I'm 16, she's 13...is the age gap too big?
Q. I am 16 and there is a girl who is 13 who really, and I mean really! likes me. I know her best friend and she has explained how much this girl likes me. I know she is only 13 but appears very mature for her age. To begin with I liked her just as a ...
A. 18 June 2009: this is such a tricky one. if you were 21 and she was 18 i would say there was no problem what so ever but because of legal circumstances and the fact the both boys and girls develope alot both mentally and physically during their early-mid teens i ... (read in full...)
She's started ignoring me for some reason and I don't know what to do
Q. I used this website a few months ago and found everyone who answered a REALLY big help but I'm in another predicament now. Okay just to give you all a general idea of all the details, I have just finished college (messed up in my first year and h...
A. 18 June 2009: i guess you're all right...but i dont get it. i even joked around the other day about some stupid thing her bf does and then i jokingly said "well u sleep with him" and she replied with "dont remind me..." so if she wants to leave him why doesnt ... (read in full...)
Hes clearly not going to stop. How do I tell him I know hes still watching porn?
Q. I'v written on here before, and the advise I've been given is sound advise... It's about porn. My boyfirned used to watch a lot of porn. I'd talk a lot about it to him because I've never undertood the attraction myself. I'd tried watching it with...
A. 17 June 2009: im not even gonna bother reading the details because at the end of the day all men watch porn and all men wank and those who say they don't are liars.
it doesnt matter how much sex we get, we are always gonna want more at some point or another ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to fall for your step cousin?
Q. Is it wrong to fall for a step-cousin? There is absolutley no blood relation. Feelings are intensely growing on both sides. He doesn't see me as family at all. We grew up being taught that we were family, but he doesn't honor the concept. As for ...
A. 17 June 2009: no! nothing wrong with that what so ever. tbh i cant imagine many people thinking theres anything wrong with that.
i say go for it :) and good luck.... (read in full...)
Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?
Q. I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it is...
A. 1 April 2009: Shes my first cousin - I know it is frowned upon by most people but it is perfectly legal in the UK and we are being safe.
I did try staying away but it only lasted 2 weeks and I just ended up going back. ... (read in full...)
Friend receiving threats and demands for money
Q. Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has...
A. 1 April 2009: they cannot legally do that unless she is 18 or older - which she isnt. i would have serious words with her parents... (read in full...)
Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?
Q. I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it is...
A. 1 April 2009: I just relised the start says at the start "but me and my cousins around chirstmas"....i just want to say it was only 1 of them... (read in full...)
We have only ever had dry sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I have "dry sex". I think that is what it is called anyways. I never seen him like -cum... I don't know is that normal? or does he not on purpose - you know for me - or what! He just like stops all of a sudden and then nothing, ...
A. 19 March 2009: wow i didnt know there was a condition like that Mr Me - if i had that i would be sooo freaked out.
but i agree with Mr Me, when a man has "finished" so to speak, you can tell...either he has a condition or he is "beating the meat" (if you get ... (read in full...)
Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some ...
A. 19 March 2009: just dont get worried. hes been going out with you for 10 years cos he likes you, if he wanted you just for the sex he would have moved on long ago.
i know its not exactly the same, but 2 out of the 3 gfs I've had have been fine with me taking o... (read in full...)
Pregnancy and having sex!
Q. I'm 21 weeks pregnant. I know that as long as you are told it's okay to have sex by your doctor you are in the clear. The only thing that I was wondering, and quite embarrassed to ask my doc, is does it matter how rough you do it? My husband and I ...
A. 19 March 2009: haha no! its not like the baby is gonna come down, grab his manly bits and rip them off lol... (read in full...)
Having sex with my first cousin.
Q. Hey Last night me and my cousin got a bit drunk and we started making out, even tho we stopped a few times saying this isn't right.. but still we kept doing it. Today she told me that she wants to have sex with me and that she can't believe s...
A. 18 March 2009: mate i say go for it. ive had sex with my cousin twice now. its totally legal in the uk so theres nothing to worry about :) ... (read in full...)
I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!
Q. My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...
A. 18 March 2009: I don't get it....if having sex with your cousin is legal, why is it considered bad by most people to have a romantic relationship with her/him?
I mean I fancy the pants off of my cousin and we have had sex once but neither of us have told any... (read in full...)
I am too wet "down there". Is that a bad thing for men
Q. I have a problem with getting "TOO" wet even before intercourse. It's always been like this for me. Not with just one person, it happens whenever I get turned on. I mean it can be seen through my jeans. Anyway, my current boyfriend jokingly comments ...
A. 14 March 2009: Trust me by the sounds of it you're perfect. The wetter the better ;) if you are however concerned with being too wet, get in to finger you before intercourse and make sure he makes you cum...and I literally mean squirting (because the fem... (read in full...)
She's a couple days late, but we are so scared. What are the chances?
Q. I live in the US. My GF of 17 months might be pregnant, we had intercourse 7 days ago today. she is worried cause her period was suppose to happen and it hasnt yet. I did use a condom with spermicidial lube..but after i came, i kept going. and i ...
A. 14 March 2009: I wouldn't stress for another couple of days - loads of things can effect periods including stress and even diet. wait a couple more and if it still hasnt then go get a test... (read in full...)
He's younger and I worry this is an issue for him - do I ask him out anyway?
Q. I recently met someone on a course during the course we seemed to just click. I felt really attracted to this guy but at the time he had just started dating someone, so thought ah well he's taken so kind of backed off. 2 weeks later though they ...
A. 14 March 2009: It isn't really as black and white as "ask him out or dont ask him out".
for now the best thing you can do is get to know him a little bit more (say 3-4 months of quality time), then ask him out somewhere romantic. Make sure you maintain... (read in full...)
What was her purpose in telling me about her plans to move out, what is it that she wants?
Q. I have this situation where I started to see someone who was married. She and I got along great and she kept telling me she was getting a divorce. She told me that she was in love with me after a couple of months, but the separation never came. ...
A. 14 March 2009: mate, im saying this as a fellow man....she seems pretty messed up. it seems like shes left her husband just because she wants to rather then because she wants to be with you.
personally to me she seems like "damaged goods" (and yes I know im ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date my step sister? Our parents found out and they want to break either their relationship or ours.
Q. My dad is about to get married and she has a daughter and we really like each other and have been keeping a secret relationship for 2 months. they just found out and they want either their relationship to end or ours. Either way i wont be living in ...
A. 14 March 2009: I think its illegal in most places (I cant remember but I might be wrong) but either way, its not like she's your blood sister. I personally say go for it. ... (read in full...)
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