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I am too wet "down there". Is that a bad thing for men

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Question - (11 March 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a problem with getting "TOO" wet even before intercourse. It's always been like this for me. Not with just one person, it happens whenever I get turned on. I mean it can be seen through my jeans. Anyway, my current boyfriend jokingly comments on this

saying 'This is a world record for him', when he goes down on me he says it sounds like he's drinking 'soup'. Anyway, I'm wondering if excess wetness is a bad thing for men? I haven't asked my bf, because I feel he may not be honest so he doesn't hurt my feelings.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009):

I have the same thing and my boyfriend absolutly loves it!!! so i wouldnt worry about it im sure your boyfriend likes it.

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A male reader, Ricky1989 United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

Trust me by the sounds of it you're perfect. The wetter the better ;)

if you are however concerned with being too wet, get in to finger you before intercourse and make sure he makes you cum...and I literally mean squirting (because the female cum is alkaline which drys the vagina slightly) trust it works :) you sound like on of my ex's ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009):

Every woman's lubrication level is different. Just like every man has a different sized penis. If it really bothers you you could ask your gynecologist on your next checkup if it is anythig to be concerned about. But as your BF goes, I am sure it does not bother him at all.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009):

Oh trust me, its a GREAT thing.. Getting really wet naturally is much better than having to use lube.. its warmer n much more of a turn on for us guys. My gf gets pretty wet too n I love it, coz it shows im doin a good job n just a total turn on in general :) I dont think ur bf would think of it as a bad thing at all

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A female reader, mzconception United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

mzconception agony auntSome men complain that when a woman is " too wet" they cant feel anything! I personally think thats thier problem! ;)

If it feels right and feels good and your both enjoying your sexlife i wouldn't worry about too much "the wetter the better" your boyfriends comment about "soup" is not negative thing it's him thinking out loud! He probably loves the fact that he can get you so wet more than you think!

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A female reader, kaylagal United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

kaylagal agony auntConsider yourself lucky. Like guys say "the wetter the better."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

i am sure he loves it like that.

Also I suspect it means sometimes you have to watch your positions and find those that work best for when you are very wet. (slippy when wet and all that).

Star.x.

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A female reader, welshgoddess United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

I have the same problem. In school the material of my trousers make me wet too so the chair is wet :O :L. Yeah same, even if i'm just going with a boy x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

The absolutely marvelous thing about this is that your b/f never has to wonder if he's doing it for you. Sail on!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (11 March 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntIf it doesn't have an off putting taste/smell there is no real problem. Soup sounds a bit "ewh", but if it is just like saliva during sloppy kissing, well then you can image a bit what it is like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

I agree, I think most guys would enjoy it and find it a turn on.

Also, it saves having to buy any lube! (",)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

I think most men would think it would be aweseome to have a girlfriend like you.

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