full...)

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